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It's actually a big deal, especially after seeing the way she responded

jrusky:
And to the poster of this post this is a news or what we should waste our data on

Pls try to understand not everyone in Nairaland are indomie kids for goodness sake.

Post responsibly or quit posting kindergarten craps. No offense pls just a honest advise.

Inflammatory:
You are not serious o. You don't turn FBI on poo matter��

Dear Abuja-based female lawyer in weavon,

Why you dey fall our hand like this na?

All you had to do was use bucket if it was okpa you ate and the poop was too strong.

Haba nau, this isn't fair.

I know poop can be recalcitrant sometimes, but still...haba

Suspect is female, Lawyer, on twitter, since she's WCM she's quite popular, flew in from Abuja to Lagos between 22nd and 28th of August, wears weavon, last seen in Lekki around 28th of August... Sir kindly assist us with a screenshot of the poop to facilitate our investigation.

Finally, I keep saying it... it’s not everybody that tweets/post sense and has fine picture that actually has sense in real life. No vex jare. Na herself she disgrace

You are just being emotional. Schools in Nigeria are capitalist in nature. It is run as business. Good business is getting the most profit at the least cost. Also labour laws are useless here, teachers don't get paid for half the job they do. They don't rate teachers at all.
I still can't understand why most private school do this. And then you start wondering what the excess fee they collect is used for, since they can't even pay those doing the job.

Teachers are paid monthly, parents pay tuition per term, the school management pay utility bills to run the school I believe, plus non academic staff. I am not a parent,teacher,neither do I work in any school, but I think,if we look into this, SOMEHOW I think 50-80k is fair

Finally,Last week, I attended a Conference and we discussed this. Since protests work no more, we've agreed to sign a petition and will ask the public to join in doing that. kindly tag us once you start the petition to improve the overall STANDARDS for TEACHERS -
WAGES;
WELFARE;
CURRICULUM & RECRUITING STANDARDS
TRAINING & PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT
TEACHING AIDS, HSE CODES, WASH STANDARDS.

Our focus is on Early Childhood+Primary+Secondary

You do not know their story so, quit judging them.

poweredcom:
Nigeria. Gals own na laziness abeg

New generation gals no wan work. Ur wan wear the most expensive wears and hold iPhone x and latest high end Samsung

Then peer pressure also association of wrong girls and plus and with poverty mentality not just poverty alone but their mind set is myopic

These days prostitute don't need to be attached to a hotel oo

Online baddo tinder 2go and the dreaded InMessenger app see Dem


https://www.nairaland.com/5083433/girlfriend-sister-here-she-prostitute

They have taken social media to a place they can get clients

70% of naija babes are into runs n prostitution na dis app make me know unlike before wey na only hotel we de go carry Dem bang

Now even gals u don't know their source of income are using expensive gadget and do you think one rich guy will just be spending on a gal like that without banging her and passing her to his friends

Last word don't trust any naija gal oo there are good ones Sha but the hoes r too much

They are bound her on NL

realtalk19:
Very very possible with dildos*lol

Seriously it is possible for only a self desciplined and God fearing woman with dignity

y?

Katier00:
Any story that starts with my friend has a problem, becomes a huge turn off for me

ok

sisisioge:


How strangely we love to orchestrate our lives. Please tell her not to go back...let her work to provide for her kids and also get each of the kid's father to provide for them. Issue resolved.

Your comment spot on.

Hamachi:

My friend have been through a lot so I brought it here so that they may advice her. am asking on behalf of my family who came to seek advice from me but i told her that i will consult a froum where we have people older than me and she can always read comments.....

here is how she narrated her story to me I got pregnant when in high school, gave birth to a baby girl, since then I been a school drop out i had to look for a job so that i may take care of my girl. Thanks to God i got a job in one of the hotels in town.

After two years i found a guy who loved me and wanted to marry me...after 7months of courtship he fell sick got admitted and i went to see him in the hospital that day and found a doctor beside his bed asking him why he was not taking pills to suppress the virus ...as he knew that i have heard what the doc told him he introduced me as his fiance to him. and the doc asked me if i knew his status which i denied .he told me that he had been living positively and never wanted to tell because he was afraid so I should forgive him, immediately i told the doc to have a test done on me which he did and found that i was also positive and that was the end of our relationship.

