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Swear for him!

Guys u can't treat people like this.

If I'm his new wife I'll have the marriage annulled.

Imagine... cheating on his fiancé even on the eve of their wedding! This guy has no moral.

pocohantas:
I done talk am before...
Fear guys, fear their friends.

They'll know you are a side chick and be like "our wife, you done come? Anytime you no dey around...this my man no dey get imsef. Shey you go cook that your jollof rice for us?" Babe go dey blush, commot shoe, fold hair...start to cook...as wife material wey she be. Some go even commot pant join.

Chai! Thunder will fall on all of una o...endtime guys
Babe sorry you hear.

Very true. If only we women could support ourselves the way the men do...

She's a natural beauty

Dear young men, stop smoking weed! Just stop!
U see the repercussions??

Invisibleojay:
am in university 300level

U are in uni, most likely broke. What do u need a gf for??

Invisibleojay:
Hi good morning nairalanders please I need your help I don't really know how to make friend with a girl for the first time. When I approach them all they do is to turn me down telling me that am rude even if I walk to a girl to talk to her in the end she will give me fake number help a friend I really need the first sweet talk statement that will make them laugh and get along with the conversation thanks

It's not something one can teach. Focus on improving yourself.

Op number your tips.

Good advice.

Brown14:
I have never quoted u once but I just cannot scroll past this comment of urs thaz full of negativity,stupidity, idiocy(as always).
you are a grown asss man for Christ's sake and I just imagine if this is ur attitude offline too u go don receive beating tire.Sometimes its better to stay mute than to say/type your mind;

That guy is a real syco Mehn... too many deacons in his head.

He's not even funny.

At age 24 you should be focused on choosing a career path and dedicating yourself to it in order to ensure success.

Leave woman for now.

All pdp needs to do is to bring out a popular candidate from the north sadly.

That's all

Apc can't win come2019

Amgreat70:
This guy should rest , he knows what the law school is all about, why not focus on ur aim of going there instead of looking for social welfare amenities, or lack of any.
He wasnt even happy he was posted to Abuja... What about others posted to other campuses what do u want them to do.
Don't know why some students will always want to show there bad character of student unionism, as if they are the only ones politically inclined....

It is this docile attitude amongst majority of the citizenry of this country that has kept us like this

Indian juju film

hatchy:
What did you do to your mother who allowed him have sex with her in the bush?
The woman is also responsible for the step son's death because she consented to the sexual act and should be jailed also.

Fear WOMEN,then fear NORTH

It's African culture. The stepson inherited his father's wife.

African culture though

AntiWailer:
Really ?

Wait for your turn then.

He will soon pack gutter reach ur side.

If the people elect me I will gladly do it to show example.

AntiWailer:
So Ambode will park dirts from the Canal ?

Both on the Mainland and Island and inside Lekki

you go well soon.

Yes!! If need be! Haven't y9u seen pics of foriegn leaders packing trash or doing community service??

It is only in this country that of elected officials are masters instead of servants!

By the way are there not sanitation funds?? What osas ambode doing with it??

0b100100111:
Hello! It's a coastal city and such is peculiar to every coastal city that experiences heavy downpour .

Google might enlighten you more about the recent flooding in China

Leave matter. It rains every day here in ph. During the rain there may be flood but it disappears as soon as the rain stops. What has the govt done about blocked drainages

Lagos is just over hyped.


They always claim they have good leaders... I begged to differ

Homeboiy:
Buhari sabi speak English?


madam but u can never rule nigeria

Why not??

Wtf is all that

Sanchez01:
I hate sharing opinions on issues as this but I could not just resist seeing your post. All you wrote are assumptions and you somehow found a way to make it look good to the point that you asked him to go ahead and marry her. I totally disagree.

1. Sex was always an issue with them and led to break up on several occasions.

Possible Meaning: Her moral compass must be golden or perhaps she never really lived the dude and never found him sexually attractive.

2. She dated her campus boyfriend for four years BUT got pregnant for ANOTHER. Note the 'ANOTHER' is neither the OP nor the campus boyfriend whom she dated while in school, assuming her course is a four year course.

Possible Meaning: There is no way I would believe she dated her campus love for four years without having sex with him.

3. She got pregnant for another man and made up her mind to keep it against her parents wishes. Sadly, she lost it 7 months after.

Meaning: This is the man she loves. A lady could do something crazy that would beat one's imagination for just that one dude and you would get to wonder why. The answer is simple. The man is definitely the only one person her life revolves around. How about we also ask why she never continued with the man after she lost the baby?

