₦airaland Forum

Richy4:
You did what u feel was right @ that moment...

Your sister inlaw was a classy young woman too I must say, she left when she was supposed to..Maybe She never knew her coming will be a problem,maybe she felt her sister will sort u out...But she got it wrong.. Some ladies would have stayed even when they knew they were not welcomed..

If u have a younger bro, or Sis, just expect a cold welcome from your wife anytime they step into your house..it will never be forgotten...

U mistakenly broke an unwritten code that most women held with high esteem especially from the Eastern part of Nigeria....They always want to show that they are comfortable in their husband's house and their relatives are welcome to stay for sometime..I guess that was why she was mad @ u

Just say u were sorry bro.. with a peace offering like earring, or perfume etc.

Pidgin2:
OP, you are mean

Plankton2017:
Good day fellow NL,

Please judge this case. Last week thursday my sister inlaw visited me and my wife from NYSC camp. I was shocked when I welcomed her because it was no ordinary visit. she came with a full ghana must go. We greeted and I got to know that she escaped from camp due to the tough tasks on camp. My wife never told me her sister was coming to stay. We have lived amicably till yesterday.

My lil cuzin that stays and helps us with chores was mandated by her to cook 2 big pots of water for her to bath. I scolded my cousin and told her why didnt she use the electric kettle so as to save gas which we just replaced with 6k. I now gave her a warning that whatever my inlaw wants that she should ask me 1st. I even got to know that my wife lied to me that her parents knew she left camp. My wife heard our conversation and started antagonizing me that why did I tell my cuz to always ask me b4 she obeys her sister. she was shouting at the top of her voice even my inlaw could hear. This angered me and I shouted back and told her to leave my room. she continued shouting and even slept in the sitting room as I slept alone.

This afternoon while working on my computer for hours I came out of the room only to find out my sister in law has packed her things back to her NYSC camp without telling me but my wife knows....I am slatted to officially do my white wedding next saturday. I just feel down because we quarell too much and my wife talks in a domineering way. I have warned her about it and I do not want to turn a woman beater. Any quarell we have she tells her parents and siblings which make them never free with me and act cold towards me. Damn it! pls advice me

YelloweWest:
Lol. Na sagg person go chop?

Nedfed:
Happy for her, just dat the guy no get swag@all.
HML in advance to dem.

hisMrs:
Jeje

softwerk:
Trying too hard to be Nigeria's Kim K

donofdons:
You should have a mental checkup yourself. You are drunk on Christ

deebrain:
So many are playing the religious card.

Listen.... You need to search and locate as well as develop interest in a positive, self developing, time consuming hobby.

The day I got my own, majority of those "I've tried everything but failed" habits became history. No deliverance and all these spiritual stuff.

Go for all the deliverance and prayers you like, but if you still have a room for idle time, it will yet be fruitless.

brownhawk:
you don't need to admit u are igbo. u idiotss are known for your crazzy speeches

Ddaji:
Kano state government has awarded her scholarship to Phd to university her choice in the world.Hope Enugu state government will do the same,though by ibo nature they will shift the responsibility to federal government.
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/09/2016-waec-result-best-student-gets-scholarship-upto-ph-d/

brownhawk:
every info traveller should be suspected for a crime because if the UN should bring out the analysis of international drug traffickers among Nigerians, every nation of the world would be able to identify u eastern bastards from whoore mothers on sight

I'm out

SIRKAY98:
Y nt a Boy

ODVanguard:
Look here boy, no one is labelling them as drug traffickers (atleast not until or unless they are caught with hard drugs). I am just showing legit concern that's all, considering the insane incidence of drug-trafficking emanating from their axis. Now will you get off my mention?

ODVanguard:
Who gives a flipping funk whether you are igbo or not? I raised a legitimate concern considering the well-known desperation of the drug kingpins from that axis. You can choose to bury your head in the sand, that's your business, but you can't gag other folks from expressing their sincere concern.

Abi you want them end up like the guy in the following report:

https://www.nairaland.com/3959265/nigerian-man-found-dead-ethiopian

ODVanguard:
Bro, I am just hoping some drug lord didn't try to use those poor kids to traffic drugs to Indonesia o. Hian!

PDPGuy:
generator dey na

Ddaji:
yeah the young girl has tried but there is not extraordinary because Hausa girl made the mark in 2016 before ipob girl.

GODKID98:
God bless Nigerians!!

This is what we ought to be doing not sponsoring and rewarding whores in the guise of beauty Queens.


No offense!

owoleola:
Run away from any pastor or prophets whose messages are centered on the benefits of this world.

Malolu:
I was going to say the same thing. My bishop brags, it's not a big thing. They are all men. Who doesn't brag about his achievement. Yeah, some tend to overdo it and hence no longer being moderate as expected of Christians. If one feels a place isn't conducive for him or her, the best thing is to evacuate shaperly. Well, maybe I'm just talking from my own point of view. The thing is, some people u call perfect and are bragging, you don't know how some of them secretly cry in the secret because they have their own struggles and wishes too. They have only mastered the act of focusing on the achievement to forget the non-helpful.