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You are not being firm in your marriage. Blaming your wife for losing your job is not quite right, unless she has spirit husband. First, you don't need her to be present before consulting a strong man of God to bare all that she is hiding. Hiding because, I think all is not clear. She either has something to hide or is an abiku or ogbanje of advanced type. I will not blame you for not discovering her during courtship. Most guys and ladies only show their true self once in marriage. Have you had any medical examination to confirm you are fertile? If not, do so. Show her the results. If you are fertile, then the problem is either from her or there is some spiritual issues. If you can confirm yourself, you will be narrowing down on the puzzle. If you have fertility issues, most often, this can be treated. If both of you have issues, adoption of a child would be a good idea, if treatment option is foreclosed. Avoid placing your self or marriage under undue pressure for children. It can ruin everything. How sure are you that some intrinsic issues relating to delayed childbirth weren't complicit in your job loss, in your wife's seeming un-cooperating behaviour, etc? Get to the bottom of the matter. You alone have the key! |
Disgusting! Makes me want to throw up! |
Teach them Hausa and all will be fine. Igbo and Yoruba are just to make it look nationalistic. |
Benita27:True. Money miss road. He was lucky he wasn't kidnapped and killed to close everything. So risky and stupid a transaction. Haba. |
This is sure to happen to girls who open their legs outside marriage. If you give a guy a stern option of marriage before sex, he will surely scram if not serious. The scenario however doesn't justify prostitution. If you felt used once, why open your legs again when the sweet talker is nowhere near the altar? |
This was how BIG Wallace and Tupac Shakur destroyed themselves with rivalry. Whizkid and Davido better steer clear of contentions and close ranks. |
Gulderbottle85:A note of caution. Do not confront him carelessly or you will jeopardize the little girl all the more and make things messier. I suggest you lodge an anonymous report to child protection agencies with full details as soon as today. They know what to do. If you confront him, will you separate the girl from him later? |
4. Avoid premarital sex. 5. Say NO to abortion. 6. Say NO to self-medication. 7. Regular Check up. |
Evaberry:It is morally wrong and reprehensible. For a prostitute, it might sound like nothing. But for a married woman, it is abhorrent. In some Igbo clans, the act alone can take the life of the husband if he is aware but condones it. The woman is not safe either. |
ivolt:Emeka Ojukwu jnr is not the first son. He is however the first son by Njideka Ojukwu. Chukwuemeka Odumegwu-Ojukwu's first son is Chief Sylvester Debe Odumegwu-Ojukwu
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badoh:He ought to have punished the woman instead - but not by killing, if this were the case. Did these children bring themselves into this world? What crime did they commit?? |
A good example of faithful and loving marriage in spite of celebrity status. |
Not just Ebonyi state alone. A periodic reappraisal of all healthcare practitioners in the country is imperative. So many deaths are due to quack or ill-trained practitioners masquerading as certified medical doctors. Doctors in Nigeria too need to increase their academic proficiency by acquiring higher degrees! |
positivelord:I do not know what is funny here! Someone is looking for their loved one and it sounded funny to you. Too bad!!! |
Sharp9:Not sure we are all born equal though determination is important. Some people are born to very poor parents hence limited outlook from birth. While others are born to very rich parents. Again, are we to believe that successful people like OBJ from very poor background were the most determined in their generation? |
Baptistz:Very nice and determined of you. But I am witness too that some men of God/ psychics did predictions about people which came to pass, mainly positive things. I think the negatives are avertible just like the positives can be carelessly lost. |
Baptistz:Good. But why are people able to foresee the future? |
Nairalanders, please can you shed light on this conundrum? Looking back at my journey in life so far, I cannot with certainty say that things I have achieved were what I set out to achieve ab initio. I had a different career plan. But one way or the other, I find myself at odd tangents with prior fixations. I have studied the life of eminent personalities. Almost all of them admitted foreknowledge of their preeminence even when nothing suggested it in the beginnings. Is it that we subconsciously plan another thing while consciously preoccupied with some other? Is it that what you are planning for the future is what the future is planning for you, as posited by some schools of thought? Or we are predestined? Please let knowledgeable sources help illumine this puzzle. cc Lalasticlala cc Mydn44 |