My submission: Attraction of all forms matter in relationship. She never really loved the OP was never attracted to him. For reasons, I believe it is safe to say nothing has changed.

She strikes me as one of these ladies who prioritise marriage as the ultimate and would not be bothered to settle down immediately. The red flag here is that she would likely bring the 'no sex' form forward to be filled like she did in the past while she didn't waste time in giving others.

The OP was never really a back up plan even. He is the next available bus she could hop into.

Your theory is also based on assumptions.
I'm still of the view that it's not about the op. He cheated and dumped her. She felt she had no option but to give into sex in her next relationship.
If she so dislikes the op and can't think of sex with him then why has she agreed to marry him?? Pls don't say money cos in the long run money or not once they are married she must sleep with her husband.

Happy birthday funny girl. Keep shining. Grow in the fear and knowledge of the Lord.

whitebeard:
thanks, u have a point, but had she put to birth, I don't think the op will give up on her.

If u don't judge someone for having sex, u can't judge another for giving birth. Cos the consequences of unprotected sex (which both the op and his fiancé are guilty of) is pregnancy. Which will lead to either abortion or child birth.

So I can't really judge her for that.

Op this is my thoughts on what happened.

This young lady most likely made a vow at some point in her life not to have sex before marriage. Virgin or not.

Since u cheated on her ans dumped her because she refused u sex, her next relationship she had to break her vow in order to maintain the relationship. Then she became pregnant out of wedlock and realised her mistake.

Now she is determined more than ever to close her legs untill marriage.
It has nothing to do with u op.

On the other hand, u have no moral right to judge her for a still birth. She from what u have said has a higher moral standing than u... that's the truth.
You had an abortion. (Deliberately)
She lost a baby. (Unintentional)
It's very different senerio. God probably let the baby go so she won't ruin her chances at a good suitor.

You have a good lady who is willing to tell all. So many women would never admit such.

MARRY HER FAST!!
Her type is very scarce o..

whitebeard:
Op u also aborted a pregnancy, abeg both of u are the same, I don't know if u should marry but the way u guys are revealing secrets to yourselves is also a good sign.

Bless ur heart. I like the fact that this came from a guy. Weldone for good moral. Your mom did a great job.

However in this case the girl is even better than the op. She didn't abort. She had a still birth. That's out of her control.

Johnnyessence:
it is by their fruit you will know them now. Is it not when they do the malpractice and caught hmmm. Then they will extend their semesters. Even with that they have series of carry over courses. There are series of malpractice in covenant university. You can't deny that. Malpractice is recorded every where.

You remind me of propagandist when I was in law school. You're just one of them.

People kept saying u can pay money to pass.. yet there was nothing like that!
When the time came those looking for avenue to sort with their millions and connections did not see such avenue. Even buhari's daughter and countless other big men and big men children failed.
I am a product of Nigeria law school. I can categorically tell u there is No malpractice what so ever! The reason most people graduate with a pass from law sch is that u are graded with your lowest score.
Eg; a person with 4As and 1E will graduate with a pass.

Covenant university has very high standard. I know a lot of their products and they can defend their degree any day. Unlike a lot of students from state and federal universities.

Johnnyessence:
stop lieing to the people here. Everyone knows the truth that you paid heavy money for you to have good grades. You are even going to suppose christian schools but lie as much as you can. I imagine why your chapel priest doesn't catch you red handed when you are lieing. You can't deny that. There's huge malpractice in covenant university.

I'm shock at your statement. Any evidence


By the way I attended covenant. I just know a lot of kids who work extremely hard and it shows on their results.

Johnnyessence:
but smoke cigarette after school hours baaa. Abeg there's no standard cos it is as much you have the money the higher your grade. It is during NYSC you will see the caliber of the students covenant university is breeding.

What's wrong if an adult chooses to.smoke?

They don't sell grade cos there is 0 exam malpractice in covenant. I've seen their products and the standout.

The reason they produce students with such good grades is simply. They are forced to focus on their studies. Just like uni's in the UK.
Also there is no politics about it. Unlike federal and some state Universities, if u earn a 1stclass that's what you'll get.

Op the best thing you can do right now is to ignore him!

Give a man and overdose of his mistress (be it work, phone , his friends or another woman) and he will come running back to u like a lost puppy!! Works like a charm.


Let him see u talking chatting on your phone 24/7. Giggle with excitement while u are at it. Totally ignore him. Don't start any conversation for a while and see what happens.

Alexk2:
Make him your bestfriend and you'll always come first before anything or anybody...and when you achieve that, keep the line of conmunication open.

Make her your best friend and you'll always come first.

How does that sound??

Trash.