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I just got correspondence letter should I rejoice or hold on?

Hey guys, I am an embryologist and i have all my documents, however aims is asking me for certificate of accreditation for the companies i work for. how do i go about this since my company is not ready to give it out?

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Hello guys, pls how cold is Winnipeg manitoba? Also any idea on the cost of living? Thanks guys

Auroralights:
For studies it's academic IELTS.

thanks for replying.

I could see on the website when registering for the IELTS, that i have to write the name of institution i want the result sent too, but I haven’t applied to the school yet. (Because I thought IELTS first before applying)


So do i contact the school first, if i dont, will they discard my IELTS results?
I am applying to university of Manitoba canada

Guys pls i am registering for my 1elts. Is it going yo be academic or general IELTs?

I am applying for a masters in reproductive science but also hoping to get a work permit and migrate after that.

Chapter1vs6:
To the people that will take this thread seriously

l want you to know this post was made by the same person that opened the Zhuhilat account

why do you keep posting this every where. Where you in my room when i was opening a thread? Do you know me?

Pls stop disturbing me. I have things to worry about.

Dear All

Thanks for the advice, criticism and unfair assumptions.

I have read through almost everything and looking back, i know there are areas i need to work on. Like talking back, and generally being argumentative all the time.

Still, i know that nobody should be treated like trash especially your own wife.

I am working on myself for myself, not basically for the marriage because every time there’s always been an issue, i always blame myself.

But that load is too much , working on this marriage alone is killing me and making me depressed.

God loves me, my child and him too. He is going make our path clearer and however he does it, is fine by me.
Thanks all.

Thanks all. I appreciate.

Truly speaking, i am just tired of it all.
I do not know how a very comfortable young girl, working in the health sector, traveling to different countries for conferences ended up here.

I feel like this is my life now, no light at the end of this tunnel

No my husband isn’t broke we earn really really well and i am not doing baldly either.

My biggest worry is for my child.
Also when is enough is enough?
I dont want to loose myself. I am just 26.

So sorry for ranting but it is better than talking to family members that will gossip about you.

Thanks all. No i am not a Muslim.
Couples will always have misunderstandings, we are 2 different people with different upbringing so we will always have mis understanding even siblings do.

I just get tired of all the leave my house and stuff.
How do I commit to a marriage financially (although, i do) and emotionally when i can be kicked out any day?

Also isn't the house s ours?
Secondly, how do I protect my child from all this?

Also I believe that every time he apologizes, i tell myself that maybe it was my fault and then i just let it go and go out of my way to please him again. I do not give him space to work on it too in other words,enabling this to continue.

Either ways thanks guys.

It is very easy to say stay, work on it, watch war room. Nobody knows how it feels LITERALLY.
. It is well.

Thanks for the Advice or constructive criticism, I appreciate.

How Do I Deal With This Level Of Disrespect From My Husband

Dear all

I and my husband are just 2years in marriage.

Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.

Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,

i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.

On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.

Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .

But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.

I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage.
I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.

I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.

Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what?

Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all

Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too.

Emotionally, i am done.