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[quote author=Missy_B]Ehn hen! See finish!
How dare you disagree with me, omo rhia! There's no elderly woman's potrait in your living room abi? When I cough, you ought to say 'yes ma', and not disagree. . . Omo no sakan! [/quote]u gua lu bi? The only potrait in my living room is that of scarface with guns

[quote author=Missy_B]It's all ideas, but not realistic. . . .Change is not as simple as people speak of it.
The problem is not accepting being treated as a king, but returning the gesture. It's easy to accept (positive things), giving is where the problem lies, and I find it quite difficult to understand how one can give what he's not got.

I have heard and seen women that put up with some nasty habits of their men, hoping that someday, they will change . . .they never do. Instead, your loving gestures are mistaken for tolerance, and the 'men' get worse.
Take for instance the case of physical abuse . . .These women who are victims, don't they show love to these men?
Who cooks for them, washes for them, keeps them company, tends to their needs, endure their sh@t? With all this 'love' being shown, how many of these men have voluntarily changed for the better?

If a snake is a product of a snake, grows in the midst of snakes, it can never act like a dove.
Only few people are strong enough to modify themselves as time goes . . .Change is not a simple thing.



Stop hating, jelosy!
That reminds me . . . . I'm off to do [i]you-know-wha[/i]t. [/quote]Honey, I know it is easier to say the word change than to put it into practice
If you've seen the movie "As Good As It Gets," there is a quote by Jack Nicholson: "You make me want to be a better man," yeah I know its just a movie but I was privileged to spend some quality time with a couple who said the exact word to each other and digging deep this man told me how he was brought up in a drug environment and the word "hope" or "love" never existed in his world but then came this woman (wife) who took him to the world of love and made him change for good, went to school, graduated, got a job. This might sound unreal but yes no matter how loveless a man's world is there is always a way for love to creep in and acceptance of that love depends on him

I think being in a relationship can inspire you to do things and become a different person, but you have to want to change for sure. You can't change someone's personality but you can bring something to the relationship that brings out the better side of them. Some people are like oil and water, they just aren't going to mix. A relationship is work, but it is worth the effort if you see the other party is willing to make a turn for the better but then again if you feel your effort is going to be taken for granted why spend all your energy trying to change someone. Go out and find someone that has the qualities you want and never try to die in silence

I have seen couples whose wife inspired them to be a better man and change for the good and vice versa
if the willingness is there then nothing can stop that change
In life there is always a fifty percent chance

Sagamite: Moral of your story: Don't go for men who you find out their real identity in a drawer in their study and who did not get love in their childhood.

you and Missy B believe in change at all?
I still don't think it is right to judge a man based on his loveless childhood life and conclude he is not worth it without giving him a shot
he didn't ask to be brought up in a love forsaken environment or home
This is the highest level of discrimination

[quote author=Missy_B]A man that has never been treated right, never been taught to treat people right, and has never treated anyone right will never treat you right no matter what you do.
If you're unfortunate to find such a man, you'll spend the whole of your life trying to please him hoping someday he will change, but they never do.[/quote]I will have to disagree with you partially on the quoted
It is said the only constant thing in life is change
If a woman comes to the way of that man and show him what it feels like to be treated right and like a king
and at this point he has tasted both ways of being treated right and wrong, any sensible man will opt to change and if possible falls in love and change for the best
but any man who refuses to change and still dwell in the past is because he is yet to encounter a woman who brings the best out of him

Be a good communicator even when you are angry.
Help around the (his) house in your spare time
Encourage him and try to inspire him in any little way
Try to share his interest (even if its 20%) in hobbies that you are not that cool with
Don't go out of your comfort zone just to win an argument with him to prove a point

Vikin: There is always something they demand for ransom.

In aba, i heard a woman that roast corn was kidnapped but was bailed out with 750naira recharge card.

Lol has Nigeria degenerated to that level?
750 naira, choiii life is not easy o

Honey stop holding on to the moneylove
If he says it to your face each time that he cheats on you and yet show no sign of repentance I don't see any sign of love or respect from his part
ask yourself this
is that the kind of man you want to spend the rest of your life with? knowing fully well he is never going to respect you or your feelings?

Evil that men do lives after them
when will mothers learn, how dare you leave an 11year old for days
Illetracy is indeed a disease

Why should tall women wear heels? please it is a No No No Lol

[quote author=Mr. Him]Goldie could be Razz and all, but her local content taste in men , has made me to somehow want 2 Y***H her. heheheehnhohoh [/quote]Lol. . . . Love is wicked and silly in her part

Sagamite: Good song, lovely video.

The director of the video (Oludare) is quality and I can easily see him doing videos for the best in the West.

Good song ke that song is out of point
The video is nice, I dig her "don't touch my body" video more than this tho

Miss Ghana and South Sudan

Seriously
Oh well she needs someone to keep her high standard class up and no one will do it better than this loaded dude
all the best to them

This song should be dedicated to Prezzo
so all this her gaga attitude is for nothing? making quip of herself on BBA smh