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dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

tmogba4:
This is called a deal

alexistaiwo:
any one of the following


English language no hard na

austino677:
i no sabi amm

alexvic12:
I've saved some money to buy Xiaomi Redmi 8. I wanted the Note 8 but I don't have the money for it.

Can anyone vouch for the camera of Redmi 8? How good is it.

Mckandre:
Xiaomi needs to buckle up nd address this issue ASAP

KngGezy:
The Redmi 8A is good.

But if your money is up to 37k. I would have advised you to go for the Samsung Galaxy A10 not A10s. You will not regret it bro. Because I really think you need quality . Something that will last for a long time . And it's not Amoled but the screen quality is better and brighter than most LCDs . And on the bright side you wont spend much changing screen.

#TheSamsungrepresentativeontheXiaomithread

KngGezy:
He is entitled to his opinion

Heating up the already tense atmosphere. Unluckily he didn't get the much needed attention.

How I wish we could let the pictures do the talking. This is a camera thread for Gods sake.

Gojugbeli:
HUAWEI P30 PRO? Thats no way better than any oppo phone sha

Viking07:
All these people are village champions. All they do is promote their telegram channels where they ask you to pay for games. At best, they hit once in a blue moon.

They've made me to discover that the most easiest way to make money from gambling is by charging people to join a group. All you need do is have one lucky win and boom you're in business. People will be rushing you on Twitter. If you think guys here are gullible, then you need to check Twitter, atleast here it is only Nigerians, on Twitter, it's the entire continent.

cbrezy:
Oppo and Xiaomi

which of these above device is okay?

Authoreety:
Do u have any 5gb ram fone?

dragonstar14:
guys check out some redmi note 8 pics that i saw

kekilika:
Interesting...

yungsmart:
Pls you guys should quit quoting KngGezy the more you reply him the more he says things that reeks of ignorance and misinformation.

He might just turn out to be another' madgoat.

KngGezy....

Elvis1331:
shut up

Elvis1331:
but they scored 4 goals

Ogharaboy:
Pls help me beg bet9ja to decide this game. They are saying is a lost bet. Check it out my people.

ityP:
I downloaded gcam for the RN7 (3/32GB), but opening and closing takes long. I think i will delete it. She will manage the stock cam

olaboyeh:
Anyone can tell which is better between iphone 7plus camera and samsung s9+ then maybe A70...still stuck on those choices sha