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All the juicy positions zoned to the north while the south-south got just d deputy speaker's position
Indeed, john oyegun is just a puppet in the hands of the pay masters

After all the international jujus wey participate come like Naija pass their own country, dem no gree go back again. Since then, jujurism has gone to a whole new level

Eccl 5:5 says,"it is better not to make a vow, than to make one and not keep it."

It is not your responsibility to tell the world the wrong another man has done. Yours like I said earlier is to advise and encourage him to open up just as he has done to you. Most times, when people tell you something bad they had done, it is because they trust you'll be able to advise them a right.

But if you are having troubles with such secret, what you can do is confide in someone superior to you. But you won't tell him that Mr A did so and so. That's wrong. You can put it in form of a general question eg let's say someone did this and that and he told you and the thing is becoming an issue and you are troubled about it, what should you do? That superior by wisdom would decipher what you are saying and be able to encourage you on the proper step to take.

You might even need to advise that person that has the secret to seek help from people above you.

It is a different case if someone did wrong and then he's trying to deny it when you caught him doing it and when someone came to confide in you.

But in HIV matter, every wife has the right to know the status of her husband. So if the man is positive for eg and can't tell his wife, he can delegate you to do it for him or you invite both of them and after counselling them, you inform her.

But in the case of an abortion, say a lady had an abortion before marriage and she told you, and as a result they can't have children. Even if it is your brother's wife, you are not permitted to tell him. You can only encourage her to do and once she has done it, you can begin to encourage your brother on steps to take for healing. Even if it is adultery in marriage. That's how strong a vow is.

eddydey:
You mean even at the risk of some one life you still keep the secret?

Ezekiel 3:17-21, 33:7-9. It is. Just like you testing someone and discovering that he has HIV. The only person you are permitted to tell another person's HIV status is your superior. During counselling, that person will be encouraged to tell their partner or invite their partner over for joint counselling during which they'll be advised and properly counselled.

But you can't decide on your own to expose a secret on any ground.

See dat badbelle arsenal fan for up there hanging by the building after we win the league, you go know how

But why always India

From your writeup, it is obvious you never loved her. What you had was strong likeness(which is often dependent on certain conditions eg (her looks, sex appeal, actions etc) but the truth is this; you can't have perfect marriages. But your marriage is what you make it to be.

The question is this: what kind of marriage do you want? What is lacking now? What can you do to put those things that are lacking into your marriage?

The first thing to do, is to begin to change yourself with respect to your wife. It is quite glaring that you are more interested in the physical and the things that you want to see. You don't consider how own side.(That's likeness for you. It is always about what "I" want) who doesn't know that it is normal for a woman to put on weight after birth? Does that mean we should run away from our spouses? Certainly not. If you feel she's not exciting intimately, you can help her as a husband. Get her books that teach on such matters, speak to her about it, if you have an elderly couple that you confide in, speak to the wife about it. Afterall, you said she was a virgin so obviously she wasn't experienced in that aspect of life. The home she came from might have also miseducated her on issues bothering on intimacy so it may not be entirely her fault.

Like is selfish (always about what I want) love is sacrificial( what's best for us) why not begin to see things from her angle and look for solution rather than lose interest in her?

Btw, marriage is about what you are bringing into the other person's life to complete him or her. This is your chance to bring something. Don't lose it.


NB: no matter how hot and steamy a relationship may be at first, slowly the initial passion fades and if there's nothing else to take its place, then........................

That's for him. As far as I'm concerned, Hazard is the man.

I've been a counsellor for some years now and I can tell you that Keeping secret is not a sin. On the contrary, it is the leaking of the secret that's a sin. Even if someone comes to you and confesses that he stole or killed, it is not your responsibility to expose him. Yours is to counsel him and make him see the reason why it is important to confess(Rom 10:10).

But if he chooses not to confess, you leave him to his conscience. The only time you are permitted to reveal such secret, is with his/her permission.

No! He's a backslider. He's still conscious of the existence of God and believes in Him. But he's finding it hard to separate himself from the things of this world.

Except if of course, he denounces Christ as his Lord.

OP must be high on fresh garlic

You can't change people by what you do or don't do. People can however be influenced by your actions and then they decide to change. It is their decision(freewill) you don't force it on them.

But for your friend, she doesn't need an angel to come down from Heaven and tell her she'll do better being by herself.

As for the Love(or likeness), she'll certainly love another. No be this kind matter person suppose dey knack head for palm tree over na

You wey already know say you correct

egift:
After rigging comes a plan.

So the entire campaign was based on Hate, violence, attack Amaechi, lie about Buhari/APC, rig the election and Patience Jonathan's quest to install her stooge.

The election had nothing to do with Wike's Manifesto.

hahahaha the same way the 1.9m votes in Kano and all the states won by APC had nothing to do with manifesto but Buhari's influence

We believe in your NEW ideas Mr Governor

Gloria in. elCHELSEA in elCHELSEA deo

I thought they said he was poor? That doesn't look like a poor man's bedroom to me o

This is Nigeria! The heartbeat of Africa

During his pre-match conference, lvg said the game will end in a draw. Meaning he wasn't sure of his team's ability from the start.

Ehen, now I can sing to mourinho.

Mourinho! Mourinho! Mourinho!
The special one, the only one
He's mourinho!
You hate him, or you don't
The truth is you fear him
You hate him, or you don't
The truth is you fear him
Because he's Mourinho mourinhoooo

At the end of 90mins, the only thing that matters is who won.

Arsenal come collect next week

Herrera is a thief.

Drogba master of delay tactics

Mikel my man o

It is either the lines men have eye challenge or they use expired AVG anti virus

Na wa o! 1min and garret bale don injure himself. Wayo kudi na

Who get super glue abeg make we put for drogba shoe so dat him go dey stand on his feet

Na wing tins man u wan use now o

No not oscar

uzolexis:
I was already celebrating sef

don't stop the celebration. We'll soon make it 2