₦airaland Forum

princeade86:
Am interested

Sniper101:
these leeches and money sha

Just three days ago
I had to ask one to dress up and get d'fvck outta my house by around 8pm.

REASON.
We were right in the middle of the act and bitch said... "I told you I had a lot going on in my mind and therefore my mind isn't settled. You didn't say anything about it. All you could think of is to make love to me".

Omó, I had to get down
Ask her to get dressed and get d'fvck out.


NB: asking for money DURING sex is a very huge turn off for me.

adekS1:
If you are among those of us that are still wondering the hype around iphone till tomorrow,gather here n like this page..

Iphone that can't download odk app l use at work

Jozilinn:
Some men act all alpha they don't even help their wives with anything, they feel it's just about providing and having sex with their wives, anything about the children isn't their business,I don't blame the ones saying baby mamas and wives are doing the same thing...No! Most men pamper their baby mamas and most babymamas would do anything just to please their baby daddies cos of the cash, chances of them separating is high,no grudges compared to marriages.

Some men for example if their wives gives birth to only female kids, they would personally not answer call on the day of delivery... insults wey the wife go get no be here, will a guy keep impregnating his babymama if she is giving birth to females and females,See obavoh that is already sleeping with his wife in just two weeks after child birth.
What of the ones that don't like family planning but can't take care of the kids, wetin you want the woman to do... beating the lady even with pregnancy, causing miscarriage and making her feel she's is weak womb,and she owes him for shelter, locking her away from family and friends.
The latest generation of men that like anal, hardcore, party,even enjoy sleeping with their wives by tying her up and hitting her with belt,See women go through a lot in marriages, endurance is never used for the men, but the women in marriages... Not all women are the same, just as not all men are the same this just brings us to the personality of the couples and their level of communication and understanding which I think is the major key factor of this topic.

EastAlchemist:
Most don’t marry out of love na
Isn’t it obvious

Moniya4Real:
Exactly what the lady I was with until last week used to do, from sharwama, data, buy me lunch, order Uber for me and “babe, pls, can you give me money to make my hair?” . She started acting up after I delayed a bit in sending her 52k to buy hair for her birthday- lol, she referred to me as “incapable”and all. But the irony of it All is that I actually love her very much but at the same time, I can’t pretend I am not happy that I was saved 50k plus as a result of her not talking to me cos of it. I would have sources for it if she had been a bit patient but .

GoodbutBadguy:
That is why a young man should look for a younger girl of 19-26 to marry when he makes it not an evening newspaper of 28 and above. So with your assertion most ladies will end up with no man bcs well to do guys don't like old babes for wife, just remember that a lady is finished after 30yrs when a guy just start his life. Women should also learn how to help to transform their man for the better. What happens to you guys building a wealth together from a younger age

Magnoliaa:
I mean, right?


It's crazy how everyone literally judges others based on financial status. And it's more annoying how the economy has exacerbated it.

Food and money is the start and end of our problems in this country lol.

What will make a promising young man "undateable", but won't make a woman so?


I be student myself, and I'd hate for my whole existence to be reduced to that. Literally a phase of my life. That everyone has gone through. And it pisses me off when I see stooped men (and women) doing so. That's exactly just how people in their service year too are.




Times have change. Sticking to the rigid gender dictates of man must bring money, woman must bring body (or other stuff) is just a recipe for disaster, as far as I'm concerned.

And I say this because some might disagree and say that I'm trying to say money (stability) isn't important for a man to have, when I will be expected to offer domestic services, or that a woman should become masculine and be bringing money, when things easily could have been solved if the two partners are committed to helping each other financially, domestically and in other ways.


If you want to demand that the opposite gender has something they were expected to have, then you must be the complete opposite requirements that your gender is supposed to have as well. No ifs, no but.