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 Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 9:52am On Nov 10, 2014 |
9. Fifty Shades of Divorce: A very rich and successful banker from London decided to divorce her husband based on the reason that he refused to pleasure her. The 41 year old woman wished to spice up their marriage by reading and practicing some of the moves in the erotic novel “Fifty Shades of Grey“. When she presented the idea to her husband, he refused and literally went crazy because of his wife’s obscure request. Since the book failed to improve their love and sex life, she decided to be single and “ready to mingle”. 1 Like
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| Family › 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 9:50am On Nov 10, 2014 |
Divorce is something that most people condone and most couples try and avoid. But when the situation is uncontrollable, divorce seems to be the only way out to live happily ever after. The number of divorce cases across the world is huge and with these bizarre reasons being added to the list, the number can only rise. In America, 50% of all marriages end in divorce. That means one out of every two couples will eventually separate. Gone are the days where marriage was a sacred thing. Now it is more likely you will end up divorced rather than have a happily ever after. Although there are many common reasons for divorce like cheating, beating or even just meeting (an ex), these bizarre reasons will literally drop your jaw and widen your eyes. 10. You Are Beautiful On The Inside. NOT! In China, a man named Jian Feng filed for divorce from his beautiful wife when he found out the truth about said beauty. The wife did not tell Feng about the plastic surgery operation she had done. She spent $100,000 on the procedure which gave her her stunning looks. Feng was deeply in love with his gorgeous wife until the couple was blessed with a baby girl. According to Feng, the baby did not look like him or his wife. In fact, he said that the baby was “horrifically ugly”. The wife feared being charged with adultery and she finally confessed. Feng sued her, won and divorced the woman. 1 Like
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| Christianity Etc › Re: Myles Munroe, His Wife & Daughter Are Dead (Plane Crash) by yuzjet(m): 9:42am On Nov 10, 2014 |
RIP 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Why You Should Never Give Up On Love by yuzjet(op): 10:09pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Ploy:U see, u ain't really know what Love is. Let me clarify it for u. Love is neither a SHE nor it is a HE. U can see now that u don't love girls neither. U only attach ursef to Dem. So, try and see love from a pure mindset. Not with a mind DAT is attached to Dem all in d name of Love, Ok? |
| Romance › Re: Why You Should Never Give Up On Love by yuzjet(op): 9:47pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
| Romance › Why You Should Never Give Up On Love by yuzjet(op): 9:32pm On Nov 09, 2014 |
Written by: Luminita D. Saviuc of Purpose Fairy. “To those who have given up on love: I say, “Trust life a little bit.” ~ Maya Angelou You know what I really love? LOVE! I love LOVE! The way I see it, there ain’t no bigger and more powerful force in the whole universe than LOVE itself. Love makes the world go round. It’s the glue that hold everything together. Love is what we are made of. We are made of love and made to love. Our true nature is love and by trying to move away from love, by saying that we want to give up on love, we slowly but surely move away from who we truly are. We move away from our true nature, drifting away and feeling more and more disoriented, disconnected and confused. The biggest mistake anyone can make is to give up on love. How can you give up on something that’s in you? How can you give up on something that is YOU? By giving up on love, you give up on yourself and you give up on life. Without love there’s nothing left. Nothing worth having, nothing worth doing… You often hear people saying things like: * I’m giving up on love. * Love hurts. * I don’t ever want to love again. * I’m too afraid I’ll get hurt again. * This love messed me up and I’m done with it. * I’m done with love!” We’re so ignorant. We have no clue what love is. We think that love is the source of suffering, but is that what love really is? Believe it or not, it’s not love that hurts. It’s not love that’s causing us to feel pain and heartbreak, but rather our attachment to how things should or shouldn’t be. It’s the ideas we have in our head about what love should be like and about how relationships should manifest. Most of us are in Controlling Relationships, not Loving Relationships. We play God with one another, controlling and pretending to know what’s best for each other and we deprive ourselves of the freedom that each of us wants and needs. Instead of allowing one another to express ourselves and live our lives in the way our Souls intended for us to live our lives, freely and authentically, we get in the way. We interfere and influence each other’s destiny, not in a positive, but rather in a negative, and at times destructive