Patrioticbreed9: I have came across many humble and decent souther ladies too with characteristics almost on par with the northern folks. It just depends were stay heavily wealthy southern asokoro famijy will have more decent females than a mid-wealthy jabi family or middle class lugbe family.
But not all the north babes are doves! Crows are also among.
Life is not a fairy tale, certainately not africa twice for nigeria.
At the end good and bad ladies are found everywhere.
I understand We are just doing a comparison though We have good ladies everywhere but the fact that Brazil is better than Nigeria in football doesn't mean that every Brazilian can play ball better than me
newdawn2017: head of family is a spiritual thing, it not physical. It means u re responsibility raise ur family in d ways of d true God's teaching them Godly values & they should know Yahweh d true God. No what u greedy, selfish, demonic & toxic Nigeria, Ghana, Togo, Niger, congo & benini portray head of family to be. She is an independent human being just like u. She has her own individuality. Values & morals. She has what she like too etc. Ahab d wicked man
I don't know who put u in this bitter condition but I am very sorry for u. U are very much damaged work on that, look for a proper therapy before that bitterness destroys you. It's not you or your type I want to marry, I will marry who I choose to marry and who has my type of ideology.
You are truly finished, take time and work on yourself to avoid bigger damages
As for God, you don't know him, he is not a God of bitterness and foolishness
Patrioticbreed9: I have dated one and men, she was humble as f u c k. I got to meet here through her brothers.
She was the best lady i ever met aside my mum and sisters. She took the relation thing way seriouse than i had expected, she no longer talk to guys etc.
Her snr brother asked me to let her be though for my own good and hers.
It wasnt easy for her that period. They was this day she even called to tell me that it will be always be her like she is cheating on me even if she marries.
Back to question the answer is their PARENTS! esp their FATHERS. If they are wealthy? Forget it! Unlike in the south, in north wealthy marries the wealthy, every wealth father has a wealthy friend that has a son that will marry their daughter, its their way of life.
You can marry the poor one aka zamfara grade = mgbeke in igbo land and suliyat in yoruba land .
those one's are the pure defination of TURN OFF.
enough said!.
But remember SHARIAN LAW e nor dey joke o .
You deserve some chilled beer In Hausa land daughters of rich men are not that spoilt as we have here and they are always groomed for sons of rich men. So the humility will always remain there.
newdawn2017: she will work a bring bread to d table too, her life will not be ur life by proxy. He archive career goals of her dreams just like u, own businesses & socialize with life long friends just life u. U both will simultaneously cook for d family & care for d kids while bringing home e d bacon side by side ogh my dear u want to be d sole financial back bone if d family thereby making a full fledged woman adult completely dependent on u & powerless, so u can move mad at will even when unwarranted right?? D women re wise now capt. Ahab
Am sorry dear I hate such arguments neither am I looking for a weakling who will be 100% dependent A man is the HEAD of the family and to me it's simple as that, I don't need another equal.
This so called wisdom and bla bla bla will keep destroying homes so I don't give a damn about it.
And so you know I will only marry a woman who has a strong career
newdawn2017: send her where, u will cook it urself naa in time, she will learn if interested. Re u marrying for cooking sake?
Lol My family won't look like all these rubbish we see today. She will cook, feed me and the kids, I will bear the major financial burden though we can help each other our when necessary
. That's the way it has always been meant to be before social media came to destroy these values
Sweetplum: Where you wan get intelligence & good manners, it's the south. Yes we v bad girls but the hood ones are there. Bad or good are in every tribe. Those good girls in the north are suffering in silence.
We are doing comparison dear. am not saying there are no very good ladies in South I have met them too. But in comparison Northern ladies are more well mannered. There are good ladies in every tribe too. But you see in terms of meekness, respect, decency hausa ladies even their educated ones come first. Religion might be an influence but I can only say what I observed
ALL THIS PARADING AND ALL THESE USELESS ARRAIGNMENTS ...ARE STALE AND ARE BECOMING VERY OUTDATED. UP YOUR GAME ZOMBIE.
PEOPLE LOVE ESN...AND THEY NOW KNOW THAT ESN IS NOT IN THE CITIES.
SO LAMENT ALL YOU WANT..WHO PASS YOU PASS YOU.
BIAFRA BEAUTIFUL..
Yeah ESN in the Bush chasing fulanis While fulanis are in the cities burning everything down to implement orders given by ipob who are the origin of esn Sometimes I wonder if some people had chin chin given to them as brains
Sweetplum: Like a kunu seller abi. A girl whose only trade or source of income is fura? You get good manner as a man?
