₦airaland Forum

MisterKings:
Truth is single fathers are scarce

ubunja:
here's the thing; what do you want from a single mother that a single girl can't give you?

Sex? [b]Single girl gives it better cause that punay is tighter and sweeter cause no big baby head went through i[/b]t

Love? Single mother only loves better cause she's doing it to get you to support her calf.
And if a woman with another man's child can love you nicely, imagine then, how much sweeter and nicer will be the love of a woman whom YOU give a baby.
Your own babymama. She will love you to bits. Forever.

eni4real:
More reason why a young ambitious man should stay away...
Allow single mothers to marry single daddies or become a second wife in an established family...

By that, everyone will exercise their maternal and paternal instincts in peace.. Nobody will be deprived of love...

A young ambitious man should not marry a lady he didn't make a woman!!!

Bridget95:
It is called 'maternal instinct ' .A single mother's child is all she has and must protect he/she.Mothers are generally emotional attarched to their children.

AkpaMgbor:
Dated one, it was the most debilitating and emotional tormenting relationship I've ever been in! She even took our relationship to nairaland! Heck she took her baby father's case to the entire cyberspace! Single mothers have one thing in common....INSECURITY...try as a hard as you may, you will continue to hit a brick wall...

degamemaster:
Not all bro, pls be careful cos so many of them are manipulators and emotional blackmailers. Take it easy and check very well. Good luck...

Ugosample:
your first paragraph tho

It is the culture of encouraging men to be irresponsible that is to blame for the shithole behaviour prevalent in NiggerArea.
Assuming men are mandated to pay child support for their "irresponsible act of getting a lady preheat that they are no married to" for example

all these talk won't even be popping up in the first place

I wonder wfy people think it's okay for a single dad to be not responsible for his child
it's just weird how people think in Nigeria

Toks2008:
Because most of them will pour their responsibility on the man.

I hear many single mums say anyman that will be with them must be ready to take care of her n her child..n I wonder where the father of the child is.

Secondly they tend to put too much emphasis on the child and less focus on the man....i can go on and on but I don't mind a hot looking single mum that is not too demanding.

I remember writing a thread about single mums.

https://www.nairaland.com/2532999/8-words-advice-unmarried-single

RyanD147:
Speaking from experience
Dating older women or single mothers has been the most interesting relationships I’ve ever had. They know what they want, and love genuinely.

You see all this our age mate dem, they’re still confused about what they want.

I am open to dating older women/single mothers.

Jiang:
Actually I really don't mind dating single mothers, but they must not be a product of divorce. Assuming her husband passed away, no biggie I go marry her & take the kid as my own. of course the kid should not be above 10, be ready to call me daddy & carry my name as his surname



Infact, in d near future I plan to anonymously take care of several orphans without them knowing who is sponsoring them.

Myde4naija:
i got married to one and I appreciate hell fire than her.

frozen70:
Of which you are going to be one of the loosers

ubunja:
men will do anything for a secure source of sex.


That gives us impregnators the assurance that the women we impregnate will find losers who'll save them. So it's not all bad.

My goal is by this time next year to have 3 more babymamas. There's no shortage of step fathers out there.

hayzed1090:
As much as I don't see my self settling with one... I don't see any thing wrong in it especially when you are ready to love her regardless of her past. Furthermore , some single mother will be a better wife than even marrying a virgin

pcguru1:
Bro I think that's a wrong approach to life mehn, sometimes you meet people who make you happy, I mean I see nothing wrong with a single mother or father as long as they treat you well and with respect. Do we say single ladies should avoid single fathers too ?

Funkyswagzz:
I just get put off once I hear u have given birth

Joystark:
Because some of them do not have sense.

palmshots:
U Dey mind them.. Abeg which football match starts with 1:0?

larryking540:
dating them isn't a problem, but will u let ur son date a single mother?

watin make her b single mother in d first place?

in this era of my husband slap my face, the next thing is I am packing out of d hux, or my husband cheat on me, like say their papa no cheat on their mama,(though I am not in support of cheating) but getting down with a single mother there are lot's of questions u should ask, if fact their question paper pass the one of a single lady,

DonEd:
Dating them isn't bad but be rest assured that u will be partly if not wholly responsible for the upkeep of their child/children.

This means if u were supposed to give ur girl upkeep cash that should last for one week, expect her to come knocking again in 3 days.

My take though.

Kazeemakeem:
For me single mum are the best,they must have learn from past experience

samisj4real:
Is it that no girl gets attracted to short guys at first sight?�

All I'm seeing here is Tall, Tall & Tall.

onlinetomola:
Am dating one and I love her... Nothing is wrong with that.

Yinabim:
His physique , his charisma and neatness all comes first after which I will lookout for intelligence and of course financial capacity , when he fails in the latter it automatically disqualifies the former .

Jaysleeves:
Truly many are mad but few are roaming. SMH

Diamond23:
chaii, my kinda topic
Keep dem rolling in

VRDroid:
I am humble and very kind, but I am now running away from ladies who love me for that.

The reason is simply because we attract too many parasites and again, it is hard to escape the ladies because of the same humility and kindness. The highest number of girlfriends I have had at a time being 27.

How can I be mean? I wanna be mean with ladies now.

Oluwadamilare118:
Well, most of the time I prepared for such, it always doesn't add up, I will just free style it.

Here's my admonition;

"Don't commit a suicide because of a seemingly love ❤️ emotion, commiting a suicidal does not really worth it, many are there seeking for you"

It hurt me when a living soul rest in perfect peace because of breakup in a relationship.

Ire o!

DaBogu:
You can't serve two masters at the same time. Nature will surely affect you.