maikbanj:
Good morning dear Nairalanders,

Thank you for being there in the past with your timely advise(s). I am here again just to get some more on a case.

I have a girlfriend which I plan getting married to as both families are all involved. My girlfriend has had a bad past. She was once abused and all but then I was able to help shape her when I got into her life. I have been there for her in my own little way but lately, she has not been behaving too well and I am not happy about that fact.I will itemize these:

1. She once borrowed her friend her school fees to rent an apartment with the promise the friend was going to pay her back before exams started. Her friend failed to pay her back and I had to provide her with the money in order not to miss her exams. Note, the said friend is a female.

2. Second semester, her pops gave her school fees which I saw the alert. Yea,she travelled down to see me from Lag and she spent some but then I told her she would not have spent her school fees to come see me. Infact at that time I never knew she was going to come because I was sick but she did. So I told her not to touch her school fees again that I was going to refund her the money. She left and I refunded. I paid her flight back to Lagos.

I later found out my girlfriend didn’t pay that school fees. She spent it and when it was time to pay she kept complaining. I was mad at her wondering what she must have used it for. I scolded her and gave her part of the money.(N100k)

3. I have paid several debts for her as she made some mistakes in her online business and was swindled. The most recent one now, she went to get loans from apps online. I don’t even know what would have made her do that as I try assist her when she’s in need. I have warned her severally against borrowing but she went to borrow and now she’s into debt.

I have asked what she used the money for but she can’t even point to one thing. She said she used the initial loan for her personal needs and when she couldn’t pay back, she had to borrow from another app to pay and all. That’s how she kept borrowing to pay another till she borrowed from over 15 loan apps and her debt is running into 350k as at today.

I honestly can’t pay such an amount as I have my own personal problems to carry. I was mad because in the past I have warned her against borrowing and all. Now she’s in trouble and they’ve been threatening her to pay back.

I have told her I don’t have such monies to pay back and even if I had I won’t pay back. I have advised she talk to her parents and siblings about it but she has been scared. I have that money but I can’t pay back as I have more pressing needs to attend to. Since she has refused to tell her parents, I am thinking of telling her parents. I am very close to her family.

This is someone I wanna get married to but with all I’m seeing, I am already having doubts.

She’s from a very good home. Deep down, I love her and she does too. But why these problems, I don’t understand.

Please I seek your advice on how to handle this as I can’t pay such debts. I have done several in the past

Thanks

sarrki:


http://thenationonlineng.net/lagos-apc-tinubu-insists-on-sanwo-olu-for-ticket/

All Progressives Congress (APC) stalwart Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu said last night that his position on the candidates battling for the party’s governorship ticket remains.

Tinubu’s media adviser Tunde Rahman said last night in a statement on Tinubu’s meeting with the President in Abuja:



“Asiwaju Tinubu and Chief Bisi Akande were invited by President Buhari and it turned out to be a good and productive meeting. Asiwaju was quite pleased to have conferred with the President who has always shown himself to be a committed party member and a true democrat.

“Just like the President, he is looking forward to a good and credible primary that is peaceful and free of rancor. As previously stated, Asiwaju plans to vote in this primary and his position regarding the relative merits of the candidates remains unchanged.”

In the race are incumbent Akinwunmi Ambode and former Commissioner Jide Sanwo-Olu. The primary election is today.

Asiwaju said of his choice in a statement on Monday: “I am encouraged by the presence of a candidate in this primary, who has served the state in senior positions in my administration, the Fashola administration and even in the current one. While possessing a wealth of experience and exposure, he is a young man endowed with superlative vision and commitment.

“Most importantly, he understands the importance of the blueprint for development. He esteems it as a reliable and well-conceived vehicle for the future development of the state. He also knows the value of reaching out and working with others in order to maximise development and provide people the best leadership possible. With people like him at the helm, the state will write the proper history for itself.”

In 377 wards across 20 local governments, members of the APC will vote today.

Every card-carrying member of the party is eligible.



There will be no ballot box and ballot paper. Party members will queue behind the posters of their preferred aspirant.

The mode of the primary is “open direct primary”, which involves open and physical counting of members on queue behind the posters of their chosen aspirants.

They will be accredited by 9a.m. Election will take place by 12 noon. Members will show their APC Identification Card. No white slip will be accepted, Chairman Tunde Balogun said yesterday.

Posters of the two aspirants will be held by their agents. After accreditation, party members will queue behind them.

“They will be counted on the queue and recorded. After that, voting ends. The agents of aspirants will sign. Then, the results will be taken to the local governments, the final collation will be done at the state level,” Balogun told The Nation in an interview.
The chairman urged members to troop out to participate in the exercise.

He said the shadow poll will be very transparent and peaceful across the wards, urging members to maintain decorum as they participate in the exercise.”

Ambode is campaigning on continuity. Sanwo-Olu has promised an all-inclusve government – if elected.

Chairman of the electoral panel former Cross River State Governor Clemant Ebri attributed logistics challenge to the shift of the poll from Monday till today.

