Account2Many: I met this pretty tall and gorgeous looking girl 3 months ago, we exchanged numbers but she hasn't been calling which is a sure sign that she isn't into me and I understood. I'm the only one that has been doing all the calls and checking up but she has never for once flashed, even when she misses my calls she will never call back. So I recently came back after I travelled cos I'm on my annual leave, I called her and told her I'll like to see her, she said she isn't always chanced but obliged to see me after she closes from work by 6pm then she'll drop by a certain rendezvous we agreed on. So by 5:30pm I got myself well dressed went to the ATM withdrew some cash, and waited for her but she closed from work and went directly back home without calling me, I waited till 7pm and since I didn't see her calls, I now called thrice, she wasn't answering, then I later called the fourth time and she picked the call and started blasting me with words like "why am I disturbing her life? am i that jobless? go find a job and all those profane words" I now asked her where she is and she responded that where she is it's not important to me" I should stop disturbing her life and go get something useful to engage in. Mehn after she insulted and embarrassed me on phone I just kukuma ended the call and went back home. I'm suspecting she's a lesbian. Honestly I'm so ashamed of myself, it's not easy coping with rejection or insults from female folks
I'm hopelessly in love with this girl I met back on sec school. She talked to me at first and we immediately clicked it's as if we knew each other for ages. Fast forward 2 months later I ask her to be my girlfriend after I had noticed she felt the same for me, she'd try to kiss me but me being a shy person and suffering from extreme social anxiety back then secondary school even with my good looks I was still very very shy. Anyways she turned me down, I asked her why and she had no reason, I respected myself and didnt ask anymore. The next day she started ignoring me, I swear it torn my heart to see the way this girl would snub me, 2 days later she came back begging and I forgave her we went back to being extremely close she'd tell me everything even her personal family matters which I found very weird. Fast forward half a year later, we're so close most think we're dating and even herself would tell me she talks to me and often forgets I'm not her boyfriend. I try again and ask her out, She rejects me again telling me she fears when we break up, we would stop talking even tho she still talks and relates well with her EX whom bad mouthed her publicly and she'd like us to get married instead of dating (This honestly pissed me off and I found it extremely difficult to communicate with her)
Presently now (almost a year )we don't talk, I deleted her number so as to get over her. Truth be told i can't stop thinking about her and it's driving me mad, i recently came across a video and some photos of her online and it just originated those feelings for her. I'm hopelessly in love with this girl and I'm sick of it. All I ask is for advice, how do I move on? I'm a person of that values self respect ALOT and i can't bring myself to talk to her after she turned me down TWICE.
P.S She even told me she had a crush on me, so it honestly left me confused when she turned me down the second time.
flirt with girls, the ones more beautiful than her...sharp sharp u will forget her
dollytino4real: I hear people testify of how they got help from NL. but any time I come up to seek for help mine post will be full of insult and backlash or it will be remove by mods. NL make i naked waka first b4 help come? am really in need
mascot345: My babe lost her phone three months ago. I bought another phone two weeks ago and gave her my old phone that I have barely used for just two months.
Just these week,,, one Guy did birthday and she has been posting all sorts of sweet massages about the guy. Calling him Boy friend and boo. And all romantic stuffs. I confronted her , she told me that the guy is a cousin.
To find out more. I chatted the guy up on Facebook and pretended to need his services. I then inquired about the romantic stuffs that he is flirting with one babe on Facebook. The guy ended up telling me that the girl is his little sister. Can you imagine. I became more confused. He told me that he is not dating her. She is not his girlfriend. I didn't even tell the guy that the girl in question is my babe. The truth is that my babe doesn't joke with saving punna. She has been sending romantic massages about our next romantic date. That is coming to my house to warm my bed. She spends every weekend in my house. Should I collect the phone from her or should just continue bleeping. The babe is just romantic.
She doesn't joke with coming to my house and she doesn't disappoint at all.