Elxandre:I second you. We are predestined. If you read closely, Churchill envisioned not merely dreamt. He foresaw a turbulent Europe with himself as leader. It was not an imagination. He was chosen and somehow he got to know by divine impartation. |
NIGERIA: BEYOND FOSSIL FUEL Recently, Minister for Science and Technology, Dr. Ogbonnaya Onu, stated the Buhari administration’s resolve to institute research into crude oil fingerprinting to solve crude oil theft. Two things struck me in this statement: First, the fixation on fossil fuel in a world of fast-depleting reserves and alternative energy; secondly, the banality of crude oil fingerprinting – available in almost all International Oil Companies in Nigeria and which ought not to engage the state as though it were some uncharted science. It is appalling that we are not alarmed at the current world environmental trends and the dwindling fortunes of crude oil in the international market, with major importer countries like China and the United Kingdom openly declaring embargo deadlines. It is appalling that we sit on the fence lazily shrugging shoulders at the hurricane devastations in overseas countries in naïve oblivion of our own vulnerability. With the crippling effects of earthquakes, floods and hurricanes, it is clear that imbalances in the seismology of the earth are of crass proportions. We have never asked ourselves these pertinent and unnerving questions: What is the seismic consequence, if any, of the vacuity left by depleting reservoirs? Is fracking, as used in the United States for crude oil extraction, culpable for the devastating hurricanes across cities in that country? Are we immune to environmental upheavals? With first world economies overwhelmed by earth cataclysms, how prepared are we in the event of whole cities being swept overnight leaving debris and monumental displacements? If crude oil sales are embargoed by leading importer countries as could be the reality in a few decades, how will Nigeria’s economy be sustained? While scientists in more staid economies are busy researching into nano-architecture, liquid biopsy, mega scale desalination, electric-powered aircraft, ultra-high-economy thorium-powered engines, we are in the ridiculous realm of oil prospecting in the Lake Chad basin (in spite of falling oil prices and glut elsewhere); and in the realm of pencil production and crude oil fingerprinting. Thorium-powered cars did not require refuelling. Plausible or implausible, feasible or not, these countries are already looking beyond fossil fuel. Not even the drastic cut in oil prices has keyed our leadership into the necessity for diversification of the economy. The nations’ budgets, beyond the hyped drama of inconsistencies, are constantly off the cuff in sectorial allocations. The educational and science and technology budgets are parsimonious reflecting no recognition of the imperative needs of these sectors. The most painful aspect in our dystopia is that we have enough human and material resources to be a first world economy. There are various cerebral Nigerians lost to developed economies, whose talents and ingenuity, if properly synched, would help revolutionize Nigeria and bail us out of the seemingly intractable quagmire. The Buhari administration came in nonplussed by an organized ferment of crimes, corruption and insurrections. Two years and counting into his tenure and having sallied above the teething challenges, it is time to roll out a cardinal blueprint to bail Nigeria out of over dependency on crude oil. This is the duty of no less a Ministry than Science and Technology under the imitable Dr. Onu. It is time to harness our very best for the betterment of Nigeria and Nigerians. Luckily, beyond petroleum, crude oil has applications in innumerable range of exportable end-products. In medicine, penicillin, a widely used anti-biotic, can be manufactured from chemicals, derived from petroleum products. Acetylsalicylic acid (ASA) made from petrochemicals, is an active ingredient in many of the familiar, over-the-counter pain remedies. It is estimated that over six thousand end products are derivable from petroleum waste by-products. These includes ammonium fertilizers, which utilizes methane from natural gas; vitamin capsules, soaps, petroleum jelly, insecticides, anaesthetics, cortisones, tyres, plastics, detergents, dyes, linoleum, among