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Am not saying any comment here is wrong but I kinda feel chochorro (cant remember the spelling). Some guys dont like certain dressing in their wives but these same men go to "business meetings/trips" with these so called scantily dressed girls from college. Talk of hypocrisy. Maybe these kind of men dont like their wives to dress skimpy so that other man wouldnt notice her. Some men are like that. If u dont want ur wife to dress in skimpy dresses then make sure u dont go after other women in skimpy dresses because as u make ur bed so should u lie on it. Just my opinion.

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Sex is important to women. If a woman leaves in this situation she is not a LovePeddler for the person that said that. If u ask men a lot of them would do the same and I guess they are manwhores then. I dont blame any woman that stays or goes . As for a woman that left I dont blame her cause her husband may leave her if she was in that situation so knowing the kind of man she has she left or maybe she cant handle the situation. God forbid that something like this will happen to me. 80% of women so far said they will stay, ask men lets see their opinion.

I love my parents dearly and I will love my hubby deeply too by God's grace. I already know that my hubby will come first cause we are one.

Zahymaka I indeed like ur comment. At least there are people out there that believes that cheating is not in the nature of men and should not be permitted. God forbid that it happens to me but I always said that if my husband cheats on me that i will sleep with his bestfriend on our matrimonial bed and make sure he sees me before divorcing him. But all the same its not good so God forbid it. Someone said men have sex with no emotion attatched and women do it with their soul. Its arrant nonsense. Do u think unfaithful women that have multiple partners have emotions with the people they sleep with and still sleep around? Sex is sex and I believe that whats good for one is good for another. If u dont want ur patner to cheat then dont. If u cheat and catch them cheating u have to forgive them. If u are not a cheat, u can also forgive them or divorce them. Like I said before, unlike the popular belief that cheating is in the nature of men , its actually not. Its stupidity and lack of self control that causes it. An also because they are married to people that will rather have Mrs or Mr in their name even if they as individuals are maltreated to the extent of being set on fire. If u sign a prenup that when u cheat that ur partner will take all u have and have the choice "of setting u on fire" then cheating will be far from ur heart. U will have to learn self control forcefully. All humans can cheat if they want to it just takes the grace of God to control it. Always remember the Golden Rule.

I support most of the things said here especially Dazmezroos(forgot how to spell it). Any animal that beats a woman needs no sympathy cause he knows what hes doing. if he didnt then he would 'innocently' date and maybe hold an argument with a mopol lady and the likes then we will know what will happen to him. He knows those he can beat and he stays with them. No man should even give an excuse that hes too angry and beat a lady since he cant beat his own mother or get so angry on the street to 'kill someone' when challenged on the street by a man bigger than him. I bet an excuse of a man like u apologises to other men when they are actually the people at fault all cause ure a coward and cant fight them. U show ur idiotic manhood over fragile women. Its just wrong. Women might say stuff. Men say annoying stuff too. None is perfect. I actually think the ladies he beat up should send thugs to beat him up in an alley, strip him naked, cut off his shrinked manless balls and pour acid on his wounds. Am not here to give advice. If a fool beats a lady and claims its out of love then, let me hold my comment. What nonsense. Well u probably inherited it from ur parents. I wish u will date a lady i know while I was a very young girl in Nigeria. She beats her husband up and throws him over the fence where neighbours pick him up. Anyway, maybe the girls u date like being beaten or are defenceless(they dont know any akpu obi guy). Guy go jump in front of the bus or a train like u were adviced. Ure just a spineless, coward, animal period(is that a word?). Desist from ur stupid ways before a lady shoots u or maybe beat u senseless that u will remain a vegetable for the rest of ur life. Dont underestimate all ladies.

I think that what Waziru and Seun said is right. Cheating is not born in men its just a lack of self control and being deceitful. Its women that some of them cheat with u know so that means that those women also lack self control. If u do love ur partner u can never cheat on that person. Saying that sleevless wears etc attracts a man that he cant hold himself means that married women should also go after their husbands friends or men more handsome than their husbands. How can a man cheat on his wife cause shes fat while that man is probably rocking a pot belly and yam legs with bad breath. People should stop saying that cheating is in men. Its a lie. Anyone both man or woman can easily cheat if they lack self control. Sex is human instinct. U just have to ask God to help u control urself and then love ur partner like Christ loved the church by the special grace of God. Theres just no reason to cheat. Men and women should stop blaming each other for not making their marriages to work therefore giving them the reason to cheat. It takes two to tango so both should make their marriage what they want it to be.I think divorcing the cheater is the best option because AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases are real and they dont show on the face. Better for one to be single and happy than live in heart ache due to a cheating partner. There are actually men that dont cheat. Not all men and women are cheaters. Always remember the saying that a wise man avoids troubles (temptations) while a smart man wriggles out of it.

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