I have taught in the north, I have worked with hausa ladies too. There are lots if them that have good careers and are very intelligent even though you can't compare them with southern ladies I'm that aspect. A combo of intelligence+respectful+reservation is perfect for me
Sweetplum: I dey look you as you dey wash southern ladies. We v good women in multiple nos with exposure.
Yeah I know But let's be truthful here, social media have done a lot of damages to a lot of southern ladies. We can't deny that the influence is not that much for hausa ladies. People like me will want to marry a reserved lady who values the institution called family and its values
chatinent: I disagree. For sb who stayed in the north, yes, there may be a visible caste system or religious difference between a southern Christian and a northern moslem since their religion permits they marry themselves but if they fall in love with you, na beg dem go dey beg you make you leave them. And they are rather shy not unapproachable.
For the Hausa christians, they love like you will vanish tomorrow.
And they are tremendously beautiful ladies in the north.
Hope you can link me to one fair beautiful hausa Christian. I won't mind I can send her to learn how to cook a afang, oha and the rest
Religion aside Hausa women make the most respectful wives. Seriously if not Religion I will really consider marrying one They are contented, not greedy, they just want to keep their homes. Not all these my sisters here that social media have destroyed
VPN11: Soliye Soli ye ye ye Problem e no dey finish Make you try dey enjoy oh Wahala e no dey finish ohh oh Make you try dey enjoy oh Say katakata, wuruwuru e no dey finish ehen Make you try dey enjoy oh Problem e no dey finish Make you try dey dey enjoy, oya now Make we dance like no wahala (Eyyah no wahala oh) Make we dance like no wahala (Eyyah no wahala oh) Make we dance like no wahala (Eyyah no wahala oh) Make we dance like no wahala (Eyyah no wahala oh) You see this life, I cannot kill myself I just wan live my life, live am jeje oh I no like wahala I no go find your trouble I no like kasala So far my money dey double As my money dey pile up oh E dey make me happy oh (Happy oh) As my money dey pile up oh E dey sweet my body oh (Body oh) Problem e no dey finish Make you try dey enjoy oh Wahala e no dey finish ohh oh Make you try dey enjoy oh Say katakata, wuruwuru e no dey finish ehen Make you try dey enjoy oh Problem e no dey finish Make you try dey dey enjoy, oya now Make we dance like no wahala (Eyyah no wahala oh) Make we dance like no wahala (Eyyah no wahala oh) Make we dance like no wahala (Eyyah no wahala oh) Make we dance like no wahala (Eyyah no wahala oh)
Rubbish Its government that paid UGM to enforce sit at home and kill offenders in support of ipob. Anybody supporting ipob is dumb very dumb and the goodness of ipob must get to then one by one
AtikuNetwork: It was Jonathan's loss in 2015 that drove Nnamdi Kanu and his ipob gang insane. During Jonathan's tenure Kanu was very quiet but after his loss ipob became beasts.
Since then countless Igbo youths have met their untimely death over his agitation. What happens now that the same Goodluck Jonathan has abandoned the very party that made him who he is today, for the opposition that demonized and disgraced him out of office? GEJ is not a man of honour for doing this to our great party. I hope ipob apologizes to Igbo people for getting themselves killed over such a man.
IPOB began broadcast in 2012. They advised Igbos not to vote in 2015. So say what you know Buhari is the reason why the whole stuff got messed up to this level. Buhari clearly made a lot of Igbos join ipob both actively and passively
This is how bad things have degenerated to I don't think this iddioot can attract any responsible man. Later na we start hearing justice for this efulefu
Contekbbc: Mark my word and come back in ten years time I repeat, YOU'LL NEVER SUCCEED.
Your communication is Zero Your mentality is moving Backwards Your ignorance is -0 You'll know how stupid you have been all these while. Send your account numbers of your stupid father and useless mother with your God forsaken siblings and elders and I'll credit all of them without stress. Stupid boy. I have tasted corporate world before you were born and I have gone far ahead of your useless parents who didn't train you well to know who to abuse and learn from. Now,I'm an employer of labour and I'll employ you with your generations when you people are ready. You're talking of shit when the world has already moved ahead centuries ago. You must be very very very mad You can Continue to give yourself some false hope.