many others too numerous for this space. It is necessary that Nigeria takes the leading role in instituting well-funded research centres in our country with an eye for the future. Findings from these centres would form the bedrock of the industrialization policy of the government, with a view to making Nigeria an exporter of products other than crude petroleum and not the wholly importer nation we are today. To remain relevant in the quickly shifting tides of world economy, we must be proactive and pre-emptive, which we clearly lack in today’s computation. Engr. Clarius Ugwuoha, Egbema, Rivers State. http://thenationonlineng.net/beyond-fossil-fuel/ lalasticlala mynd44 |
GeneralOjukwu:This is NOT what the bible said. Be careful. Deuteronomy 12:32 What thing soever I command you, observe to do it: thou shalt not add thereto, nor diminish from it. Proverbs 30:5-6 Every word of God [is] pure: he [is] a shield unto them that put their trust in Him. Add thou not unto His words, lest He reprove thee, and thou be found a liar. Also study Rev. 22: 19-19. |
Explorers:Avocado pear
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Explorers:Avocado pear |
aaronson:You are a disaster for mocking God. Delete this nonsense. Einstein's intelligence was a favour from God. You are so crazy in comparing a mortal to an omniscient God. Haba. |
Last couple is cutest. |
Yankiss: |
REMEMBERING ABIOLA, written over a decade ago. (Chief MKO Abiola issue finally finds closure. Democracy won!) Basking in the euphoria of our nascent democracy, there is the tendency to forget the dreary days of military dictatorship and the heroes of our present emancipation. It is, however, inexcusable that Nigerians have so easily consigned Chief Moshood Kashimawo Olawale Abiola to the trashcan. It is more awful that successive Governments, since his demise in questionable circumstances, have refused to absolve themselves of moral complicity, by according Chief Abiola his rightful place in the historical development of Nigeria. Not a single national monument has been raised in honour of the man who only a few years ago bestrode this terrain like a colossus, the man whose blood watered the path to bourgeoning democracy in Nigeria. It is quite predictable that without Abiola’s struggle the military would still hold the forte. It is a sad and tearful reality that the African pillar of sports, the forerunner of our present democratic experience, the man who clothed the naked, airlifted pilgrims and sportsmen alike, the philanthropist extraordinaire whose eventful life touched off on every nook and cranny of Nigeria, remains forgotten and deserted in death. The June 12 1993 presidential election was signalized. It remains a historical watershed in our polity. For the very first time, Nigerians voted massively in a threat-free atmosphere, not only choosing a Southerner, but also endorsing a Muslim-Muslim ticket. This in itself was proof of the reach and penetration of the Abiola personality. Prior to the elections, Nigeria was in the grasps of iron-cast dictatorship. Through mind-blowing prevarication, and foot-dragging we finally arrived at an election that must remain a national standpoint. But the very proponents tactically stymied the actualization of the June 12 mandate. They deserted Abiola and embraced a placatory, counterfeit mandate. The beneficiary of that largesse with only the military oligarch as his constituency ran riot. The rest is history. Upon Abiola’s demise, an insensate country was for once scandalized. The national hysterics, however, quickly whittled down to isolated protests, then to complete quiescence. The spontaneous outrage was real, the ensuing blackout inexplicable. Abiola went under, into the catacombs of our forgotten heroes, as swiftly as our collective volatility, only reappearing yearly as an appendage of the June 12 memorial. Chief MKO Abiola is a hero forgotten, sadly, by even those levered up the heady heights of power by his historic struggle. Was Abiola an accident of history, a parenthesis, a sad reminder of our circuitous path through time? Was Abiola a meteor whose tempestuous flash through our stygian polity was just a brief interpose? History will not forgive our complicity of silence in refusing to accord Chief Abiola his rightful place in the history of our great country. Chief Abiola died betrayed and forsaken by his very cheerleaders, who quickly re-embraced his detractors and consigned him to the archives. Have Nigerian players, in the elation of their current enhanced conditions, for once stopped to ponder over the gory fate of that great man to whom they cried for succour in the dreary days of yore? Where are