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The Whites and Simplicity Hmm very impressive.

The lion of Nigerian Politics...Rotimi Amaechi! The life of any nigerian worth more than the desire of a selfish and wicked politician...RIP to those who lost their life in river state...and Wike shouldn't die anymore he should live for life.

#SAYNOTODEMOCRATICINTIMIDATION
GOD BLESS NIGERIA
GOD BLESS RIVER STATE

Kabiesi ooo flex dey go

ironMind:
it is you that have dirty in your body that make the website like that. if you comot today from this site, everywhere will clean like palace

see the rubbish that you post and you are still feeling like Boss...some people are better kept in yankari game reserves

Campaign after election... After making some students pay for their own Misfortune...JAMB na scrap

DUMB POST..poor write up....Nairaland is now a refuse dump site...nawaoo

Rip...a minute silence

Many are called buh few are chosen ...12 first claass kudos to them sha....but their own first class 2 small oooo

Many are called buh few are chosen ...12 first claass kudos to them sha....but their own first class 2 small o

Pwayne2016:
We are developing fast like America while Some dumb ofe.mmanu people dey masturbate unnecessarily on their past glory

big fool whose brain reboots every 2 seconds, dem dey give u (monkey) small banana u dey rant, yoruba na ur papa
PROUDLY ODUDUWA
PROUDLY NIGERIAN
#SAYNOTOTRIBALISM

tbaba1234:
Dealing with Zina and Shamelessness- the muslim youth

It is not uncommon to see conscious muslims fall into the trap of Zina, It usually starts from 'harmless' text messages and calls. I have heard these stories time and time again. If only we could stick to what Allah has given us. Brothers in the guise of giving a sister 'dawah' have fallen into this. Sisters in the guise of helping out a brother have also fallen. As long as it is between men and women, you can not rule out the influence of emotions and hormones no matter how good the intention was.

This piece is not to castigate but to offer hope.

Shamelessness (fashaa) is one of the major sins mentioned in the Quran. In modern times, this is one of the most common sin among muslim youth. It starts with the use of technology (text messaging, facebook etc) to pornography then to the actual act. This is a prevalent thing, it is a very serious matter.

For those deep into this, the common question is: Is there hope for me? Would Allah forgive me?... Allah commands us in the Quran not to lose hope in Him. Allah says to the believers:

Say, ‘[God says], My servants who have harmed yourselves by your own excess, do not despair of God’s mercy. God forgives all sins: He is truly the Most Forgiving, the Most Merciful. (Surah 39:53)

In surah Furqan, Allah speaks of those who have committed shirk, injustice, Zina and murder:

those who never invoke any other deity beside God, nor take a life, which God has made sacred, except in the pursuit of justice, nor commit adultery.Whoever does these things will face the penalties: their torment will be doubled on the Day of Resurrection, and they will remain in torment, disgraced, except those who repent, believe, and do good deeds: God will change the evil deeds of such people into good ones. He is most forgiving, most merciful. People who repent and do good deeds truly return to God. (Surah 25:68-71)

Here Allah says to those who have done shirk and committed murder or Zina: If you repent, revive your faith and then engage in good actions. Allah says that he would convert their mountain of evil deeds into good deeds. All of the evil you have done will not only be wiped away but converted into good deeds, if you do three things:

i. Repent sincerely

ii. Revive your faith

iii. Continuously do good deeds

If you can do just three things, SubhanAllah.

If you can sincerely get away from this sin. Sometimes people get addicted to this. They hate themselves for their addiction but they are still addicted. The best course of action is to get away from the things that lead you to this. The environment that leads you to this.

The emotional attachment to this person is also a factor, some can't get away from it. Allah made women extremely compassionate, loving and attached. This is a strength but if it is misused, it becomes a weakness. Men prey on this emotional side of women by telling them all kinds of sweet nothings to get them hooked so that they can fulfill their desire.

The key is to get away completely from this, cut all ties, focus on learning about your religion, focus on Allah.

For the men:

The messenger (peace and blessings be upon him) said that the greatest threat he feared for the men of this ummah was women (Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5096) and Muslim (2741)). Not the threat of invading armies or weapons of mass destruction. None of these things but Women!! This is where shaytan will get you. It does not matter if you have a long beard or if you are at the mosque everyday for fajr or if you have memorised the Quran. In this one thing, you can not help yourself.

