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Too much info. He would have left us with that Jim Iyke bad boy fantasy, now he is just a clout chasing drama queen

No woman should kneel to feed a man that's just bull shit. That useless tradition needs to be trashed!

NovesaTillie:
Well as an experienced lady I will tell you for free that he's not interested in settling down.

And if he wants, he would want to settle with someone who is less financially stable.

The guy is married. Trust me

ngoziwrites:
So, I met this great guy online. After 2 weeks, we met in person and everything was perfect.

It's almost 2 months since we have been together.

He asked me out while we were together and I gladly said yes. (I have met a lot of players�). So while we were together, a discussion popped up and he said he can't discuss anything related to marriage until after 6 months. I pretended not to hear.


I don't know his financial capacity but I know he is doing okay. He controls the family business. They sell trucks, trailers and all. He is also a landlord in one of his father's houses at Festac. We stayed at a hotel. 25k per night. He paid for 2 night and I paid for one night. But during these times, we went to his house.

He said he didn't want me to come to see his place because it's the first time. And he said the house is very hot too.


Our communication is great but he doesn't look like he wants marriage soon. He has said things like marriage is hard work. He has also said in 10 years time, people will hardly be getting married.

Then one night, we were talking and he said I "see my wife as my responsibility"
I will take care of her and of cos, I am okay but I will still be very very rich, so I can't bring in any woman to suffer now" .. That's what I am sure I heard but I was scared to ask him to explain further or repeat himself.

He is actually okay, he has two cars but importantly, he has sense and he is very hard-working. But he is very principled and we have actually had several instances where he doesn't pick my calls at night. It happens often but I am starting to trust him, because sometimes I call by 5am and he picks and says he slept off. Sometimes we would be chatting on WhatsApp and after I call him 20 minutes later, he won't respond. He is not married!

So, I currently earn 450k monthly and I have been able to save something meaningful, so I can start a good business before getting married or after. I haven't stated because I don't know which one yet. I started a restaurant business when I was 23 but it failed.

If I ask him and he says 1 year, of course, I can wait. I will be 26 years next year April.

We will seeing for the 2nd time next week. I plan to ask him when he sees himself getting married but I am scared and the way he carries himself makes me reluctant to ask such.

About two weeks ago, I wanted to even surprise him with gifts. I asked for his account number and office/home address. (He picked me up the last time I traveled to see him, so I don't know the address". Well, he didn't give me these details. He said when it's time I will have them.


Two days ago, he said a friend's younger brother is getting married. He laughed and said people just dey marry. He has once asked me "You dey find husband?" jokingly-

I would like to settle before 27. Is it bad that I am thinking this way? If he says he is looking to get married in 2-3 years, i think it's a bit far. 2023 is still fine. But the problem is he doesn't really sound like marriage is on his mind. He will be 32 next year April too.

We vibe a lot. But he says I love you sparingly. Sometimes I say it and he doesn't respond, he will say tomorrow I will tell u or no, I told u yesterday.

But we are really really cool. I like him a lot and he likes me but I think I like him more. He gives me attention, I don't have to ask.

If I was 23, I won't have a problem waiting 3-4 years. But since I am ready mentally, financially, I am looking for someone who wants it within 6 months to 1 year. I can still try to do 2 years if I get someone great.

He is MARRIED!
Don't waste your time. You sound like a lovely person, cut your loses and move on. You'll fine someone ready

od501:
I know of a girl in Warri that year that duped the boyfriend of 10 million. She was even planning to escape to the US with another guy, with the money the other friend gave her to process travelling doc to same US for the both of them.

When the guy caught him, omoh no be small beating oo... in fact, her face looked almost like the picture you see here. So, sometimes, you don't always believe all that comes out from a woman's mouth no matter the condition.

You don't always believe what comes from a woman's mouth as if men are not the biggest liars
If some dupe u you arrest the person and recover your money! 99% of yahoo fraudsters are men. Even them don't deserve this.

Men dupe women of their hard earned money and this battery never happens. Just so u knew this happened in a country where the rule of law is upheld, his life is basically over. He will be charged for attempted murder given the severity of her injury.
America is also a place where women and children are respected unlike you uncivilized Nigerians. If u are in jail for selling drugs of fraud no problem, if you are in jail for abusing a woman of child, hmmm.... you own done finish! You'll basically be the bitçh of your fellow inmates

That bastard needs to be locked up!

I believe her. God is mysterious. No one fully understands Him.

To some He demands conservative, to others He allows them be conspicuous. Just like the late TBN preacher with pink hair and long nails JAN CROUCH.
Both she and Alakija are serving God.

alanto:
For me. Na Tinubu o
Not because of tribe or anything and if na religion I’m a Christian but when I look at Lagos compared to other states in Nigeria. I wish he can place that Midas touch on Nigeria. We need to better the economy. Everybody can not be running to Lagos. I mean imagine if Tinubu didn’t plan Lagos?
I rest my case.