the virulent national critics who stampeded Chief Abiola against nefarious military juntas? It is disgraceful that these critics are not leading protests for recognition and immortalization of the late industrialist and politician. It is shameful that these critics who knew from Abacha’s antecedents the ordeal that awaited Abiola in his gulag, yet goaded him on, are today unperturbed at the scruffy treatment of their erstwhile hero. Not even the lead, from a USA court, of probable complicity of the government then in his death could spark that storm of outrage of before. Our collective reflex as a nation is so unexcitable as to be on the edge of catalepsy. In a more responsible polity, Abiola would have assumed the toga of a national metaphor. His birthday would have been in celebration as a national holiday and his tomb would have been recast as a national monument. Mr. Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela of South Africa, whose ordeal in Robben Island drew the attention of the entire world to the apartheid cataclysm in South Africa, remains immortalized while alive. Steve Bantu Biko of the same country, who, as a young black consciousness student activist, was wasted in prison by the agents of racial segregation, lives through the years. Dr. Martin Luther King junior, felled in his prime for fiery civil rights activism, remains canonized in the USA with motley of awards most of them posthumous, honorary degrees and, according to some sources, with over seven hundred cities naming streets after him! Our loss of collective values is the crux of the matter. Streets are named after looters of the economy. Monuments are raised in honour of those who caused us so much pain and losses, who, by their omissions and commissions, led to marked reconfiguration of our collective psyche, spurning militants and criminals alike – for, yes, these are creations of our very system. How else do you justify the defeated proposal by the Ekiti State Government to immortalize the late Gen. Sani Abacha, not even on the more obvious ground that he looted the economy and caused us so much pain, but that he (sic) created Ekiti State! This incomprehensible proposition was coming at a time the lesions of his autocratic reign were still fresh, some of them subject of court proceedings in nearby Lagos. Who do we forgive this gaffe? Where are the monuments raised in honour of Chief Obafemi Oyeniyi Awolowo, whose free education in then old Western Nigeria gave Ekiti State her first crop of intellectuals? Where are the lofty headstones for Chief Michael Adekunle Ajasin, who presided over Ekiti as part of old Ondo state and who, at the military tribunals of 1983, was about the only civilian found not to have corruptly enriched himself? That is not a virtue actually, not a sign of emulative good breeding. It belonged to the same trashcan as Abiola’s martyrdom and the death of his wife, Mrs. Kudirat Abiola for our political liberation from the military oligarch. Smarting from his irreparable losses and taking thought for the demerits of intransigence, it is this incongruous logic of ours that made Kolawole Abiola, the eldest son of the late sage, to wisely shun untoward controversies. He did not want to be buoyed up and deserted mid-air, to be applauded to self-destruct in broad day and laughed to scorn in the confines of darkness. Abiola’s sudden loss of caste, if not, total eclipse from our scheme of things begs urgent rectification. The late sage should be accorded the full privileges, even in death, of an ex-head of government. This is not asking too much against the backdrop of his uncommon sacrifices at the altar of our nascent democracy. Chief Clarius Ugwuoha writes from the Ezeali Palace in Egbema cc lalasticlala Mynd44 Sarrki NwaAmaikpe |
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This wastage of human life is demonic and inexcusable. How did we get here? Professional colleagues against professional colleagues. Violence mentality. Killing spree. It is not as if these fallen officers are fowls. They are adults with families. One thoughtless moment of ego trip, they are brought down with a line of dependents bereaved in this hard country. Why wouldn't these officers take their conflict and suspicions to the nearest police station? |
Xcelinteriors:Mercy is not around and can't be found. He should be treated the same way he treated a hapless neighbour's daughter. Too sad and pathetic. |
Elf912:It is obvious you did not read the story properly or patiently to the end. It is as clear as day and no super story. The lady was murdered by a fiancé she intended to jilt. The man himself committed suicide. |
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