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Education › Re: Cultist Clash: 9 Students Shot Dead In Abia State University (ABSU) by yuzjet(m): 3:33pm On Nov 10, 2014
Oops
Webmasters › Re: Bloggers: Before You Try To Be Like Linda Ikeji... by yuzjet(m): 2:52pm On Nov 10, 2014
Hmmm
Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 2:31pm On Nov 10, 2014
Bunsky:
No 2 and 3,got me laughing.......


550 cats?hope she's ok
Dunno. But something must be wrong with her.
Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 2:26pm On Nov 10, 2014
MurderX:
9. Fifty Shades of Divorce:

Fifty Shades of Grey - Women please do not read this book, it is highly destructive and I believe it is demonic and evil. I have evidence of 5 ladies that I know personally in Nigeria and the UK who are in crisis or have crashed marriages within months of reading this book. I observed the same thing in all of them - they spoke passionately of Fifty Shades of Grey. Please again do not read this book, it corrupts the soul beyond comprehension. If you have already read it, please pray it out and replace the message in your mind with more godly data - do not attempt to practise it. Save your marriage, we don't know the sources of these books.
Are u really serious about the book? Though, hv not read it.
Car Talk › Re: Do Cars Malfunction After Having Sex In Them? by yuzjet(m): 11:46am On Nov 10, 2014
Wetin?
Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 11:31am On Nov 10, 2014
freecocoa:
Thats why there's something called communication, you tell her how you feel instead of keeping mute and then nickname her such behind her back.
Anyhow!
Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 11:05am On Nov 10, 2014
freecocoa:
I also don't find that nickname funny, especially since she had no prior knowledge of it, the man must have really felt trapped to come up with such.
I can't blame the man. Maybe the woman is making him to feel like he's in prison. Some women can do DAT very well u know?
Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 10:14am On Nov 10, 2014
Mskrisx:
E fit hapun for 9ja?
I don't know ooo.
Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 10:13am On Nov 10, 2014
donmalcolm21:
most NaiJa gals are guilty of this but just look at her legs to get the age.
Are u really serious? huh
Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 10:12am On Nov 10, 2014
donmalcolm21:
Orishirishi
Oya emina lenu ooo.
Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 10:05am On Nov 10, 2014
1. Nicknamed to Divorce:
In the year 2009, a Saudi woman divorced her husband of 17 years when she learned of the name he was calling her. The woman went through his cell phone one day while it was out and she looked through the contacts when she came across her number stored under the name “Guantanamo”. As we all know, Guantanamo is a military prison in the United States. Seeing this nickname, the woman was furious and immediately asked for a divorce settlement from her husband. Although he said he thought it would be funny and believed that she would share his sense of humor, the wife could not bear the thought of her husband referring to her as a prison. She said that the name was extremely harsh and rude in his part. He should have just stuck to the classics like “baby”, “honey” or maybe even “wifey”.

LMFAO.... Wonder they say shall never end. grin

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Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 10:03am On Nov 10, 2014
2. Unchanged Facebook Status:
This is probably the most hilarious reasons for divorce ever. We have all seen and maybe even been a victim to how Facebook can destroy a relationship in a matter of minutes. In a newly married couple of just 2 months, a wife files for divorce from her husband all because he forgot to change his Facebook status to “married”. The wife who was 28 years old wished to divorce her husband who was a 31 year old businessman for the most ridiculous reason. The husband said since the marriage was so fresh, he got lost in his work and it slipped his mind about changing his status. When taken to court, the judge sentenced the couple to counseling to try and sort out their predicament. Many lawyers have discovered that Facebook is the reason behind one out of every five divorce cases in the world. These lawyers actually use Facebook as a tool to help them win their case as they can view all the required information online. This method helps a lot in child custody cases.

Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 10:02am On Nov 10, 2014
3. 550 Reasons to Leave:
Imagine getting divorced for being a lover of animals? Yes, in fact in Israel, a man decided “enough is enough” when his wife adopted 550 cats and brought them all home. In 2002, the man’s wife surprised him with the litter and at first, he was fine with it. They all got along very well and the extended family was extremely happy. But as the days and months passed by, he realized that the cats were in the way of everything. They crowded the kitchen, the bathroom and every other room in between. The husband realized that his income was being spent mostly on cat food and not human food. That is when he snapped. The husband then saw the cats stealing food from the dining table after he confronted his wife about the splurging on cat food. This was the last straw and he divorced his cat loving wife. His only wish was that she land on her feet.

Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 10:00am On Nov 10, 2014
4. It’s The Dog House For You:
After being married for 50 years, Eliza, a 70 year old Romanian woman finally decided that she needed to be separated from her husband. She said that her husband had been spending all their money on feeding the stray dogs around their neighborhood. Whatever pension had been coming in for the couple, the husband was spending on buying food for the dogs he so dearly cared for. But what he did not realize was that he was leaving their house empty and without any meals. Eliza recalls her husband buying some scraps of food for just a couple of dogs initially and found it extremely touching but towards the end of their marriage, the husband was feeding over 20 stray dogs which meant food from the house was being taken out. Unable to deal with the loss, she decided to file for divorce.

Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 9:58am On Nov 10, 2014
5. Running to Get Divorced?
In 2008, Wang Yueting, a 56 year old Chinese man was divorced by his wife because he ran across China to show his support for the Beijing Olympics. According to his wife, Wang sold his apartment and purchased a van and supplies for the run. He also hired a team of six men to help him on his mission. On the side of the van, he painted the words “Support Beijing Olympics” in Chinese as well as in English. His wife warned him saying that she would divorce him if he went through with it. He refused to listen as he believed she was bluffing but when he finished his run, she carried out her plans and divorced him.

Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 9:57am On Nov 10, 2014
6. Marriage Is a Game:
World of Warcraft is one of the biggest selling games in the world but the makers didn’t expect it to be a marriage breaker. When Jocelyn, a 28 year old gamer, presented her husband Peter with the World of Warcraft game for Christmas, that is exactly what they got. When Peter got the game in 2004, he got so involved in it; he began to neglect himself and his wife. He stopped doing his chores as well as stopped paying the bills. In a matter of 9 months of playing the game, their 6 years marriage was called off. If only there was a reset button for their life as there is in the game.

Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 9:55am On Nov 10, 2014
7. Age Old Lie:
Across the world, women find a need to lie about their age for some of the most outrageous reasons. But eventually, they have to come clean when they decide to settle down. Unfortunately, a Chinese man found out that his wife for 10 years had lied to him from the beginning. She had told him that she was 24 when he plucked up the courage to propose but in reality she was 30. When he found out the truth, he just could not believe it and saw no other outcome but divorce. For a small little number, she lost out on a happy marriage.

Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 9:54am On Nov 10, 2014
8. I’m All In (Literally):
We all know that poker can sometimes go a bit too far and the players can at times lose whatever possessions they have. But this bet took the game to a very different level. A Russian man, Andrei Karpov, lost his entire savings in a game against his opponent, Sergey Brodov. He really wanted to play more but had no more money to, so he did the unthinkable and bet his wife. Karpov lost the hand and with it, his wife. When Sergey showed up at Karpov’s home to take what he had won, his wife was absolutely furious. She then divorced Karpov and began a relationship with Sergey. They were later married. Now, that is what you call a “Royal Flush”.

Family › Re: 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 9:52am On Nov 10, 2014
9. Fifty Shades of Divorce:
A very rich and successful banker from London decided to divorce her husband based on the reason that he refused to pleasure her. The 41 year old woman wished to spice up their marriage by reading and practicing some of the moves in the erotic novel “Fifty Shades of Grey“. When she presented the idea to her husband, he refused and literally went crazy because of his wife’s obscure request. Since the book failed to improve their love and sex life, she decided to be single and “ready to mingle”.

Family › 10 Most Bizarre But True Divorce Stories by yuzjet(op): 9:50am On Nov 10, 2014
Divorce is something that most people condone and most couples try and avoid. But when the situation is uncontrollable, divorce seems to be the only way out to live happily ever after. The number of divorce cases across the world is huge and with these bizarre reasons being added to the list, the number can only rise. In America, 50% of all marriages end in divorce. That means one out of every two couples will eventually separate. Gone are the days where marriage was a sacred thing. Now it is more likely you will end up divorced rather than have a happily ever after. Although there are many common reasons for divorce like cheating, beating or even just meeting (an ex), these bizarre reasons will literally drop your jaw and widen your eyes.

