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Hello fellow nairalander, I want to appreciate everyone who advised me on my previous realistic story. For those who want to follow here are the links to part 1&2 http://
www.nairaland.com/2360047/im-love-please-
need-advice & https://www.nairaland.com/2367324/im-love-please-need-advice#34607703.
Your advice is appreciated thanks.
I'm in love with a beautiful and adorable igbo girl, She is an epitome of beauty. She always call me since I resumed school. This is what happened between us last week. Last week monday morning was a very happy day for me, I had no lectures so I decided to make nice stew that will probably serve me for 2days, I went to the market to get ingredient for the stew. Not quite long I got back to my room my phone rang, surprisingly she was the one. I eagerly picked the call and we greeted each other normally, she asked me how is my "bae" over there and I replied her saying you mean moyinoluwa? She said oh! She's a yoruba girl and I said yes and very beautiful as you (Note I don't have any girlfriend I just said that base on the advice given to me by nairalanders saying I should leave her since she has a man and so that I shouldn't be friendzone). We both laughed and she said to me so I'm free now? I told her yes, she said to me that the truth is she love me but she can't cheat on her man and I replied her that I respect her for that and she should keep it up (note I hate it when ever she talks to me about her man she's engaged to). But I think I pulled up a childish character telling her that she should pls just give me some break by not calling me often because my girlfriend will not be happy if she sees or hear her call coming in all the time. She said to me ok that she promised not to call me again or bother me again and hanged the call by saying she was sorry to have called in the first place. From that day to date I have not heard from her. Please nairalanders did I do the right thing or should I just call her and apologise to her saying I didn't mean it that way or to be rude to her? I need your advice please.

I guess its android.

Shortyy:
chai!

Hello bae like we have met here before (trying to woo you)

I wonder why God is slow in anger. God come down (earth) quick oooo shey you know your people nau.

zylla:
Word!!!!
I've used the two, I use to have an Galaxy Note 2 and I loved it but when I got the IPhone 5s and jailbreaked it, I was blown out of the water. It's in a different world. The typing is awesome.
Use one to appreciate it

you see. i have used several types of android htc and samsung but when my bro introduced me to iphone mehn it was dope. there are somethings you dont argue about.

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iPhone is the best ever.... People always say sh!!t bout iOS cos they've not use it before. Jailbreak your iPhone and get mad.

snowhyt:
if you were a goat, i will feed you with grass then when you are fat enough na to use you do pepper soup. #just_me_and_my_thought.

I don't mind ooo, after all we will die someday

rezzy:
It's not too late bro

lol, its late joor

titipeters:
laffing out loud # goat? Laffz

lol, I just taya.

mamajaz:
Then I would have killed you to make 'asun' when my dad died few years ago.

lol your own na play.

Its annoying you are just born out of no where, forced to go to school and get an education so you can get a job and pay bills. What if I wanted to be a goat. #Just_me_and_my_thought.

K

2dice:
op this one your are screaming marry ... Marriage ... ** this girl finally Got your passwoRd ...sincerely do you need assurance ...a girl that kiss you ... If she don't like you .... Do u think she will even flash U ... Talkless of call ... Play with her ... Have fun ...** biko don't stalk her ... Talk to other girls ... Let her knw you ve beautiful females around ...NB!! The more you think of winning her over .... The more shakara she will do ...Use your brain not ur D!ck .... I don't wanna see story that touches the bumBum in part 3 .....

yes I think I'm old enough to see I'm near to marriage.....I love this girl and note I'm not a flirt of a guy. I just need an advice on how to totally win her heart. Thanks

adebayour26:
Now that She's engaged, what do u wanna do.

yes that's why I'm here, I need advice on that.

adebayour26:
You shouldn't be pessimistic in ur thoughts.

You are a Student of OAU, freshers av resumed, why don't you go for "catch them young"
Moremi babes are there, Akintola nko, Alumni hall...hmmm, leave another person's wife ooooo

hahahahahahah...you are very funny. Any decent girl you see in OAU are too spiritual (just kidding). The truth is I hardly fall in love. But not like this girl, she's too complete I mean she possesses all the characters I needed in a lady. I love her and I want to be with her. She will soon finish school and my hope is that we get marry someday.

adebayour26:
Do unto others, as you want others to do unto you.
What should happen to her boyfriend?
DON'T BE SELFISH

how are you sure her boyfriend is not even cheating on her?

