VillagePipu:


I am very stupid. One will think I will avoid the stupidity of my useless father, but instead i combined the stupidity of both parents and I'm carrying it on my coconut head like a chieftaincy title.

Babaflenjor:
My wife packed out of the house before I returned from work this evening ,no fight , no quarrel I didn't get myself RIT now

ThatFairGuy1:
What's this Nonsense about! Have conscience and respect the dead. YOU'LL ALSO DIE

kingsleyugo41:
because of her attitude and unfaithfulness

Henri8:

You are twisting it.
Do not assume every married man/woman is matured. Many are very immature while many singles are more mature in character than many married folks.

I believe English no too hard to understand.

Henri8:
Your analogy is very faulty. Marriage doesn't make one a man or matured. I am married and i know this fact.

edoairways:

Thank God for your humility however this generation lacks it. Though op looks like a womaniser, his mind is not made up. Should he get married, he will continue this habit to the detriment of his marriage.

Emmani360:

Ode what does it mean for someone to have a childish mentality.

If you don't understand having a childish mentality as being mentally immature then you are even more immature than i thought.

You are the one who lacks understanding

Techguy96:

Lol, many Nigerians will agree with you, more reason why the country is backward. Before u act on anything, don't u think about first, as a man think, so he is.

Y'all have too poor mentality. Sorry to say.

lexy2014:


What is he proving to himself?

What's ur definition of "waking up"? What makes u think he hasn't woken up?

Semaj77:



Ironically you seem to be referring to most people , like you , in Africa , who have come to accept the foreign religions like Christianity and Islam while rejecting your own traditional religions , who is being selective here . You accept their religions , their technologies , their science and even their language but refuse to accept some of their societal norms.

RodgersAkpafu:

Which proves my point about you

edoairways:

One of the reasons why marriages crash is what op raised. This is a verifiable fact

RodgersAkpafu:
That's all you and your type have to say. When you have nothing else to say

scrolldown88:


Listen, you mistake my point. People don't have to be married to prove to society that they've grown. It's wrong to pressure them to, and even more wrong to shame them for not getting married.
Because you have a better life and in a position to afford getting married, doesn't mean people who can't afford it or simply rather avoid the complications of marriage for whatever reason are kids.
Getting married is a decision, at least for most men. For women it's not 100% in their hands because they can't simply will themselves to be married, will you say they are irresponsible too?

Stop shaming people for deciding to get married just because you are. And you are most certainly not a higher individual on simply on account of you being married

RodgersAkpafu:
Imagine what this one is writing

DoggoneDogg:



Verily verily I say unto you, My stupid mother and my useless father are dumb.

RenerdsMedia:

lots of responsibility out there begging to be taken care of, must you follow crowd?

Skullano:


Marriage is not a must, let's stop pushing ourselves for nothing..

mmsen:


Marriage is no sign of maturity or being responsible. The two have nothing to do with each other. One is a societal convention, the other is a trait.

Nigeria is full of people who are married yet woefully ill equipped to be in a relationship or raise children.

Kaeboy:


Man! You're drifting out of the topic and speaking nonsen se confidently.
We're talking about marriage, you claim in your first post a man who refused to marry is irresponsible and immature and now you're talking about a 35yr old man who still lives and feed under his parents roof.

In your bid to proof unmarried men are irresponsible and immature, you end up saying things that doesn't tally with what we're saying.

To put it straight to you or people that think like you, marriage doesn't signify maturity or responsibility. Say you marry born pikin full ground no mean say you dey responsible. Stop calling unmarried men irresponsible. People make decisions for reasons best known to them. No be everybody wan marry, some are not married but responsibility they shoulder is more than what some married people calling them irresponsible shoulder.

Techguy96:

Omo see mentality, so poor.
No wonder the country is not progressing.

Glycolite:


You sure you're not "forcing " him to go get married ?
That the mental game you're playing here is not obvious to you doesn't take away the fact you're trying to employ shaming mechanisms to actually force him to go into marriage.

I got absolutely no business if he chooses to get married or not,but I hate when people claim they are not forcing you to succumb to a certain choice but are doing exactly that by trying to Manipulating you to do their bidding,though being covert about that.

You're playing mind games with him,and yes, you're actually forcing him to go get married so to hold unto some slavery tag of what it means to be a responsible adult ,by society standard.