y me: Be a good communicator even when you are angry.
Help around the (his) house in your spare time
Encourage him and try to inspire him in any little way
Try to share his interest (even if its 20%) in hobbies that you are not that cool with
Don't go out of your comfort zone just to win an argument with him to prove a point

Mynd_44: Boring

Goldieluks:


Yours sincerely..

luckgames:
Lot of women think you are a fool because you do your best to ensure that they are taking care off
Because you are doing a lot for them , they become selfish and Me, me person

davidylan: Treat a man like a king (i.e. give him his respect as the man in your relationship), shower him with attention (dont suffocate him though), show that you care in the little ways (the occassional card to say you love him, popping over once in a while to fix a meal, give him a massage or clean his house)...

A REAL man will love such a woman and treat her like precious gold.

pendo89:

That I believe comes out your expe with them.But some men wouldn't agree with you cz what they do is reciprocated by the women in their lives.

davidylan: Treat a man like a king (i.e. give him his respect as the man in your relationship), shower him with attention (dont suffocate him though), show that you care in the little ways (the occassional card to say you love him, popping over once in a while to fix a meal, give him a massage or clean his house)...

A REAL man will love such a woman and treat her like precious gold.

Beync:
sorry to disappoint you, if a man does'nt like a woman even after doing all these she would'nt get any response.
But if a man loves a woman and the woman treats him like king then his love'll be come stronger and bonding.
i'v seen a girl who did everything for a man only for him to dump her for the girl he loves.

luckgames:
Kingdom of Selfish : UK

Beync:
sorry to disappoint you, if a man does'nt like a woman even after doing all these she would'nt get any response.
But if a man loves a woman and the woman treats him like king then his love'll be come stronger and bonding.
i'v seen a girl who did everything for a man only for him to dump her for the girl he loves.

luckgames:
It is a two way street
for both men and women
Agreed

pendo89:

I love that. Both ways.

luckgames:
It is a two way street
for both men and women
Agreed

Missy_B: A man that has never been treated right, never been taught to treat people right, and has never treated anyone right will never treat you right no matter what you do.
If you're unfortunate to find such a man, you'll spend the whole of your life trying to please him hoping someday he will change, but they never do.

Goldieluks:

Lol ..your definition.

y me:
I will have to disagree with you partially on the quoted
It is said the only constant thing in life is change
If a woman comes to the way of that man and show him what it feels like to be treated right and like a king
and at this point he has tasted both ways of being treated right and wrong, any sensible man will opt to change and if possible falls in love and change for the best
but any man who refuses to change and still dwell in the past is because he is yet to encounter a woman who brings the best out of him

Nuzo':
"There is an old law of physics that you can only get out of a thing as much as you put in it" - Ronald Regan

Letter to his son on the eve of his marriage.

Missy_B: A man that has never been treated right, never been taught to treat people right, and has never treated anyone right will never treat you right no matter what you do.
If you're unfortunate to find such a man, you'll spend the whole of your life trying to please him hoping someday he will change, but they never do.

He should not treat you right only after you wash, cook and die for him . . .He ought to treat you right from the start.
See how he relates to other people, see how he treats his mother/sisters, if possible see what kind of home he's from.
You can't give what you don't have.

pendo89: Are you able to differentiate the two? genuine love and tricks?

y me:
I will have to disagree with you partially on the quoted

y me:
It is said the only constant thing in life is change
[b]If a woman comes to the way of that man and show him what it feels like to be treated right and like a king
and at this point he has tasted both ways of being treated right and wrong, any sensible man will opt to change [/b]and if possible falls in love and change for the best
but any man who refuses to change and still dwell in the past is because he is yet to encounter a woman who brings the best out of him

Sagamite:

Moral of the story: Don't go for men who you find out their real identity in a drawer in their study and who did not get love in their childhood.

Sagamite:

Moral of your story: Don't go for men who you find out their real identity in a drawer in their study and who did not get love in their childhood.

y me: you and Missy B believe in change at all?
I still don't think it is right to judge a man based on his loveless childhood life and conclude he is not worth it without giving him a shot
he didn't ask to be brought up in a love forsaken environment or home
This is the highest level of discrimination

y me: you and Missy B believe in change at all?
I still don't think it is right to judge a man based on his loveless childhood life and conclude he is not worth it without giving him a shot
he didn't ask to be brought up in a love forsaken environment or home
This is the highest level of discrimination

eldee:

Lool...childhood you know..trust Sagamite to make a simple relationship sound like an FBI recruitment mission.

I honestly think there's a little bit of irrationality in affection as there is with any other emotion.
Human beings can't always succeed in their efforts to be in control of everything.

luckgames:
You have start you mess ?
You need to go play with yourself
I am done with you

sexkillz: Love and action are inter-twined. Love is a verb. A verb is a action word. Which means that love is evident from your actions.

If a man dislikes a woman to the point of hatred, nothing she does would make him love her. If he loves her on the other hand, it's evident from the way he treats her and the way he reciprocates that love.
So, if my love for you is evident in my actions, and my actions are evidence of my love, I'll say Love is weighter.

Missy_B:
Ehn hen! See finish!
How dare you disagree with me, omo rhia! There's no elderly woman's potrait in your living room abi? When I cough, you ought to say 'yes ma', and not disagree. . . Omo no sakan!

Missy_B:

It's all ideas, but not realistic. . . .Change is not as simple as people speak of it.
The problem is not accepting being treated as a king, but returning the gesture. It's easy to accept (positive things), giving is where the problem lies, and I find it quite difficult to understand how one can give what he's not got.

I have heard and seen women that put up with some nasty habits of their men, hoping that someday, they will change . . .they never do. Instead, your loving gestures are mistaken for tolerance, and the 'men' get worse.
Take for instance the case of physical abuse . . .These women who are victims, don't they show love to these men?
Who cooks for them, washes for them, keeps them company, tends to their needs, endure their sh@t? With all this 'love' being shown, how many of these men have voluntarily changed for the better?

If a snake is a product of a snake, grows in the midst of snakes, it can never act like a dove.
Only few people are strong enough to modify themselves as time goes . . .Change is not a simple thing.



Stop hating, jelosy!
That reminds me . . . . I'm off to do [i]you-know-wha[/i]t.