way. “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.” ~ 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 It’s not love that hurts. It’s not love that you should give up on. For love is only interested in loving. Love is not interested in controlling or trying to change or cage the other person. Love only wants to love, for that is all that love knows how to do. If you were hurt and injured emotionally because of a relationship you have been in, know that love had nothing to do with it. And know that it’s not love that you should give up on but rather your attachment and the many toxic and distorted ideas you have about love. “He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow, for the root of all grief is attachment. Thus one should discard attachment to be happy.” ~Chanakya We confuse love with all kind of toxic and distorted things, claiming that we know what love is all about when in fact we know little or nothing about it. People who have never even glimpsed the realm of the the infinite vastness of love go around claiming and pretending to know what love is really all about. Giving love a bad name, claiming and affirming that love love hurts and that love causes pain. “Love liberates. It doesn’t just hold—that’s ego. Love liberates . It doesn’t bind. Love says, ‘I love you. I love you if you’re in China. I love you if you’re across town. I love you if you’re in Harlem. I love you. I would like to be near you. I’d like to have your arms around me. I’d like to hear your voice in my ear. But that’s not possible now, so I love you. Go.’” ~ Dr. Maya Angelou When you enter a relationship with all kind of expectations, wanting the other person to be this or that, and hoping your “love” will never come to an end, you can’t help but suffer. And your suffering will never come from love, but rather from your attachment to how things should be and your attachment to the other person. Things go bad. Relationships end, but that’s not the end of the world and it surely shouldn’t be the end of your loving life. It’s so important to understand that life is yours and yours alone. And just as you are a separate entity who wants to be and feel free, so is your partner. He does not owe you anything just as you do owe him anything. If your Souls came together, they didn’t came together for eternity, but only for a while. And since you cannot know for how long you’re meant to be together, the whole idea is to treasure each moment you spend next to each other and to love one another truly, purely and freely. No controlling, no bonding, no caging and no attachment. If you try to cage each other and if you try to cling onto one another, thinking that you should be together for eternity, your Souls will rebel against it and they will try their best to escape from the bondage they are in. And the more you cling onto each other, the more pain you will bring upon yourselves. Why do you think so many people have regrets about marriage? Because marriage has become a way to cage and hold each other “hostage”. Marriage has became a way of holding the person next to us in bondage, taking away their freedom and their right to be the wonderful, unique, loving and free being they were born to be. Love isn’t about holding onto the person next to you. Love is sometimes about freeing the one you love, allowing him/her to be, to do and to go wherever their Souls needs them to go. So you see, it’s not love that you should give up on. But rather your attachment to the many toxic ideas that are causing you to think that love can hurt you. Always remember that love can never hurt you, for love knows only how to love. That’s all there is to love. Love is made to love and never to hurt or cause pain to anyone. So love yourself with all your might and love those you come in contact with, not necessary because they deserve it, but because you do. Never ever give up on love and love will not give up on you. Love is what makes the world go round, it’s the glue that holds us together. A life without love is a life empty of meaning. Love is just a way to die. Love can sometimes feels like death, Just like death is always at the end days of every lives. Love anyway because at the end, even if u give up on death, u will die anyway. (Yusuf Jeleel) Do you think love hurts or is it just the attachment to our ideas on how things should be and how our relationships should unfold that cause us pain and suffering? You can share your insights by joining the conversation in the comment section below. [url=themindunleashed.org/2014/11/never-give-love.html] SOURCE[/url]
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| Politics › Re: Why Boko Haram Fight And Some Recommendations For Quelling Their Insurgency. by yuzjet(m): 8:43pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
Am speechless. it's only God that can fight them for us. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Navy Recruitment 2014/2015 Is Out by yuzjet(m): 8:41am On Oct 19, 2014 |
Hmmmmm. Ok! |
| Politics › Re: The Federal Government Of Nigeria Says It Has Reached A Ceasefire Deal With BH by yuzjet(m): 4:17pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
Oh so soon? |