Three years later i fell in love again but i was open and told the guy that am living positively, at first he never believed me until when he suggested that we be tested. In short the guy knew that I was not lying to him but insisted that he wanted to marry me! he took me to his parents for introduction and later to my parents for introduction. We started staying together after 3 yrs I got a baby boy. After a year i realized that he had numerous ladies outside our marriage. I got worried if he might get infected from outside and I had to confront him ...his response annoyed me .and we separated. He got married after a year the lady left to date his single.

Now after 4years of separation I managed to find a job as a subordinate staff in one of the NGO company, again a man approached me for a relationship after 3 months I told him of my status and he openly told me that he was of the same status. I told him about my past life hence i was afraid of breakups!!!the guy also told me of his past and separations with the women he had married earlier. Now he made me feel that am not alone in breakups!!!

He suggested that we should obtain a marriage certificate from the court as early as possible so that I may be comfortable to stay with him as a husband and father to my kids, he promised to take care of me and my children. We got it and lived as a couple though I was wondering why he never bought food in the house nor paying school fees for my kids .When i asked him about his roles in the house,he said his role is to do big things but not buying food .he said am capable of buying coz am working. I never asked him again I continued doing it, after a year he asked me to resign from my job because we were working under the same company and start a business. I resigned started business of selling t-shirts as he worked.now one day fire consumed the stores at night and people were left with nothing including me.

Now no business no job just staying at home. I now fully depended on him for our survival. the man started complaining that the burden on him of taking care of me and my kids is too heavy i told him to give me capital to start another business but he refused i dont know why.
in the second year of our marriage we went four days without food only surviving on pap(porridge) when i asked him why he was not providing for us he told me that if i want him to provide, I should take away bastards from his house
I got shocked and asked why he called my kids bastards ..this time round he asked me this question.."the men who slept with you and gave you this children are all dead?" why should I be providing for them?? I cried bitterly as he left for work. She continued he normally chase us out of the house calling us rubbish when you are not there!!!!at that moment i didn't answer her but i reflected back how rough he was to them even through speaking,how he never paid their school fees ,i used to pay hoping i was assisting my husband and how he never responded to them whenever they were telling him something.

I was sorry for my kids and told them everything will be ok, my husband came back from work that day evening i greeted him and didn't answer. he went into the bathroom took a shower went to bed .i followed him there and told him that we are hungry but his response was...get out of this house before i do something bad that the community will wonder!!!i went out of bed room took my kids and slept in a neighbors house but i took nothing from his house we ran for our lives because i feared he might kill us at night. The following morning he left for job then around noon he called me to tell me where he had placed the keys and take my belongings from his house. I called his immediate followers wife and told him the story she told me to go to her house with my kids and belongings. i went there and i was informed by his brother that he has a woman who he wants to marry who is more loaded with money than i. i stayed for two days then left as she paid a room for me within the city. thanks to God i found a job to sustain me and the kids.
its now ten months since i left the mans house. last week he came to my house again asking me to go back and stay as a wife and husband but he denied calling my kids bustards in front of me made me to hate him and also to learn that he only loves me and hate my children as well

What am i supposed to do?Can i go to my former husband who loved both kids though he is not a christian (drunkard) who apologized and never called my girl a bustard?mSecondly if yes shall i tell him that i got married and having a marriage certificate from another man??
members kindly help me advice her its urgent .his former husband and family members want her back.what can she do

hmmm

Pavore9:
If the husband exudes that he is keeping chaste, there would be higher motivation for the wife to be faithful though it is not a straight line because for some couples no matter the efforts their spouses put into being faithful to their marital vows they don't appreciate it and feel entitled to infidelity.

They use intimacy gadgets.

SUPERPACK:
sex is not oxygen that we can't do without, all that is required is commitment and self discipline, many have gone 10 years without sex and they are still normal,

Is it possible for a wife to remain without sex while her husband has been away for 5 years oversees?

