₦airaland Forum

RollinTNDA:
I have come to the conclusion that women reason like children

How can you say you want a 2 yeRts baby to enroll in Nursery school

You want me to pay 400k for nursery school so they can play baby shark dododo for them till afternoon abi??

When she saw I wasn't falling for her scam
She twisted it that I don't want our daughter to be educated.

I'm just wondering which kind small pikin reasoning be that??

Princedapace:
Hahaha, economic reality in a country affects everything else. Inflation is high, so cost of everything else will be high.
Let me tell u something, ur man got it all wrong. In a country like Nigeria, u dont introduce all these policies at once, especially when u have not define a way to tackle corruption and wastage. This is where he failed and pushed more people into poverty and struggling line.
Only him, removed fuel subsidy, removed cut down on subsidy for electricity, float naira, increased tax base and captured online workers.
Now, all of these plus heavy insecurity which have affected farmlands, cost of everything went to the moon and each person pushing these costs to the end users. Na the problem be that.
He could have done these things one step at a time, do one, watch as it goes, do another, etc.
And most importantly, handle and tackle corruption.
Up to this moment, budget paddling is still happen, paddy paddy govt is still happening, wastage is still happening, inflated price of public projects, still happen, award of contracts without following due process just to give to ur paddy paddy still happening,
budgeting 15billion for SUV is a waste, spending 1.5billion on mass wedding is a waste.
So, who will bear the economic shock of all these? The masses. That is what is happening now. U didnt fix security, u dey remove fuel subsidy, completely, u dey float naira and u dey widen tax coverage and increased sef. Hahahaha, Nigerians will be poorer by end of 2027. Infact, middle class would be wiped out already.

Princedapace:
Hahaha, economic reality in a country affects everything else. Inflation is high, so cost of everything else will be high.
Let me tell u something, ur man got it all wrong. In a country like Nigeria, u dont introduce all these policies at once, especially when u have not define a way to tackle corruption and wastage. This is where he failed and pushed more people into poverty and struggling line.
Only him, removed fuel subsidy, removed cut down on subsidy for electricity, float naira, increased tax base and captured online workers.
Now, all of these plus heavy insecurity which have affected farmlands, cost of everything went to the moon and each person pushing these costs to the end users. Na the problem be that.
He could have done these things one step at a time, do one, watch as it goes, do another, etc.
And most importantly, handle and tackle corruption.
Up to this moment, budget paddling is still happen, paddy paddy govt is still happening, wastage is still happening, inflated price of public projects, still happen, award of contracts without following due process just to give to ur paddy paddy still happening,
budgeting 15billion for SUV is a waste, spending 1.5billion on mass wedding is a waste.
So, who will bear the economic shock of all these? The masses. That is what is happening now. U didnt fix security, u dey remove fuel subsidy, completely, u dey float naira and u dey widen tax coverage and increased sef. Hahahaha, Nigerians will be poorer by end of 2027. Infact, middle class would be wiped out already.

MosesBlack:
I just shook my head yesterday night when a Lexus car passed by my street and I saw a young lady smoking shi sha inside the car while making a video with the guy while he was driving.

Lol! For that babe mind the guy go marry her abi!

Babatunjo:
A lot of men keep drowning in relationships because they rely on advice that sounds good instead of understanding what actually works.

The interesting part is that the advice is often sincere.

Your mother, your sister, or your female friend may genuinely tell you what they believe they want. They mean well.

But attraction and long-term relationship dynamics are not always the same as what people say in conversation.

That gap is where many men get hurt.

For example:

• "Always be available for your girl." Then they find that having their own life, mission, and standards often earns more respect and attraction.

The solution?

Don't hate women. Don't argue with them when they give you advice.

Watch what consistently earns respect, attraction, and healthy relationships with them. Judge by outcomes.

Even this post will probably be dismissed by some women. And that's okay. Men still have the responsibility to learn from reality, because they are the ones who bear the consequences of getting it wrong.

Babatunjo:
I'm not saying you must be stinking rich before you date.

But ask yourself this:

Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?

Not that the money has arrived already, but you're so certain of the direction that it's only a matter of time before the results come.

If your answer is No, then maybe romance shouldn't be your priority.

The journey to becoming that man is painful. It demands sacrifice, discipline, and delayed gratification. Every hour, every naira, and every bit of emotional energy counts.

Many men don't become miserable because they loved the wrong woman.