10. You Are Beautiful On The Inside. NOT!
In China, a man named Jian Feng filed for divorce from his beautiful wife when he found out the truth about said beauty. The wife did not tell Feng about the plastic surgery operation she had done. She spent $100,000 on the procedure which gave her her stunning looks. Feng was deeply in love with his gorgeous wife until the couple was blessed with a baby girl. According to Feng, the baby did not look like him or his wife. In fact, he said that the baby was “horrifically ugly”. The wife feared being charged with adultery and she finally confessed. Feng sued her, won and divorced the woman.

Christianity Etc › Re: Myles Munroe, His Wife & Daughter Are Dead (Plane Crash) by yuzjet(m): 9:42am On Nov 10, 2014
RIP
Romance › Re: Why You Should Never Give Up On Love by yuzjet(op): 10:09pm On Nov 09, 2014
Ploy:
Love, who is she?

Girls don't love in this part of the world, only boys do. I have never been loved but I love people. It sound like a lovelorn, isn't it? That's exactly what it is
U see, u ain't really know what Love is. Let me clarify it for u. Love is neither a SHE nor it is a HE. U can see now that u don't love girls neither. U only attach ursef to Dem. So, try and see love from a pure mindset. Not with a mind DAT is attached to Dem all in d name of Love, Ok?
Romance › Re: Why You Should Never Give Up On Love by yuzjet(op): 9:47pm On Nov 09, 2014
iceberylin:
Incase undecided
Weldone. cool
Romance › Why You Should Never Give Up On Love by yuzjet(op): 9:32pm On Nov 09, 2014
Written by: Luminita D. Saviuc of Purpose Fairy.

“To those who have given up on love: I say, “Trust life a little bit.” ~ Maya Angelou

You know what I really love? LOVE! I love LOVE! The way I see it, there ain’t no bigger and more powerful force in the whole universe than LOVE itself. Love makes the world go round. It’s the glue that hold everything together. Love is what we are made of. We are made of love and made to love. Our true nature is love and by trying to move away from love, by saying that we want to give up on love, we slowly but surely move away from who we truly are. We move away from our true nature, drifting away and feeling more and more disoriented, disconnected and confused.

The biggest mistake anyone can make is to give up on love. How can you give up on something that’s in you? How can you give up on something that is YOU? By giving up on love, you give up on yourself and you give up on life. Without love there’s nothing left. Nothing worth having, nothing worth doing… You often hear people saying things like:
* I’m giving up on love.
* Love hurts.
* I don’t ever want to love again.
* I’m too afraid I’ll get hurt again.
* This love messed me up and I’m done with it.
* I’m done with love!”

We’re so ignorant. We have no clue what love is. We think that love is the source of suffering, but is that what love really is? Believe it or not, it’s not love that hurts. It’s not love that’s causing us to feel pain and heartbreak, but rather our attachment to how things should or shouldn’t be. It’s the ideas we have in our head about what love should be like and about how relationships should manifest.

Most of us are in Controlling Relationships, not Loving Relationships. We play God with one another, controlling and pretending to know what’s best for each other and we deprive ourselves of the freedom that each of us wants and needs. Instead of allowing one another to express ourselves and live our lives in the way our Souls intended for us to live our lives, freely and authentically, we get in the way. We interfere and influence each other’s destiny, not in a positive, but rather in a negative, and at times destructive way.

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.” ~ 1 Corinthians
13:4-8


It’s not love that hurts. It’s not love that you should give up on. For love is only interested in loving. Love is not interested in controlling or trying to change or cage the other person. Love only wants to love, for that is all that love knows how to do. If you were hurt and injured emotionally because of a relationship you have been in, know that love had nothing to do with it. And know that it’s not love that you should give up on but rather your attachment and the many toxic and distorted ideas you have about love. “He who is overly attached to his family members experiences fear and sorrow, for the root of all grief is attachment. Thus one should discard attachment to be happy.” ~Chanakya

We confuse love with all kind of toxic and distorted things, claiming that we know what love is all about when in fact we know little or nothing about it. People who have never even glimpsed the realm of the the infinite vastness of love go around claiming and pretending to know what love is really all about. Giving love a bad name, claiming and affirming that love love hurts and that love causes pain. “Love liberates. It doesn’t just hold—that’s ego. Love liberates . It doesn’t bind. Love says, ‘I love you. I love you if you’re in China. I love you if you’re across town. I love you if you’re in Harlem. I love you. I would like to be near you. I’d like to have your arms around me. I’d like to hear your voice in my ear. But that’s not possible now, so I love you. Go.’” ~ Dr. Maya Angelou

When you enter a relationship with all kind of expectations, wanting the other person to be this or that, and hoping your “love” will never come to an end, you can’t help but suffer. And your suffering will never come from love, but rather from your attachment to how things should be and your attachment to the other person. Things go bad. Relationships end, but that’s not the end of the world and it surely shouldn’t be the end of your loving life. It’s so important to understand that life is yours and yours alone. And just as you are a separate entity who wants to be and feel free, so is your partner. He does not owe you anything just as you do owe him anything.