| Politics › Re: Boko Haram Negotiates Cease-fire, Chibok Girls Release In S’arabia by yuzjet(m): 1:23pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
MichaelSokoto:Abi. |
| Politics › Re: Boko Haram Negotiates Cease-fire, Chibok Girls Release In S’arabia by yuzjet(m): 12:14pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
Frankenstein:...And what the hell is DAT got to with the peaceful way I booked my space?  1 Like |
| Politics › Re: Boko Haram Negotiates Cease-fire, Chibok Girls Release In S’arabia by yuzjet(m): 12:02pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
Oh really? Mr Secretary-General of Boko Haram, below statement is strictly for u: Picture and Video of d girls in gud conditions, or u're high on boko-weeds. Victory over this boko-idiots is looming. God bless 9Ja. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
| Travel › Re: Colombia Places Travel Ban On Nigeria, 4 Other African Nations because of Ebola by yuzjet(m): 9:14am On Oct 17, 2014 |
When are they going to stop this? Thought US announced that we've successfully contained it? Am smelling something. |
| Politics › Re: Over 1000 Boko Haram Members Arrested In South-West by yuzjet(m): 8:17am On Oct 17, 2014 |
They never die finished? 2 Likes |
| Business › Re: FG To Spend N1 Trillion On Petrol Subsidy In 2015 by yuzjet(m): 12:20am On Oct 17, 2014 |
Hmmmm. Seee money! |
| NYSC › Re: Congratulations To 2013 Batch C Corpers As You Pass Out Of NYSC Scheme Today by yuzjet(m): 4:06pm On Oct 16, 2014*. Modified: 6:56pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Congratulations. Just wishing my peeps in Oyo the best wishes ahead. Better jobs and husband/wife is what I pray God to provide for u all. 4 Likes |
| Sports › Re: Super Eagles Can Still Qualify For Morocco 2015 by yuzjet(m): 7:08pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Hopefully, with musa! |
| Sports › Re: Happy Birthday Ahmed Musa by yuzjet(m): 7:02pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
He deserve it. He's only the consistent SE player. HBD Musa! 9 Likes |
| Politics › Re: "Horn Free Day": Lagosians, What's The Situation Report At Your Place? by yuzjet(m): 8:53am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Wetin concern my neighbour? He don dey horn before he commort for compound.  44 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: TY Bello Delivers Twin Boys After 9 Years Of Marriage by yuzjet(m): 9:41am On Oct 13, 2014 |
endeedike:See dis mofo.  It's there already and it has attracted many likes. But there's nothing u can do about it.  Oya vex, go and hug ur street transformer and die.  1 Like 2 Shares |
| Politics › Re: Fire Burning Seriously At Molete Ibadan. TERRIBLE by yuzjet(m): 7:25am On Oct 13, 2014 |
Oh my gush! |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Calls For A Total Sharia In Nigeria (Published 2001) by yuzjet(m): 7:12am On Oct 13, 2014 |
PenSniper:Who's dis one? |
| Celebrities › Re: TY Bello Delivers Twin Boys After 9 Years Of Marriage by yuzjet(m): 6:46am On Oct 13, 2014 |
Allahu akbar! Congrat to her and her husband. 50 Likes 2 Shares |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Nigeria's 'megachurches': A Hidden Pillar Of Africa's Top Economy by yuzjet(m): 9:42pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Emma8043:For ur mind now, u don talk with sense? Mind u, ur comment above is just another comment. |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Calls For A Total Sharia In Nigeria (Published 2001) by yuzjet(m): 5:23pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Calls For A Total Sharia In Nigeria (Published 2001) by yuzjet(m): 5:02pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
[quote author=Kessyy2k4 post=27082984][/quote]Yes ☺º°˚˚°ºo. Vision 2035. |
| Celebrities › Re: A Nairalander And His Lovely Mother by yuzjet(m): 5:01pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Beautiful. HBD to her. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Calls For A Total Sharia In Nigeria (Published 2001) by yuzjet(m): 3:46pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Kessyy2k4:Don't mind Dem. Que Sera Sera at the end. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Celebrities › Re: Genevieve Nnaji Vs Tiwa Savage: Who Is Hotter & Classier? by yuzjet(m): 3:46pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Wait. Let me bring my thermometer and classinomether. **Edited** from my thermometer, Genny is more hotter abeg and even classier according to my Classinomether. She almost break my thermometer & classinomether sef.  13 Likes 1 Share |
| Celebrities › Re: After Bitter Divorce: Marrying Again Is Still In My Plan —juliet Ibrahim by yuzjet(m): 3:44pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Good for u. Rather Dan flirting around! 2 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Calls For A Total Sharia In Nigeria (Published 2001) by yuzjet(m): 2:46pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Dreambeat:Pardon? |
| Politics › Re: Buhari Calls For A Total Sharia In Nigeria (Published 2001) by yuzjet(m): 2:36pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
And what's dat got to do in 2014? 3 Likes 1 Share |
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