They become miserable because they pursued romance before building themselves.

I'm not saying this is true for every man, but for many, putting purpose before pleasure would have saved them years of frustration.

The process will hurt.

You'll miss out on some experiences. You'll feel lonely at times. You'll question yourself.

But is there really another choice?

Northsouth:
Tinubu should just be careful enough, MKO Abilola overdo self that time, the Fulani are never jokers
They are watching, unless you're ready to fight them, don't say nothing will happen.

Am a Yoruba
But these kind of court judgement is baseless and can be the turning point in the country

Host78:
As a guy, you need to learn to be more brutal.

See women don't care to be civilized or courteous when making their demands.

She will tell you as a man you need to do this or that for me.

I was with a girl recently and she told me before she can sleep with me, I must take her out on a date first.

But this girl will come to my house, ask me for 1k here and there.

At first, I was giving her the money but each time we enter bed, she'll say, you have to take me out first before I can sleep with you.

No shame. No care about how it'll make me feel.

Her demands were clear as day. On the other hand I was doing, eh if I refuse her money it'll not look good.

But I just lock up and started refusing her money clearly. I told her plainly when she demanded that I buy her a bag of water.

I'm not sleeping with you why should I be buying you water?

Stopped her from coming to my place to cook and eat.

Girls know something you don't. If you dont give her money, she loses nothing other than you which she never liked anyways.

If you give her money then at least she gains something from keeping you around.

Kaczynski:
You watch way too many movies mate .

tgmservice:
nooo you donzo

Tinubu made things ten times worst at an alarming rate.
U sef reason from dollar to fuel

Obavoh:
I am halfcast. My Father is Nigerian and My Mother is from Cotonou.

When my Lebanese Boss appointed me and my colleague to drive his Car all the way to Cotonou, I was very happy. I saw this as an opportunity to finally visit my Mother’s home land.

We were supposed to drive down to Lagos then my Boss would take a flight and meet us there.

As we were cleaning and preparing the car to leave, my Boss son came to me and asked me to give him some of the groundnut I was eating (THANK GOD MY COLLEAGUE WAS ABLE TO BEAR ME WITNESS) I brought out few pieces of groundnut from the same nylon I was eating from and gave the boy to eat.

Few minutes later, the little boy was still playing in the compound when he started vomiting. We rushed to the boy and saw his face red and his neck was swollen as if the vomit refused to fully come out of his throat.

Thank God we were able to rush the boy to the hospital and they treated him. I told them I gave the boy groundnut to eat and my Boss wife slapped me and scratched my face.

My Boss arrested me and I spent 13 days in the prison. All Glory to God, I was released after much begging. My wife and my mother even slept outside their gate to plead for my release.

My Boss made sure I paid back the little boys hospital bills of which he claimed was ₦700,000.

He did not show me the receipt but I agreed to pay just to get my job back and continue to put food on my family table. WORST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE

He promised to debit half of my salary which is ₦107,500 monthly. I continued to work hard for his company with all honesty.

This man did not pay me 1kobo for 4 months. Other staffs were getting full payment. I kept quiet hoping God Almighty will touch his heart.

During that 4 months I struggled to feed my pregnant wife and 7 children. I cried to God and asked him why he would watch an innocent man suffer this injustice.

I finally received sack letter from the company. That was when I walked up to Boss and asked for my half payment for the past four months. He was owing me ₦430,000. He threatened to arrest me and said I will rot in jail.

All I said to him was that My God in heaven will judge him and I left the company for good.

I had already made up my mind to take my wife and children back to our bandit attack village but in less than 1 month I got another job to the glory of God.

Please my people be careful in all you do. The Devil can take you unawares . Who knew ordinary groundnut would cause me pain and depression for months. May Jehovah continue to guide us

Abimaye01:
Newly married couple Simi and Femi Dapson have taken a major step in their journey together after acquiring a new home.

The announcement, which surfaced online shortly after their wedding, has drawn warm reactions from fans and well-wishers, many of whom described the milestone as a symbol of stability and a strong foundation for their marriage.

Though details of the property remain undisclosed, the development highlights the couple’s transition into married life, with the new home representing both comfort and long-term commitment.

Supporters across social media have continued to celebrate the pair, praising their progress and wishing them success as they begin this new chapter together as a couple.

Source: https://360nobs.com.ng/love-keys-and-new-beginnings-newlyweds-simi-femi-dapson-celebrate-first-home-purchase/