Hello nairalander, good day. I'm back again, before I start I will like to say a very big thank you to those who read and gave me advises on my previous non fiction event which happened to me. For those of you that want to follow up this is the link to the part 1 https://www.nairaland.com/2360047/im-love-please-need-advice your advices to me is very welcome and appreciated.
Last week Saturday the girl I hope to be my girlfriend or better still my future wife rang me up on my mobile phone. She said its been a while she has heard from me that what's wrong? I told her nothing just that have been busy for sometimes now (she knew I just rounded up my s.i.w.e.s) because I've been typing my report. Note I'm done with anything s.i.w.e.s and report, I made up my mind not to give her any attention or accept any attention from her due to the advice given to me by nairalanders if I don't want to be friendzone. I'm a student of OAU and the section has already commence since last week monday which I told her I will be leaving for school this week friday. She told me she has been bored and will like me to be around her. I told her that I'm not coming to her house except she want to come over to my place if she's really willing to see me. The following day which was last sunday at noon I heard a knock on my gate, though I was sleeping but I struggle to get up to check who's knocking on the gate. Behold here she is looking beautiful, well dress and adorable as always. I told her to come in. She met my mum at the sitting room and greeted her, she was about sitting on the sofa when I gripped her hand and directed her to my room. I was confused that I don't know what to do because I don't have any money on me (I was relying on friends to take me out for evening "paro" no any drink in the refrigerator only bags of pure water and reason was because my dad that normally stock the refrigerator travelled. I told her to excused me, I quickly went to my mum in the sitting room to please and please give or borrow me a thousand naira, which she did. I quickly went to a store opposite my house to get one 5alive and two package biscuit. On getting to my room she has already picked up my laptop and started looking at my pictures (I don't password my laptop) though I have good collections of pictures. I opened and offer I and her the drink and biscuit. She started questioning me about the pictures which I gave answers to all. I switched on the tv in my room we both watched mtvbase together, to my surprise she's very current in music and she told me she loves music than movies, She stood up and danced for a while and I smiled. I called her name and told her my mind that we can't be just friends, I told her I love her and I will like to spend the rest of my life with her, I told her I've been trying to avoid and ignore her just to move on and stop thinking about her only for her to call yesterday saturday because I don't want to be friend zone. I held her hands and lean forward to give her a kiss only for her to move her head backward and smiled and we both smiled. She said nice move, I burst into laughter, to my surprised she held me close and kissed me. She told my that's the most we can go because she's still engaged. I kept on staring at her as she continues watching mtvbase. She told me we should go out this evening. I knew I was not having money on me so I told her my friends are coming over to see me this evening and she said great then I will get to meet them. Later that evening my best friend showed up, I've told him about her before and my friend advice was to forget and let go of her since she's engaged. I took his advice as since he's the kind of guy that flirt around I should just forget about him, he won't understand how I so much love her. I introduced both of them and they met. I told my friend I have no money on me that I was waiting for him to bring money so that we can go out to flex, I said it in the presence of her. She said we should not worry all bills on her, she said I should get dress we are going to ostrich eatery though its the closes eatery in my area. My friend told her why ostrich? Why not our normal joint which is the bar. in me I was angry that my friend was too forward. So she said ok. Though I don't do alcohol but my friend does. We got to the bar and we ordered. As usual I ordered for 2 malts and a plate of pepper meat, my friend asked of 2 smirnoff and a plate of pepper meat too, she ordered same as what I ordered for. We all drank and ate and we left for home. I accompany her to her gate it was past 7 she knocked and the gate man opened the gate. As she was about going in I told her not even a kiss or peck? And she recited it again "I'm engaged". Please nairalanders what can I do or say to make this girl fall for me, I love this girl so much. I believed she kissed me so that I won't feel bad or keep ignoring her and she went out with us because she was bored at home. Please let the advice come in. Thanks to you nairalanders once again.

treasuredm:
Lol.. I. Know enough to know hu will win :Dwin

hahahah you guessed right then.

OCstash:
I think this happened in MARS

guy no VEX me ooo...forzer were rubbed #ParaMode

OCstash:
I think this happened in MARS

guy no VEX me ooo...forzer were rub #ParaMode

owee:
It appears Qsat is not showing today. Can anyone confirm theirs is showing?

yes same at my end

treasuredm:
I hope barca wins

what do you know about football?. Ok who owns barca?lol

And they are crown champions of Europe #in don champions voice#

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2dice:
if u don't make the move ....who will ?? ...she will definitely not ...Man up ... U need to flirt with her ... Online and offline without bringing I want to date her again ...and also get busy with something else .... U don't have to chat with her everyday ... Or call her everyday ....let her miss U alittle sometimes... Don't just be available anytime ....

ok, thanks for the advice I really appreciate.

2dice:
oga no go for her lips direct ooo... ** xcept u go like chop slap** .... By now u guys should be free with eachother ...I mean touching her lightly ... And so on ... Abi na deeplife-broda zone she fix U?

lol, yep we do hold hands but not withstanding I'm still scared making that move. Don't know how she might felt.

2dice:
op seriously .... U don't need this girl to tell you she loves you ... She has shown you the sign that she is available .... All you need to do is ... Play your game right ...Girl that calls you like hell ... Chat you up ...U don't need her assurance ....U just go for the kill ... I bet if u kiss her mistakenly ... She won't freak out .....** u need to get romantic with her ... And also gOoogle new fish ...

ok, thanks for the advice but don't you think I will be taking things too far or fast? If I go for her lips?

starlingslimnet:
Doesn't matter anymore... you got your mind made up.

I still want to know.

starlingslimnet:
Next time she call don't pick it till she get pissed and complain about it then tell him what Cutehector told her ex.That's the best I can give you

what did cutehector told her ex?

Nuisance:
Op, still on the matter? Abeg forget all this flat headed people n go fine better Yoruba babe. You don enta side guy post. Comot chap chap

you can still advice me too.