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Old tokunbo 2006 range. Lmao. Dumb showoff

Banking is very toxic

Acidosis:
9 out of 10 men and women you see out there are unmarriageable.

Slay mamas and fck boys everywhere.

Don't marry a woman that shares opposite characteristics with you; she will kill you. If you hate Snapchat and the likes, don't go after a woman that Snapchat 247, she will kill you with frustration unless your maturity level is at 100%.

If you hate alcohol, don't go after a woman that drinks beer, she'll kill you.

If you've never had s.ex in your life, or you have less than 2 sex experience, don't go after one with many body counts, you will never be enough for her. You might die searching for useless experience, its all lies, even animals have se.x, experience is not needed to enjoy s.ex.

Get details of previous relationships. Mind you, marriage does not cure cheating, marriage is not a self-control pill.

If you love God, go after one that shares same passion. If you enjoy clubbing, go after one that loves clubbing.
When u go clubbing and u abandon your SU wife at home to attend Friday Vigil, she'd appreciate those church brothers more. When you stay at home enjoying your alone/introverted moments, and you leave your woman to attend all kinds of owanbes and holidays alone, chances are that she'd meet other men that share same passion with her out there. This is the reason many nollywood marriages die.

Finding the right person is simple, red flags are everywhere for all to see, some people only choose to be blind. If she asks you more than her father has ever given her, RUN! People run into marital problems because they feel they can selfishly tap from the other. If she's marrying you because of wealth, car, business, and she has none of these, you're in hot SOUP. If you're marrying her because of her butt and beauty, and you're as ugly as fck (because u selfishly desire handsome kids to brag on Facebook), you've already created a deficit, something, somehow and someday will make up for your deficiency.

Can two people walk together unless they agree? Absolutely No! That's the reason you MUST marry your friend. A true friend will LOVE to share the same experience with you, even if her daddy owns a Lamborghini, she'd love to take that Okada ride with you for the fun of it..

You said it all

internationalman:
Are u way past d point where did deed can't b undone? if not why not give it a second try at d expense of ur current wife if wouldn't mind?

How do u mean?

Guy ur dulling many boys dont have work they are internet hustlers. My classmate just built a house of 23m. This guy is 28years. Iv been working in the bank for four years yet little savings and stress. Baba go learn how to ChaChe

internationalman:
sorry Pele..
Is she married now, I mean d one u dated..

No shes not

internationalman:
it's a mare destiny for some people, while some have dated their destined wife as one of their numerous girlfriends in the past.

HAPPENING TO ME

Bros run! Im in hell!! Pls marry your friend or your life will be a living hell

GAZZUZZ:
you will not find in the nigerian market.

There is a way to legally use aftermarket tint without getting into trouble.

Ask more questions outside NL

Ok can i watsapp u?

Gazuz its a 2007 camry

I want to tint my car but all im getting is nylon tint with that police will still harass me with tint permit. So guys were do i get the tinted glass itself

Afonja

Ur a Magarita

AFONJ...........A

PaperLace:
Dear OP,

Whether you cancel the white wedding or not _ you're already married. Marriage isn't relationship where you can waltz in and out as you like. It's an oath, binding on both parties.

Be careful how you bring your issues to the public, considering that your mind is currently fragile. The general rule, may not apply to your situation. I don't think any responsible married person would tell you to walk away so soon. I have domineering in-laws too, your wife's whole family can never be as rude as my FIL alone _ but you handle such people with wisdom (now that you're already married). If you weren't married, I would have said run.

The early days of most marriages are like this. One person will always see the other as a demon, while painting him/herself as the angel. You are not an angel, I am sure your wife would sound just as bitter as you, if she creates her own thread. What you have to do is win your wife to your side. Once you genuinely win your wife to your side, she would handle her family.

The last post on your wife and SIL, you didn't do well.
If that's your own attitude, then you and your wife need orientation. Why does your wife shout? Is she a mad woman? Has she always been like this? What is she always shouting about?