He told Ambode when he visited the Government House in Alausa: “I also like to apologise for the delay; it had to be postponed as a result of logistics in Lagos, Imo and some other states because of the pressure and work load from the secretariat and other developments that have taken place.”



Raising the stakes on the shadow election, Ebri said: “Lagos is more like a decider and like they say, when Lagos sneezes the rest of the country catches cold.

“So, that is why we are very careful about what we are doing and the National Chairman asked me to send his best wishes to you and ask us to come and do the right thing to the satisfaction of all members.

“Moreso, the President of this country stands for transparency and detests corruption and, a situation where no one feels manipulated.

“The process we are laying out is such that will ensure and guarantee transparency and credibility. We have people of integrity in this panel.

Other members of the panel are: Alhaji Ahmed Mahmud Gumel as secretary; Mr Nze Chidi Duru; Chief Clever Egbeji, Sen. Clever Ikisikpo and Ambassador Jerry Ugokwe.

On the integrity of the members, Ebri said: “These are not rookies in politics; they are people who have been tested. You can see senators, former governors, former deputy governor, former member of the House of Representatives; so, this is a star-studded team.

“I can assure you that we have all the experience that you want and you can think about to conduct this exercise. We assure you of our sincerity and transparency and we seek your cooperation in providing a level-playing field.’

Ambode replied: “I receive this election team as being acceptable and credible to me enough to discharge their civic responsibility to the best of their abilities and to also say that whatever it is that is the outcome of the primaries, your presence has also shown that this will be credible and this will be acceptable to me.”

“So, it is very clear to me, all I seek is credible primaries, transparent primaries and level playing ground that we will all be proud of at the end of the day for the outcome,” the governor said, adding:

“There were issues that we have raised that we are also trying to correct.

“The bottom line is this, we are family, we must not go into the elections divided because this is the very first time that our party is controlling the centre and also the state; that is what I want us to continue.

“The issues that I raised have been put in form of a letter which I will pass to the chairman and I believe the committee will look into it judiciously.

“And also I welcome the stakeholders meeting which will allow you feel the pulse of what is going on in the state.”

The panel’s members attended a stakeholders meeting at the Lagos State APC secretariat in Ogba last night to perfect the planning for the election.


Ambode needs to beat Tinubu at his game. One little move will kill the king. Wisdom is...........

bluecircle470:


You surely have a medical record at gbagada psychiatric hospital

YoungLionken:
Scam Alert: Yahoo Boys are at it again, pls beware!

Upritman:
@SuanusBlog

After much wait by Nigerians, the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC) last week informed applicants on the notifications on successful applicants and the commencement of its nationwide recruitment screening exercise through a released time-table for applicants who applied for the corps’ recruitment into the different Cadres.

Suanu’s Blog recalls that a statement by the Corps Public Education Officer, Bisi Kazeem, disclosed the screening time-table for its screening and physical fitness assessment on recruitment which will commence on Sept. 24 and end on Sept. 29th 2018.

Earlier, applicants were urged to check their email addresses to confirm receipt of mails from September 19th, 2019. However, many Nigerians waited curiously in vain as many never saw the mail that day. Subsequently, applicants began to confirm the receipt of the invitation mails.

With the recruitment exercise starting today, Suanu’s Blog has noted a disturbing difference in the invitational mails that raises the fears of fraudulent individuals already infiltrating the process.

A deep analysis of two sampled invitation mails shows glaring differences in the format, style and write-ups on the mails.

Suanu’s Blog particularly noticed the differences in the following areas:

Date and Venue: while the scheduled date was written expressly on some invitational mails, some other ones had that not stated at all. Also, while some mails contained the venue peculiar to an applicant specifically mentioned, some others had a link in the mail sent to them, which redirects them to a list of all the venues and dates in the 36 states of the federation and the FCT.

Name: The individual names of some applicants were stated alongside their registration numbers, others simply showed, “Dear Applicant”.

Date of Mail Receipt: While some mails were received as early as 20th of September, Suanu’s Blog noticed that some other persons received theirs just yesterday; some very late in the night.

Requirement for entry into the recruitment venue: Suanu’s Blog also noticed a slight grammatical discrepancy in the requirement to be allowed into the venues. While some mails indicated “Printout of summary data page OR email notification”, others said “Summary data page AS WELL AS this email notification.

The above noticed differences among few others have raised the dust about the possibility of a fraud as it is unexpected for a mail believed to be sent from same source to have different bodily content.

A verification of the authenticity of the invitational mails is necessary to save applicants from suspicious fraudulent possibilities, embarrassment at recruitment venues and probable logistical inconveniences when relying on a likely FAKE invitation.

If you received the invitational mails, kindly cross-check for these issues raised and share your comments below.

(c) http://www.suanusblog.com/2018/09/frsc-2018-recruitment-different-email.html

chocolateme:
Is that a city blueprint I am seeing so? Hahahahaha.. the guy on top buying kpomo..it is well with you.
Blueprint but I see a kindergarten drawing, architects can tell better. anyway all join.


Am back to ma original position FTC

ifeness:
He thinks the money will go to God? Kumuyi the tax collector at it again