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Buddha3:
Reading through the comments on the first page, it gets obvious that indeed most nairalanders either cannot read to understand or are too impatient and impulsive towards detailed analysis.

That young man had a "downward spiral" which in simple terms boils down to depressive episodes for reasons nobody understands. He cracked under that mental and emotional weight, hence the unfortunate act.

Life and circumstances happen differently to everyone. Even around you, people walk around on a daily basis going through life threatening situations and there's no telling who's strong or resilient enough to keep a sane mind and who's not. The onus is on you to be as nice to everyone you encounter as possible. Those fine words you say to someone to put a smile on their face may be the difference between life and death. That small act of kindness can turn around misfortunes in an instant.

Instead of taking off small lessons from this sad thread, trust nairalanders to display wanton stupidity. Some have even begun playing the race card, slamming the whites as if it is not in your country bandits are killing and maiming people everyday. Mtscheew!

LoL, downward spiral make him shoot him mama , as if he's the only person in the world to be depressed.

This morning, 500k

Guys, how do I upload a Twitter video on nairaland?

I still don't understand why people bleach their skin. You'd be shocked at what people do to bleach their skins.

Check this shocking video of how people have devised a new method of bleaching.

https://twitter.com/the_Lawrenz/status/1571935505176055810?t=P2z91LpS-tsFMdnEExF01w&s=19

If you bleach, tell us why you do so.

Hermes will win.

Knacking go plenty for house.

Nice. Pastor Righteousness, this news sweet you?

Okay. Next?

Yawwns.. can someone please summarize?

Corridon:
Rip young man. Buhari failed you.

How did Buhari fail him?

Demigod22:
I am also a Corp member, how are you saving your money? Although I am four months gone because of lack of accommodation, I couldn't save anything yet, but I am planning from next week. You can share tips on how I should go about it.

I'm serving in my state. I still stay in my father's house.

Hamachi:
I will never look down on or send away someone who walks into my office to look for a job, I know what it means to be jobless and have nowhere to cash from.

When I was jobless and depressed, I used to walk so many KMs dropping my CVSs at offices and knocking on offices, without food for days or where to sleep. I was evicted so many times and my belonging was thrown into the rain.

Thank God there were events, after a long day's search, I could walk to the big hotels to gate crush to get the meal of that day, I did this so many times until I was discovered. I was arrested and taken to the security department.

I have helped so many people acquire jobs, to some I give strategies, to some I have given referrals, to some I coach them on what to say, and to some, I walk them through the journey of discovering passion.

If you were not privileged enough, don’t forget where you came from, you might not be having a connection to a job opening, but just sharing a word of encouragement goes a long way in giving these people hope.

I remember being chased like a dog by one person whom I hoped could help me secure a place to work. “YOU PARASITE GET OUT OF MY OFFICE, AND NEVER EVER SHOULD I EVER SEE YOU, YOO FILTHY SHIT HERE AGAIN”

Last week we met at an event where I was the Keynote speaker, and he reached out to me to help promote his organization, I could see how embarrassed and shocked he was.

Just do good, and today be the reason as to why someone smile
Agree?

You should have snubbed him.

I'm a corp member. I've saved 60k, looking forward to 200k+ till next year. I'm using the money to acquire training and hopefully to balance well.

Make them nominate everybody, make them comot house.

She's a woman, let her be.
Before you bash me, na sarcasm o

Kingsteve:
The circumstances of his demise.
He died in his solitude.
He hasn't been laid to rest, hence his spirit will still be wandering the earth, until a proper funeral is performed.
His spirit will always come back to the last place before his death.

Alright. I get it now

Kingsteve:
That house will be haunted for a while.

Why you say so?

Fira09:
How will arsenal not win when you guys are playing a club who Bayern Munich can trash 7–0 Home/Away.

Shame to Arsenal

LoL. We don't care o. We sha go win.

Up Gunners!!! We are winning today.

Lol. Saw it just now. Chelsea no gat chills

Why not? A rose by any other name would smell as sweet.

Yesterday, a thread on the reason "dead bodies are buried six feet under the ground" graced the frontpage, but today I would like Nigerians to embrace a new culture of disposing of the dead -- Cremation.

Cremation is a process in which intense heat is used to reduce the dead body to ashes and bone fragments. When cremating, most of the body, such as tissue, is vaporized, leaving only the remains of bone. The remaining bone particles are commonly referred to as cremains or ashes.

The body is exposed to a column of flames produced by a furnace fueled by natural gas, oils, propane, etc

Cremation of a dead body is carried out at a temperature ranging between 1400 to 1800 degrees Fahrenheit.

The process takes place in a cremation chamber, also known as a retort, of a crematory. The chamber is preheated at a set point and then body is placed is quickly transferred there through a mechanized door to avoid heat loss. Ashes can be safely put in an urn or cremains container.

Advantages of Cremation

Affordability : Cremating the dead is more affordable compared to burial. Here, moderation is key without all efforts to go overboard with funeral process. You can see people spending huge amount of money on buying caskets, building monasteries, hiring of pallbearers, Owanbe glamour, etc

Saves time: Cremation can save time and energy in arranging for disposing of the dead body. Its preparations are fastly done as long as the materials needed are readily available. It is faster than traditional burials. Some burial ceremony may take more than two days.

Saves space : Cremation allows for creation of space in houses and cementaries. Several hectares of land used specifically for burying the dead are almost filled up, and there are many more to be used. Also at homes, cremation can help save space. You can easily count 4 out of 10 houses having graves in front of their houses. This act disgusts prospective tenants. Like who wants to rent a house where graves are all littered around? And if you're thinking of japaing abroad, you can do that without digging up your parents graves in order to sell your house. You have nothing to worry about, just carry your beloved urn with you.

Ensures Security: Engaging in cremation proffers safety. We live in a society where scu mbags dig up graves for no good reason. Nobody would know where the ashes of your departed loved one is let alone attempt to steal it.

Major factors preventing the adoption of this burial culture are traditional and religious factors. Traditionally, one may be required to visit the burial grounds of one's parents to seek appeasement, or beautify with flowers, etc.

For me, religion is the major contributing factor preventing the possibility of cremation in Nigeria, where the Islamic religion strongly opposes it while there are reservations about it in the Christian religion. The Bible doesn't outrightly condemn it, but it is believed that it negates the faith in physical resurrection of the body. For me, God is omnipotent to resurrect the cremated ones.

What do you guys think?

Parachoko:
This pastor reminds me of a movie I watch in year 2000 or 2001, the movie is called "Grace To Grass", is very popular back then

Is still one of my favourite Nigerian movie

Chai. This movie ehn. I watched it too.

Why na?

https://www.nairaland.com/4795640/ojelade-islamiyat-best-graduating-student

Exceptional feat. Congratulations.

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

Apt!

Where can I watch the match? Any link?

Iheanacho assisted Maddison's goal.

Danielnino00:
See the odds they gave us to win the game...
Are we a joke ni?

Omo.

Watching ATM. We are playing well.

Don't bother yourself. Seyi once more. One good term deserves another. 4+4.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Nice 1..


U for use WEED take cook am..


Mean while.. my WEED business don really pay me dis year ooo..


I don buy laptop and even put game inside..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

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