Is it possible??

Do you an experience to share?

LillyVal:
hmmmm

pcguru1:
I would be more shocked if you didn't

I've been hearing frequent tales on this issue between siblings and its been making me wonder how it all starts.
I love my siblings to pieces and I'm sure they feel the same way towards me so I can't really imagine why anyone would hate theirs so much they do neither see nor talk.
Some even turn their lives into competitions with their brothers/sisters.
A friend once narrated to me how her immediate elder sister treated her while they were staying together and how the sister stylishly threw her out of the house for no real reason asides petty issues.now that she's even married and her elder sister is not,they are sworn enemies!
Two of my aunt (sisters) and at war now-for petty reasons!
One of my friends doesnt know ANYTHING about his brother and they don't ever call each other for no reason!
Why oh why!

I've been hearing frequent tales on this issue between siblings and its been making me wonder how it all starts.
I love my siblings to pieces and I'm sure they feel the same way towards me so I can't really imagine why anyone would hate theirs so much they do neither see nor talk.
Some even turn their lives into competitions with their brothers/sisters.
A friend once narrated to me how her immediate elder sister treated her while they were staying together and how the sister stylishly threw her out of the house for no real reason asides petty issues.now that she's even married and her elder sister is not,they are sworn enemies!
Two of my aunt (sisters) and at war now-for petty reasons!
One of my friends doesnt know ANYTHING about his brother and they don't ever call each other for no reason!
Why oh why!

Akpabio is now the minister of Niger Delta while Keyamo is the State minister for Niger Delta.
Festus Keyamo is a former EFCC PROSECUTOR while Godswill Akpabio is a former EFCC SUSPECT.

The suspect is now the PROSECUTOR’s BOSS.

This is Nigeria!!’-Pascopele 2019

How is it fake?

ednut1:
Fake story. She could have written the embassy. He gets deported. Polygamy is also not allowed

lilbest4:
Another stupid story from frustrated feminist radio station and the op

Your mom hide the pain of being a widow/single mom so she can be strong for you, quit this now.

Sirvingeo:
But her child is a tangible and visible proof that she is promiscuous . That is the fear of most single men out their. Sex is only meant for married people.

how can that be done when it not her will?

Apination:
Tell her to get the will changed and allow him die, motherfucking traitor

by ornicus: 2:48pm On Aug 20
Funnily enough something like this also happened to a friend. She and her husband had been having a difficult time conceiving. Next thing she basically found out on fb that the guy had married another wife.

Note however that women are as fked up in this thing as men. Two women are always involved in this - the usurper and the MIL.

yomi007k:
True or fiction?

engaging communication

My sister has been married for 8 years, her and hubby only have three beautiful girls. His family are the type that believe a male child is more important and a must have. So she feels terrible that she haven't given her husband a male child. Hubby assures her that he is okay without a male child. Hubby falls ill and critically requires a kidney transplant, she turn out to be a match, because she loves him she decide she will donate her other kidney to him.

One day in preparation to go to the hospital for surgery she was getting getting all paperwork sorted out. she came across her husband's Will and she went through it and found out that her husband has 2 boys with another woman like that and he left 90% of his wealth to those boys and their mother and only leaving 10% for her own girls.

- What will she do??
- should SHE still give him HER kidney??
- How will you handle the whole situation??

Your answer will be needed for an advice

Powersurge:
Small pikin dey grow breast she dey happi. She no know say na wetin go pursue am commot her papa house be that!

I know that people are been pushed by Western philosophy. But if you are a single guy, I will advise you to THINK TWICE before going for a single mother. I am yet to see a single mother without a nasty attitude deep within.

it's a baggage you might not be able to carry on a long run. One thing is sure above all else. The woman will always place her child above you in priority.

I don't have space for all the story that comes with it. But I strongly advise against it. But it doesn't mean that there are no good single mothers out there who became victim of unreasonable men.

#fact

Have you heard of death?

Brock1:
Why didn't you marry ,the father of ur child? Most single mothers have skeleton in their cupboards.