Present day lagos is a result of Jakonde not tinubu!!
Ask lagosians. Tinubu just allocated all key properties to himself

1. Ameachi
2. Ameachi

K hope she can sue her father. Some parents are just evil

VULCAN:
So yes u went ahead and compared her with two women who are known globally.

Rihanna is a global singer who has sold millions of records.

Jenner owns a Cosmetics firms that is valued at around a billion dollars.

Now tell is what business this businesswoman is doing that you choose to compare her to these two moguls

So your criteria for a woman who can wear a bikini is globally famous? Mugu!

I don't know this lady but the testimony of her benevolence is all over fb. To assume she's a prostitute without enquiries as to what business she's into only points to one fact. YOU WERE RAISE BY A WHORÈ! That why you can recognize one so easily.

Sleekfingers:
You can say that to your poor, good for nothing mother

Nope. I don't have the skills for recognizing whoŕes. Its obvious you gained it from experience.
It's sweet to call another ashawo but not your mother abi? Nonsense!

It takes tge son of a whorè to recognize one so easily. Anybody that calls her a prostitute is the son of a prostitute!

Kylie Jenner, Rihanna and others all wear bikinis and they are not prostitutes!

Sleekfingers:
Businesswoman indeed......na clito-currency she dey do

Not everyone is a LovePeddler like your mother.
It takes the offspring of a whorè to recognize one so quickly!

I don't know her but I've heard a lot of good this about this girl.

How she is an extreme giver and all. Different people commenting on Facebook.
May God rescue her and bring her out safely

BegAt40:
My dad is a highly respected well-to-do man but his problem was his wife; I wonder how they married!

She used to beat him in our presence and she'd lay curses on us if we ever plead that she stops. At times, she'd shout from night till dawn, making sure that no one sleeps and she'd try her best to call the neighbors' attention to tarnish his reputation. Not like he's weak, he just tried not to make things escalate and be a bigger issue. Now I'm grown up, I hate women die and she's begging me to get married.

Meanwhile, I just want to stay out here treating Nigerian girls in the language they understand.

Your mother is the bìtch not Nigerian girls pls!

Anambarians are highly educated and mostly well behaved and successful.

I'm not surprised by the peace turnout

Chai Chai Chai

This bloodshed. This pain for the loved one.

Why Why Why?

In everything ypu do, carry your wife along. Let her take charge while you are alive so nobody will question her authority when you die.
This is indeed sad but TB Joshua did not keep his house in order before leaving.

I'm not an FFK fan but he is right.
Wike is an arrogant tyrant!

Jman06:
Op, you're not yet red pilled. When you become red pilled like myself, women would be the least of your worries. You'll not care whether they give you attention or not. In fact, you'll never need a girl's attention to validate your ego like you put it.

As I'm now, I don't care a hoot about women! From the look of things sef, I might never get married and I'll be very fine. I'll make my money not to impress any woman, but to enjoy my life and also take care of my mum, my nephews and nieces. Simple

Your mom will leave u.
Your nieces and nephews will find a life of their own.
You be left alone.

Food and pos

Food.

Oduok:
It should not just end with replacing DPR with NURC. Burning issues that PIA was mearnt to address in the area of regulation include: 1. Autonomy of the regulatory body. 2. Making the regulatory body measure up with its counterpart like API (American Petroleum Institute). 3. Dicotomy of upstream and downstream regulation of the petorleum sector.

The PIA didn't address any major issues. Just tax reduction and tax holidays for deep offshore and natural gas sector.
First of all, why is the NURC charged with technical and commercial functions as a regulator?
Another major issue is conflicting responsibility between the NURC and NMDRC... too much confusion....

This made me laugh so hard

Handsomejok:
I don't know but 3 pastors cannot lie to me

Pls contact me on this email. I'm willing to get in touch with a home that can take her. I'm serious pls.

lielbree@yahoo.com

Poor innocent baby

VillageHead:
The King deciding to pick on Ayiri so soon after his ascension to the throne spells vindictiveness and witch-hunting and it isn't kingly.

Ayiri should be advised to tread with caution...

Why didn't ayari validate his title?

The present olu is the first son of his father, accepted by the oracle and council of rulers, what is ayari problem??

Rubbiish:
You are not being honest here!
How do u mean build your respect on values, lifestyle? Will it put food on the table?
Respect comes with your ability to cater for your family as a man! The moment you start failing in your responsibility of providing for your family, that respect will begin to dwindle till it wanes out! Not even your kids are left out.

Respect is built on values. Providing for your family is just one of those values.
If all you can offer your family is money they such person can never be respected even when the cash is flowing.

Another opportunity for Nairaland idiots to spread their general hatred of women only because they can't get and keep one.