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Genevieve is much more beautiful, sexier and classier than Omotola. Omotola doesnt look bad overall or for a woman with four kids but its like many people make it out to be such a big deal maybe cause many Nigerian women let their bodies "go" after they get married. Over here I dont think being slim is such a biggie after having kids cause many women actually maintain their body after marriage which is uncommon with many couples back home thus the pot bellies in men and in women. Just my opinion.

@ Cruiser
U can say whatever the hell u wanna say but Ive said my piece. I actually dont see ur point but whatever. Peace.

@ Uyai
I concur.

If ure the type that expect to be forgiven and be together with the person after u cheat then do the same to her but if not move on. I for one detest cheaters. To me cheating is a lack of love and respect.

I think they are two separate things. By that I mean that I will love both unconditionally (and vice versa) but will always have in mind that my sweet husband came first and is a part of me now but at the same time bear in mind that our kids are also part of us. To me its kinda like comparing the love I have for my parents and the love I have for my husband (future husband I mean). I will love both unconditionally (and vice versa) and do my best to make them happy but they are kinda like separate institutions. In general I try not to compare such cause I love both parties very much and cant choose. I just gotta handle them my own way.

In my opinion, firstly, It depends on how individuals were raised. It can also depend on how caring they decide to be when they grow up. If u read "A Child Called It" you will realize that some women are not fit to be called mothers just like there are some men out there that are cruel monsters. However, at times it seems women care more due to the motherly instinct but overall I think its all about how someone was brought up.

In many cases women nag because some men don't enjoy when they are being talked to softly. He would know what to do and wouldnt do it though the wife will be 'gently' telling him to do his duties/responsibilities. But when she gets frustrated cause he didnt do the supposed duty and makes her feelings about it known (like most human beings will) he terms it nagging. Maybe if he did what he was supposed to do in the first place or did it when she was gentle about it there wouldnt have been nagging. Besides some men nag too.

Poster no pun intended but I dont think 5'10 is that tall. Am 5'9 and some members of my family and a few friends still think am kinda short and i kinda think so too so this makes me wonder the height of the girls that consider u tall instead of average height cause at my height I dont think 5'10 is anywhere near tall. I was expecting u to say from 6'3 but since u said ure also cute maybe thats whats been attracting them to u OR maybe the girls are much shorter than u. *Runs out of thread before poster gets mad at her*.

I was just reading thru the posts on this site and laughing my butt off when I stumbled upon that thread.

For people that think that OgaMadam is Nigerian I think she's actually South African like she said. U might wanna check out the thread with the heading, "Sexy Capetown Guy Looking for Naija Love" to see what I mean.

Now this is damn hilarious. .

So ur wife did all these for u and u still wanted another woman. I wonder what else u want from a woman. U even said that she's beautiful that other men want her and ure messing up. Some people dont know what they have till they loose it. If she was the one that did what u did ur "umunna" may be deciding her case now. If not that she caught u u might have still continued probably to the extent of sleeping with ur online friend. Beg her, pray about it, do whatever u can to win her back and be sincere about whatever u do or say. If she refuses then marry ur online friend since u will lie to ur wife all cause of her and even stomach the insults she rained on ur wife. What a dude u are. Good luck though.

Man or woman once ure not a virgin or a couple that disvirgined each other on their wedding night or marry each other afterwards then both the man and woman are "remnants". To the poster, if the guy doesnt wanna marry her let him do it because of the heartache she caused him or her greed and not for being a "remnant" when he also is one or is he a virgin?

Africans of course .

Go to fastweb.com and also collegeboard.com

I wanna do my masters in Public Health(Urban Administration) by God's grace but that will be in the year 2009. Check out umdnj.com and look for the School of Public Health. Its in New Jersey.

U can apply for Financial aid but that depends on some factors that u will have to check out if ure interested.

U.S is so much better. In my school u are allowed to work wherever u want whether in or out of school. No one cares since everyone is in college and have freedom of choice. U can also take summer and winter classes to easily get done earlier than ur classmates. U can also do ur prerequisites before even registering for a course in college which makes it better for someone that supports him/her self and cant go to school in the nearest future. Coming to the university that Nigerian employers would choose I think they will choose both if they have to and wont even care as far as it U.S or U.K cause both countries are highly recognized.

All the contestants are beautiful including u the organizer.

Gemini's rule .

Gamine dont know if u know this already but there's a guy here on nairaland called Ibinabo Black-Briggs and his user name is IBBFan. I saw it as I was reading thru some posts. Hope his helps.

Creamish I almost fell off my bed with laughter as I read ur response. Didnt see that coming.

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God and my lovely sweet mom, then one of my aunts. I always look up to them three.

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That house is amazingly hot. Ive seen it before on VH1.

Any kind of mixed soup eg mixing egusi and ogbono. I would rather eat my soups one at a time. Also I dont like amala and ewedu/dodo, pineapple, beans.

I miss everything about Nigeria especially: oha, egusi, onugbu soup with pounded yam/fufu, palmwine, udala(pink apple?), suya, cheleku, ugeruge(achikara), ugiri, guava, all the varieties of mango, uvuru, anyara and ose oji, corn, cocoa, Limca, Mirinda etc. They are so many so I better stop here.