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kalmebad:
I hardly reacts to comments, sometimes because of lots of in matured mind and how they rant simply because talk is cheap. Am a lady and I speak from women perspective. My advice don't leave her yet....but distant yourself, keep in touch when u can but don't make yourself available. .play busy but also play nice, that way.. U r disarming her,We learn better when handled firmly. If she loves u, she will stick around. We miss guys when we lack their attention, only then we give much value to what we have. U never know what d next girl will b like, no one is perfect. The table will eventually turn around...then set d rules, if acceptable fine and if not.. Face front

spyg1:
The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future.

There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while I am 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship.

We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because I am a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that I am just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter.

But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted.

Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again.

After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, I am just like other guys, she know the reason why I am doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla.

To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex.

Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come.

I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly I am seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat?

Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly?

Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page.

PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS

Explorers:
7days later, Friday, 12th October, 2018.

She's Grace Adeola Oluwafireyimika Oluwadarasimi Oluwatobiloba Ayomiposi Ayomikun Inioluwa OLUBUSADE





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I appreciate you guys and i say sound 'AMEN' to all your prayers and wishes. Wish i could reply everyone.


May God bless you all.

SexyDenzel:
Really? how ? can you explain bro?

sarrki:
Op expecting you to do same on wile soon
Pdp miscrean everywhere

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abrahym:
RMB needed

sarrki:
[s]Osinbajo is a Man Of God

He’s omoluabis

He gat our back

He’s our son

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AdeMavrodi:
Babe is ugly as Bleep. If Davido proposes to her talk less marry her ehnn. Davido and ugly babes sha.

Rakiticbarca:
Meijer card?

Rakiticbarca:
260.0000000000

Rakiticbarca:
what's your rate

theamerican:
Here to share another experience. So, after doing strong head for months, I finally got an iPhone X from a guy who badly needed the money. Good deal for $400.

I was home fumbling with the phone o. Trying to fit it into a case. Before I hear anything, the buttons were pressed together, phone entered power mode/call sos, kia kia, it was dialing 911. I panicked and ended the call after one ring.

3 seconds later, I got a call lol. I was not gonna answer but my friend told me if I didn’t, they would assume I was in trouble, couldn’t speak, trace my location, and send cops to come and save me from whatever the issue is.

I hurriedly answered the call lol. “Hello, this is the Dallas police department, we just got a call from this number”. I told them it was a mistake, that I just got a new phone and the phone dialed 911, etc. They said ok, laughed, said goodbye and hung up.

Taxpayers’ money works. If I was genuinely in trouble, they would have arrived on time to save my big black ass. �����

michelle94:
I will notify you once it reflects in my bank account. Thanks.

Truckpusher:
I was in a dream and Buhari called Atiku and conceded even before the election.

dharhealgee:
Come 240