Allah talks about the people of taqwa who enter paradise in Surah Imran and one of the characteristics of these people is that whenever they did something shameless, they remembered Allah immediately:

those who remember God and implore forgiveness for their sins if they do something shameful or wrong themselves– who forgives sins but God?– and
who never knowingly persist in doing wrong. (Surah 3:135)

You looked at what you were not supposed to look at, you went where you were not supposed to go, they touched what they shouldn't have... Immediately these people do something shameless they remember Allah.

The point here is that the people of Jannah are people who do make mistakes but as soon as they fall into a trap immediately they remember Allah and sincerely seek forgiveness from Allah.

Help from an addiction of this sort can only come from Allah, no amount of knowledge can help you sometimes. We see the case of yusuf (alayhi salam), a prophet of Allah. Allah said (roughly translated:

She made for him, and he would have succumbed to her if he had not seen evidence of his Lord– We did this in order to keep evil and indecency away from him, for he was truly one of Our chosen servants. (Surah 12:24)

Joseph said, ‘My Lord! I would prefer prison to what these women are calling me to do. If You do not protect me from their treachery, I shall yield to them and do wrong,’ (Surah 12:33)

This is a prophet of Allah. He recognizes his human weakness and asks Allah for protection.. A lot of brothers live with the facade that they can control themselves... "I can have a pre-marital relationship and control myself. I am just calling her on the phone. I can handle myself". This is a weak, shallow argument that fails to recognize the nature of man himself. If you are caught in a compromising situation, do you think your good intention will hold up

Joseph (alayhi salam) can take being thrown into a well and into prison but he can not handle that. He asks Allah to protect him from that.

This is a very serious lesson.

For men caught up in this, The first thing is to acknowledge your weakness, the second is to get better company.


More to come in Part II... Insha Allah..

pls add me on nairaland muslim forum on whatsapp 07035043950

Can't take ur poo write up cos u re a religious bigot..why would u bring religion into this ...take yunusa responsible not ISLAM..Yunusa perform d actions Not Islam...stop blaiming Islam for people evil acts

#SAYNOTORELIGIOUSBIGOTISM

PROUDLY MUSLIM
PROUDLY NIGERIAN

kaziblake:
Congrats

is it a mockery or applaud ?

Fucking yoruba impostors.....they always want to feel lyk d yorubas...ask ur Nnamdi Kanu did he witness d biafran war, those who witness it are telling u guyz to stop buh u keep on agitating blindly....someone jst came frm unknown land brainwash u guyz nd u keep shouting BIAFRA.

#SAYNOTOBIAFRA

The unity of dis country doesn't call for debate.
PROUDLY YORUBA
PROUDLY NIGERIAN
I believe in Nigeria

Yes there is buh it aint funny...am 21 nd still want to wait till ma marriage..

barcanista:
This man never still resign? Must he remain in the seat? Na wa o

your prophecy is coming true and you move away from the truth and embark on falsehood......am expecting your ranting.

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Hey guyz i have been offered admission into kwarapoly dis afternoon.....ND arch tech....guyz when is d deadline for d payment and what is d link to make d payment am pleading guyz pls help me..

Pls is d last list for full time out......

CLIQBOY: wait till maybe tomoro

thanks bro pls update us anytime they have upload names again thanks....

I didnt see my name pls is there any list again apart from this one...

I log on to the website bt noting lyk d list is out.....

mehn d list suppose to be out by nw but i dont knw why it is not yet out .God help make me make my name dey for first list ooo.

musty706: Plss palz I scored 50%...**crying** is dia any hope for me??

u scored 50 percent in post ume nd u re crying

oyin prince u stay in ilorin abi cos i stay in Abuja.

i just check mine it is batch 6 12/10/13 kwarapoly permanent campus ilorin

Oyinprince: Hi evry1 , i just checkd mine, its on 12/10/2013. Who is gon be writin d same time wit me?

i just check mine it is batch 6 12/10/13 kwarapoly permanent campus ilorin

pls anybody dat hav kwarapoly pst qst should help me dis is ma email lukmanopeyemi91@yahoo.com my course is arch tech pls guyz OND.

Congrats girl!!!!