Do things jeje...try and make ur own investigation..to know whether his truly her cousin or not before u react
saaphiere: If you are dating or ever dated a military personnel, share your experience. Here is mine. There's this naval officer I met years back in Port Harcourt. We were sitting opposite each other in a wedding reception but from a distance. The way he was looking at me, I knew he had something to tell me. He was very neat from head to toe. I love neat and smart people. I guess that was what made be fell easily for him. He was a shy type. He couldn't even approached me. So he gave someone his number to give me. Immediately the piece of paper where he wrote his number was handed over to me, he left his seat. I didn't see him again till I left the venue. Some days passed, I call his number and he picked. We started talking till we became more familiar and wanted something more so we dated. He was every caring. The first day he invited me to his house, I thought he will demand for sex like most Nigerian men do but to my surprise he didn't. Throughout my dating time with him, he never requested for sex. Sex would just happened. The way he showered me love made me became so emotionally attached to him. There were moments I could not go a day without setting my eyes on him. He was so meek and down to earth. He told me if he wasn't in the military he would be a pastor. After months of dating him, trouble set in. He wasn't having time for me anymore due to the nature of his work. I was in a relationship but I was lonely. He will go for months and I won't hear from him. There was a time he told me he was going for two weeks operation and after two weeks he will be back. Two weeks came and gone I didn't hear from my love. A month came and gone still didn't hear from him. After 3 months I heard a news that militants attacked Nigerian Naval officers I knew my love was among them. I would cry myself to sleep. I later put myself together and moved on. Two years later he called me. I was shocked. I didn't believe he was the one so I requested to see him in person. He came all the way to PH. When I saw him at first, I wanted to run because I thought he was his ghost. He proved to me that he was real and not a ghost then told me everything that happened. Right there I told him I've moved on and I can't continue again. He knelt down and begged me to marry him I told him I can't. That he is not always around me. He left that day in tears. I unfriend him on my Facebook and he didn't bug me like most Nigerian men would do after telling them it's over they still come to your inbox disturbing you. He was so so cool and a quiet type.
Today I went to Facebook, I just decided to chat him up. I was shocked by what I saw on his timeline.
Dentmoyin: Wearing of waistbeads should be abolished, my friend is under a spell, anytime he argues with his girlfriend and she touches her waist beads, my guy will just accept whatever she says. please how can he break free from the spell?
both of u should pin her down and cut the waist bead
I've been battling with an issue of late which has been bothering me.
Anytime I come across a lady, initiate conversation and exchange contact. I always lose interest in them the moment I get to my house and masturbate to the fantasy of me sexing them.
Its been going on and on and it has held me back from keeping communication and moving to the next stage (relationship or friendship) with these ladies.
Although I'm the type of guy who is not really interested in relationship all I want with ladies is sex and sex, the moment I see ladies for the first time and converse with them what comes to my mind is to sex them and be Bleep buddies.
I don't know what is wrong with me, is it that I'm addicted to masturbation or it happens because I only want sex with these ladies and nothing more.
Please I need your help urgently.
Stop the hell dame masturbation.. Follow up those girls ....knack them...pussy sweet pass masturbation
Alexgman1: My girl is in her early 20s. A pretty, decent damsel who was born & brought up in MFM. I deflowered her 2years ago. Shes very innocent facialy, very loving, caring, romantic & helpful. I can go on & on describing her good & unique virtues which make me love & cherish her so much. But the problem is SHE LIES ALOT. I know an average human lies like up to 5x a day but my baby doesn't know how to stop or use caution when it comes to lying. I have not talked to her about it before, all i do is nod my head or smile whenever she talks. Am fed up already because there is nothing you will ask her that she wont respond witout lying or twisting words specially when we are on call. She lies on things that doesn't even need to be lied about. Just recently she came to my place, we had so much fun & she slept off there after. I was looking 4 my phone everywhere in the house but couldnt find it so i had to use her phone to call my number. To my greatest surprise she saved my number in her phone as "MY BROTHER"
chai...I no fit laugh.. she get her main boyfriend somewhere..you are just a side boyfriend. just make her your side girlfriend..don't end the relationship, use it to take free tooto. then get a new babe for urself
I felt so sad as a private school teacher..the little money I made from a salary of N17000 i managed to survive has been stopped due to Corona virus pandemic. Am just down...bcus..aren't happy at all..I sip garri...this evening to sleep...am not happy about my account.. any help will be appreciated. 0066747487 Sterling bank idongesit Sunday.
