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Phema:
Wow! 4 years? Are you renewing or this is your first time?
Congrats!

Thanks! It's a Renewal.

Visa granted. Valid till 2019 good luck to all visa hopefuls.

Visa granted. Valid till 2019 good luck to all visa hopefulls.

I got email today that my pp is ready for collection. I applied June 5. I'll keep y'all posted after collection tomorrow.

I just got sms and email that passport is ready for collection. I'm visiting VFS tomorrow. Will keep y'all posted.

eziafakise:
MY PASSPORT HAS BEEN DELIVERED TO ME AND I WAS GIVEN A VISITORS VISA TO EXPIRE 2018 COS THATS WHEN MY VISA EXPIRES

Wow! Congratulations. Did you apply online or paper?

eziafakise:
so happy my passport is back to me , just received a mail from Canadian embassy that my passport has been processed and dispatched to Canada visa application centre, today makes it the 39th day after my application on the 5th of june, its been dispatched via courier service since I paid for it and keeping my fingers crossed that the outcome will be positive . its crazy though to wait this long sha

This is really great news ! I also applied on June 5. I haven't heard any news yet but I'm more hopeful now. Thanks for sharing.

No news yet. Mine is 52days today. I plan to withdraw my passport next week though... Traveling this summer.

Mehn....Reading the comments here....i guess i should just forget about mine for now. I submitted on June 5 for myself and 2 kids. Already bought tickets for July 31st (though refundable with a fee). I've never experienced this kind of wait for visa, it is just unfair.

Dear OP,
I feel your pain. I'm also a mother of two. My boobs were still quite firm after I had my daughter, but my son finished them,literarily. What I've got left is sagging, flat, downward-pointing pair. The good part for me though is that my hubby doesn't mind. He still loves them as ever and literarily begs to go down low. I always go out in push-up bras but I can't wear anything to sleep.

My advise to you will be to try some of the exercises people have suggested but most importantly have a chat with your husband about it. In the meantime, try as much as possible not to feel bad about their new shape. Think of it as the price of motherhood.
Best wishes.

Beautiful way to go...

@ op

I used implanon after my first baby but my only issue with it was that i added 15kg in 8months, so I had it taken out. Then i used copper T for almost 3 yrs. I didn't gain any more weight but it was difficult to shake off what I already gained with implanon. The only downside with copper T was that my period was damn too heavy. I lived with it until I took it out to conceive my son. After my son, my doctor introduced me to Mirena. I've had it for almost 2 yrs and it's heavenly. No weight gain, no mood swings, no heavy period....in fact the period didn't show up at all for about the 11 months but I spotted for about 3 months after putting it. Some of my friends have had different experiences with Mirena e.g. Developed skin condition, mood swings e.t.c I suggest you speak with your doctor. It's different strokes for different folks.

The things women go through...

Thanks a bunch.

Oga Lawyer,

I just bought a plot of land around Ojodu (Ogun state side) for 12.5m, paid for with my entire savings plus small bank loan. The land has a C of O which has been verified and we also signed deed of assignment. We have initiated the process of getting Governor's consent. However, there are many groups of people asking for money; Baale, Omo onile, community, area boys. Altogether they want 1.5m which sounds ridiculous to me, i can't even afford it. They said the money includes foundation, decking, roofing e.t.c. but i only want to fence now. I'm about to enter into negotiation with them, how much is a fair deal for these people considering the value/location of the land?

Thanks.

3.9kg

"The head of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, Farida Waziri, said yesterday that the federal government’s decision to charge former United States vice president, Richard “manliness” Cheney, for complicity in the $180 million Haliburton bribe scandal was not politically motivated."



hehehe

shanda:
@poster

You've been well advised but, have u bothered to ask your wife how she copes with similar urge ? Abi she be Van Damme ?

Women tend to be a lot more in control of their sexual urge even in the face of temptation. They have a lot more at stake than men.

@Poster, i'd say send the girl away now (not to your mother). Since you have thought of having sex with her, it'll most likely continue even when your wife comes back.

I amazed that a woman would leave her husband with a matured female househelp alone in the house and travel abroad.

4yrs, married for 2.5yrs.

This match is simply Enyeama vs. Argentina

now  i have to change channel

violated

No. Too old and weak.

3 pieces of advice you should not give your friend:

- Don't tell your friend not to marry
- Don't tell your friend not to build a house
- Don't tell your friend not to buy a car

You have been scammed. Simple!. I'm just amazed that it took you 5 years to realize this.

And this made frontpage?

Bought my first mtn sim 13.5k. Nokia 3310,  pe mi pada owo n romi (call me back my hand aches) at 40k,

lahips:
other than lack of awareness as to family planning, i think the poor lack options for recreation, so the easiest recreational activity or means of relaxation for them is to indulge in s e x and that means more babies for some.

GBAM!

Tmoni:
@Poster,

By funds, do u mean cash deposits in the affected banks or stock holding in this banks?
Well, CBN guaranteed that no deposit holder will lose their funds so thats all we have to contend with, also NDIC insures you up to a certain limit (cant remember now),

Personally, i think it will be throwing the baby out with the bath water if SLS liquidates the banks, most likely i think we might see a senario where this banks are acquired by other financial institutions including all assets and liabilities,

So, i would advise your friend that if its deposits he has in these banks and he is very much uncertain about the future then he prolly has to come to naija to move them to other banks,

@doctor
the jury is still out on SLS, if these whole banking stuff ends as it stands now, we will award him a huge F9

The limit is really low, it was 50k not sure if they've changed it. I won't advise anyone to even think about NDIC insurance in making a decision.

In addition to my earlier post, you can't continue to respond to people like this

luxoire:
Typical answers - probably cant be bothered - i wonder hoe many of us Africans actually make counselling a carrer!

luxoire:
is that all the perspective you can offer - anyway thanks

If u come to a place like NL for advise, you should expect all sorts of comments.

See, he is not likely to change, they rarely do. Can you live the rest of your life with this attitude and prolly it getting worse? If your answer is no, then you need to walk now. Don't marry him on the hope that he is going to change.