Don't mind that guy, I wish he knows who he is talking to he will kneel down and weep because he lost an opportunity to connect with someone who you never can tell can connect him somewhere in future. Just leave him he is still a kid
Na wetin dem dey tell some of them for mosque . ( Not saying that the op is a Muslim anyway )
That's how one of my Step Brothers was telling me that they told them in mosque that it's now very rear for one to see churches in the USA. That you have to go distance before the can see any ....
I was like smiling inside myself that, is it not the same USA with more Christian population than Nigeria ?
You see, some of them wish for that, while many were lied to in their various mosques .
But the church will keep flourishing.
Amen !
Leave them they raise all these topics to discourage youths yet churches that youths are their major members are being packed out weekly
victor4ekele: You don't really know what I mean, if you check very in those churches you will understand perfectly what I'm talking about. I've visited to some Churches for sometimes now and I can tell you vividly how majority of those in those churches are old Men and Women, From there I deduce out that like seriously, churches are really declining in winning more youths for Christ.
How many old men and women did u see in the packed out auditoriums of Christ Embassy, winners Chapel, salvation ministries, house on the rock etc?
Keep deceiving yourself Churches are getting filled up with youths more than before Of course u won't find lots of them in the orthodox churches. Churches conduct 3 to 5 services every Sunday and each service packed out
DHaran: Go and sit down!!! Go and tell that to your little children at home they will listen.
Instead of u and that zionmade (the unemployed graduates of nairaland) to look for opportunities and succeed u are here advising someone that his thinking is different from yours...
And how did my name enter there Did I in any way abuse u? And when did being unemployed become a sin? Are u too naive to know that unemployment can happen to anyone?
Assuming we are unemployed graduates, we are still ur elders and having no respect for ur elders is a curse. Keep heaping it on ur future I feel very sorry for u sha.
ezenwajosh: when you were listening these 3 years did you hear them SHOUTING on radio about those killed protesting in NKPOR, ONITSHA, ABA, YOUNG MEN AND WOMAN OLD MOTHERS AND FATHER THEY poured ACID ON....?
DID YOU HEAR THEM ON SAME RADIO CALLING ON THE WORLD?
DID YOU SEE A VIDEO WHERE ARMY LINED UP IN ABA IN A FIELD AND EXECUTED ON SITE MOTHERS, FATHERS, CHILDREN AS IF THEY WERE ALL SENTENCED TO DIE BY FIRE SQUAD?
IT'S ONLY NATURAL FOR YOU TO REJOICE WHEN SAME IS MET AT SAME PEOPLE AFTER YEARS OF YELLING FOR JUSTICE THAT DOESN'T MEAN YOU DID IT
Any link to the bolded? If we start telling ourselves deep truths, killing protesters didn't start like that. The python dance didn't start because of protests.
Now to the topic, before radio Biafra, there has already been Biafra agitations and things didn't go haywire, for things to turn violent a seed was sown a new ideology was sold to the people
Which people are you saying justice is being meted on? Its mostly Igbos that have lost their lives in all these. Even you that is talking, you risk being killed if you say anything against ipob in the east. Is that what Biafra is all about? You risk loosing ur life in the hands of the same UGM if you come out on a sit at home day, they will kill you and call you a saboteur. OK is the east now more secured than the way it was years ago?
2015 Kanu called on Igbos not to vote, and today the east has no tangible voting significance, now we don't vote how has it brought any positive change.
Please don't forget a link to the bolded because I don't listen to beer parlour stories. Am not saying people didn't lose their lives in protests, but I want an evidence of the ones you mentioned
ezenwajosh: you said those enforcing the sit at home are speaking igbo....so let's assume all northerners are terrorists since terrorists speak northern language and all northerners dress same way as terrorists.
The funny thing is you all knows the different between ISIS ATTACK IN NIGERIA FROM BOKOHARAM, BANDITS AND FULANI HERDSMEN'S BUT ANY ATTACK IN IGBO IS IPOB so there isn't another body and there's no possibility of someone using the Holy name of Biafra to commit crimes?
Some group went to a bank in OKIDI tried to attack it and hoisted a flag this is not during sit at home....everybody said its IPOB what is the evidence BIAFRA FLAG
See bro, I am Igbo, grew up in Igbo land, I know igbos very well. The UGM have the backing of Igbos thanks to the brainwashing of ipobs and kanu. I listened to radio Biafra for over 3yrs and I always knew that the hatred they spew in their broadcasts will soon result to what we are facing today.
If UGM don't have the backings of ipob and igbos you should be seeing burnt tyres everywhere in aba and onitsha, if u grew up in Igbo land no need to tell u the significance of burnt tyres.