Johnbestman: she will come 2morrow by 4pm. is the time too late
u should have buy that postinor2 tablet immediately u finish to prevent the sperm from reacting. well pray to God that ur sperm never react before that 4pm.
Johnbestman: MY MIND NO JUST DE AT REST.. I COULD NOT GO OUT TO BUY C.D BCUS OF HOW HOT AND TEMPTING SHE LOOKS AND SHE NO REALLY SABI ANY DRUG TO TAKE BCUS SHE IS STILL YOUNG AND SHE NEVER SABI TINS LIKE DAT.. I CAN'T REST NOW. WAT IF SHE COME GET BELLE.
DIS LAGOS TIRE ME. THIS SHOMOLU TIRE ME. ABI NA TOO JUST RUN.
01pudesseld: Which is better, dating or being single?
Dating: only if you can find a lady that's won't such ur resources and left you dry like a skeleton.
single: if you really wanna concentrate to update your life as a hustler. hustler are not suppose to date...the are suppose to focus on making their life better before going into relationship.
gaius01: Oga You are responsible for it. How will you break up and still have her contact and you went as far as posting bea pix and you really want her to see it. You could have mute her for privacy reason. Just be prayerful no one can predict a girl like this and also she might be joking reason because she knows how you will fear if you hear it.
The kind of girls people date this days eh
I didn't post for her to see it.... and besides am not a type that block girls contact after breakup
Privatepart00: Some people are not worthy to be identified as a male . You just one of them not minding you have their reproductive organ. Vegetable is precisely better than you are .
The first thing that comes to my mind is...this guy is a pussy monk. that's why your thinking smell like a rotten pussy
ABANGWABOI: #ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv
Even by your Moniker ..
You are a young chap..
You need proper education more then relationship..
Focus on your life goals and forget about women for now..
Kryptonvinyl: No worry ursef at all. She broke up with you, and not the other way round so does she want you to stay single forever because u were he 'EX' ? Just got about your business don't let it bother you
Highzik20: Am tired of being broke at home because of this lockdown while schools are yet to reopen. Meanwhile some of my friends who made up their mind to start hustling (street) during the lockdown have started cashing out some dollars already, I was there forming good guy and don't want to enter street, now am feeling like i made the wrong choice after seeing those my guys.
Abeg who know better free site or app to dey bomb jare, i can't cum and be doing myself since i have tried to look for a part time job to do but can't get any.
Go and look for home lessons...check your neighborhood there might be someone in need of a home tutor for their kids
MejiLoyon: I get threats from them exes everyday. Especially those that left when man was broke as f. There is a jutsu I'll teach you. It's called the life and death shadow blocking jutsu. Simply find her number.... Block Go to facebook... Block Go to whatsapp.... Blovk Telegram..... Block Nextplus....Block Instagram..... Block Hangout...... Block Her friends...Block If you have anyone as a friend who is her friend under her facebook or instagram handle.... Block Any of your guys that knows her and speaks about her..... Block Anyone you know that has her contact.... Block.
For the Bible says resist the devil and he will flee from you. Make she no go pour you acid. One Don threaten say I must die. How do you kill a person you don't see? Dem no dey catch mess.
My ex girlfriend broke up with me and start dating another guy simply because I don't take her out. That was last year, I was still a student...how on Earth will she expects a student to be taking her out all the time..hmm. I pleaded with her to come back but she turn deaf on me. so I decided to stop pleading and move you...this same girl that refuses to come back to me..likes dropping me messages both on Facebook and WhatsApp...So recent I posted a picture of I and my new babe...in WhatsApp status...she saw the picture..though she told me we are cute...not knowing she has a bad mine and jealousy in her heart. She chatted up my friend...told my best friend that she I send picture of I and my new babe to her that she is planning to do me something..have warned her never to chat with me again before she kill me. what should I do..my fellow nairaland..because this girl doesn't want to see me processing... she likes to ask things about my ongoing life. what should I do.
Romance › Re: This Girl I Met Seriously Embarrassed Me by youngmo001(m): 10:38pm On Sep 17, 2020