My husband also doesn't know how to discuss in low tones, he must raise his voice. I used to join him, until I sat and thought about it _two people no dey mad at the same time. He did it again and I ignored, I politely told him he is embarrassing US and we would talk when he is calm. He still repeated it and I used all my self-control to keep ignoring.

One day, he called me and asked why I have been refusing to get angry. I started laughing and we had a talk that changed a lot till this moment. People like that know what they are doing to a good extent, the best medicine for them is to show them how normal people express themselves. Don't come down to their level, don't go begging unnecessarily _ just express yourself firmly.
When you do this over and over, they'll come to revere your silence and few words.

You mould your spouse to be who you want them to be. There is really no perfect spouse at first, but we mould them to our perfection with time.

Captain your ship as best as you can _all with the dignity of a king.

Gbam

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It helps o. Just a glass of hennesy. I faced a bank experience hire interview panel of 8!!! Dey were bombarding me with many questions but i was unshakable my confidence was booming and i felt so relaxed answering questions with ease

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I blame buhari for this!!

Jahblessme:


Gosh!! where do i start from What kind of local story is this?

1. Your wife should have discussed with you first before her sister visited you both-she was very wrong but everything after that made you look so petty.You were counting water used to bathe and asking your cousin helper to report to you first? If she wants to eat eggs will that also be reported to you?Do you also measure yam with ruler in your house?
Your actions have sown a very bad seed - belittling your SIL & your wife.I do not blame your wife for being very angry but she should have cooled off first and expressed her annoyance to you without flaring up.

Just a quick question OP,if your sister visits and your wife tells your little cousin to report to her first before doing anything she asks for nko?How would that sit with you?Just know your wife will never forget,be ready for your siblings to recieve the same hot soup

Yes,you should have been told before her sis landed ,but the deed had already been done.You should have controlled yourself instead of acting like a miserable being.What did your SIL do wrong?she probably thought she was coming to visit human beings who would treat her well not knowing her husband is a hot water measurer
Best approach would have been to discuss the issue with your spouse quietly.See disgrace!



Your wife raised her voice,you raised your own too,asked her to leave your room.'Yoour Room'??!!! i thought you both are married? I cant even believe what i'm reading here.
In the same sentence you talked about not wanting to be a woman beater.I do not see any reason why beating should come into this abi you normally beat or you were raised by a beater?Violence should not be an option.ah ahhh!!!


Both of you displayed shameful behavior and i don't blame your SIL for leaving,you disgraced her infront of your cousin helper,you disgraced your wife,your wife as disgraced you & you have made her feel unwelcome. Tueh
She will go and tell the story to family members who already don't like you and you will officially enter hate list with tattered reputation.

Please do the world a favour and delay this wedding till you both learn to behave like adults.


If you want to be the leader of your home you must learn to conduct yourself with dignity and self respect.You have to lead by example.
Discussions can be had without raising of voices.If your wife starts to shout,tell her you won't listen till she calms down and addresses you like an adult.I also expect her to do the same to you.That way you both will learn to trust each other and start building your little unit,she will also stop seeing the need to tell every little deed to her family as you will become her best friend and confidante.

Normally you should be in honeymoon phase but you people are already acting like cat and dog.
Good luck o.






By the way the way you worded little cousin and 2 big pots are you trying to imply that the girl is too little to do chores in general or specifically chores for SIL? If she is little,ideally she shouldn't be in your home doing housework.

Sabi sabi. Op is somehw wrong but why should his wife start yelling and commanding him. He said he told his cousin to always consult him, he never shouted but the wife eavsdropped.

yomi007k:
U spoke my mind...

He's wedding is next week na how can he just opt out

Ah eleyi gidi gan o

Check Ashawo joint...

NwaAmaikpe:


These twins are lucky they sacrificed their mom.

If not they would have been write-offs like D'Banj and Majek Fashek.

U might think NwaAmaikpe is foolish but what he just said is not far from the truth. After thier parents died mysteriously dey built a mansion in parkview and left Omole. We live in a spiritual world.

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