GL:

i think her action is understandable; the lights went out in her house. that she slept over in a guy's house doesn't mean they did anything. she could have easily lied to you that she was in her house, her honesty should count for something. just let her know you're uncomfortable with her sleeping over in her friend's house, but don't break up with her because of this.

Gbam!

I'll say it depends on when both of you are ready. Most likely when the red flag is out (might be on for about 2 weeks) and tears (if any) have healed. For me it took about 4 weeks.

Good luck.

Thanks everyone for the comments!

First of all, my husband being away most times is not an issue, i just wanted you guys to have some background information.  I love my husband very much and I don't feel neglected in anyway. He calls 6 to 10 times everyday, we pray together morning and night and whenever he is around, he gives me 100% attention.

My husband and i are very close. Even though he is out most times, we talk about everything under the sun, he is like a big brother to me. However, this case is unique and that is why am thinking twice before going to him.

I'm sure the feeling i have for this other guy is temporary and i won't do anything silly (i even feel like am getting over it already after reading all these comments )

I haven't decided whether or not to tell my husband  (_thinking it might come up later, am sure we would have a good laugh over it )

Thanks once again. Sharing this with you guys really helped.

There is a guy i dated for some time in the late nineties. We broke up on very good terms as we both understood why it needed to happen even though we were very much in love. There has been no contact over these years, now am married with a kid.

This guy called me a few days ago (got my number from a friend) just to say hi and i haven't been able to get him off my mind. That call simply sparked off a lot of things in me. We dated for about 1 year and there was no intimacy so i really don't know why am feeling this way.

My husband travels a lot and only comes home on weekends. Am thinking of discussing this with him, maybe he can help clear my head. Is this a good idea?  Any ideas on how to handle this?

i've never been unfaithful in my life and mere thinking of this guy this way makes me feel i am already,

Redman44:

I wonder how this post made the front page? I'm pissed off

Same here

german007:

Yes, I most certainly will, She has all my passwords, Facebook, hotmail, yahoo, mobile phone pin codes, Atm card pin codes, credit card pin codes, Online banking logon details to name a few,

My husband and i share all these passwords too, there really is no big deal if you don't have anything to hide. I guess it somehow improves the level of trust.

Interesting. my mom-in-law even go as far as telling me what food to cook for my husband!. The good thing is that she doesn't stay more than 1week at a time so i just endure her presence. Being rude or telling her to her face would just put u and ur husband on a collision course because he, most likely, won't take your side against his mum.

Very interesting Can't stop laughing. More please.

roflmao ;d ;d

yes i remember, next?

;d ;d

Dis Guy:

http://www.nigeriavillagesquare.com/articles/keshinro-hafees/and-luth-simultaneously-murdered-3-babies.html

please pay attention when you go to hospital , don't leave your locved ones alone with hungry nurses whose only
expertise is giving you watery drips and chloroquine injections

This is really sad. This issue has been on for a very long time.

My mother delivered my sister in 1977 and had to go through CS. My father was asked to go home for the night, he refused and stayed at the corridor. My mum started reacting to the blood she was being given, kicking her legs e.t.c. my father went to wake the nurses who were fast asleep, only for them to tell him to go that there was nothing wrong with her. Not until he gave one of them a very hot slap (after coming back twice to wake them up) did they attend to my mum.  Sometimes, i just imagine what could have happened if he went home to sleep that night.

i don tire for all these Synagogue jists o jare!

stillwater:

Not only in hospitals. I think we just lack customer service relations especially in public arenas. You would find such attitude in Nepa or immigration offices, banks, etc. Even the security guard at the gates would talk to you anyhow.

Totally agree.

Ziggyjoel:

PLS SOMEONE SHOULD SAVE MY SOUL BY SENDING ME SAMPLE P&G QUESTION. ziggyjoel@gmail.com THANK YOU

i sent to your mail box.

Fear.com:

How much must a guy have to wed? . . . . . Hmmm . . . .Let's see . . . 50,000(registry wedding)350,000,500,000,N1m,N1.5m . . . . . .Options,options,options!whatever he can afford;at least,a job with reasonable and stable income,accommodation,and be able to feed and clothe his family . . . . . .hope i covered everything? . . . . . . .

Gbam!

around 8 times a day

This is really no big deal. Moreover, what is the issue with washing pants when you guys eat/lick the pussy all the time?

ROFLMAO,

This is so sad. May he rest in peace and my God grant his family the fortitude to bear this loss.

Zimex:

Dr.

I stopped breastfeeding my child when she was 6.5months old (about 10months ago) but when i press my ni.pples, milk still comes out. Is it normal?

Thanks.

kathyekiti:


@zimex
Do you get monthly periods? I would suggest you stop pressing your unmentionables as well

Yes i get my monthly period and it is regular. i would stop pressing as suggested. Thanks

MONAGHAN:

i still prefer the varsity than the money been locked up in swiss bank

i concur

This is just another show of desperation. He'll rather die as President than as ex-president, just the way Turai wants it.