If your Souls came together, they didn’t came together for eternity, but only for a while. And since you cannot know for how long you’re meant to be together, the whole idea is to treasure each moment you spend next to each other and to love one another truly, purely and freely. No controlling, no bonding, no caging and no attachment. If you try to cage each other and if you try to cling onto one another, thinking that you should be together for eternity, your Souls will rebel against it and they will try their best to escape from the bondage they are in. And the more you cling onto each other, the more pain you will bring upon yourselves.

Why do you think so many people have regrets about marriage? Because marriage has become a way to cage and hold each other “hostage”. Marriage has became a way of holding the person next to us in bondage, taking away their freedom and their right to be the wonderful, unique, loving and free being they were born to be. Love isn’t about holding onto the person next to you. Love is sometimes about freeing the one you love, allowing him/her to be, to do and to go wherever their Souls needs them to go.

So you see, it’s not love that you should give up on. But rather your attachment to the many toxic ideas that are causing you to think that love can hurt you. Always remember that love can never hurt you, for love knows only how to love. That’s all there is to love. Love is made to love and never to hurt or cause pain to anyone. So love yourself with all your might and love those you come in contact with, not necessary because they deserve it, but because you do.

Never ever give up on love and love will not give up on you. Love is what makes the world go round, it’s the glue that holds us together. A life without love is a life empty of meaning.

Love is just a way to die. Love can sometimes feels like death, Just like death is always at the end days of every lives. Love anyway because at the end, even if u give up on death, u will die anyway. (Yusuf Jeleel)

Do you think love hurts or is it just the attachment to our ideas on how things should be and how our relationships should unfold that cause us pain and suffering? You can share your insights by joining the conversation in the comment section below.

[url=themindunleashed.org/2014/11/never-give-love.html] SOURCE[/url]

Politics › Re: Why Boko Haram Fight And Some Recommendations For Quelling Their Insurgency. by yuzjet(m): 8:43pm On Nov 04, 2014
Am speechless. it's only God that can fight them for us.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Navy Recruitment 2014/2015 Is Out by yuzjet(m): 8:41am On Oct 19, 2014
Hmmmmm. Ok!
Politics › Re: The Federal Government Of Nigeria Says It Has Reached A Ceasefire Deal With BH by yuzjet(m): 4:17pm On Oct 17, 2014
Oh so soon? shocked
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Negotiates Cease-fire, Chibok Girls Release In S’arabia by yuzjet(m): 1:23pm On Oct 17, 2014
MichaelSokoto:
& u nor owe am any apology 4 space bookin oo! grin
Abi.
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Negotiates Cease-fire, Chibok Girls Release In S’arabia by yuzjet(m): 12:14pm On Oct 17, 2014
Frankenstein:
Space bookers!

A ceasefire now that our military seems to have the upper hand... Won't that give boko-haram enough time to re-strategize and recruit more jihadists?
...And what the hell is DAT got to with the peaceful way I booked my space? huh
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Negotiates Cease-fire, Chibok Girls Release In S’arabia by yuzjet(m): 12:02pm On Oct 17, 2014
Oh really? shocked

Mr Secretary-General of Boko Haram, below statement is strictly for u:

Picture and Video of d girls in gud conditions, or u're high on boko-weeds.

Victory over this boko-idiots is looming.

God bless 9Ja.
Travel › Re: Colombia Places Travel Ban On Nigeria, 4 Other African Nations because of Ebola by yuzjet(m): 9:14am On Oct 17, 2014
When are they going to stop this? Thought US announced that we've successfully contained it? huh

Am smelling something.
Politics › Re: Over 1000 Boko Haram Members Arrested In South-West by yuzjet(m): 8:17am On Oct 17, 2014
They never die finished? huh

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