₦airaland Forum

Broobembem:
[s]Currently watching Tony umeze movie on African magic, all I see is Ozor[/s]!

bashtee09:
please what time is their Thursday night task, to know when to start streaming online

clementbiola:
Go and fight him inside the house. Stop ranting

orgylover:
we dont care , anything a fresh boi like ozo do is right

meziology:
You are the one that is very stupid, get your jealous stupid ass self a healthy drink of sense... Leave Ozo out your fucking mouth... As if you have ever dated or close to be seen with someone as amazing as him. Besides I toke the time to search you out... You are really ugly, I don't think you should be criticizing someone.. ugly ass bitch

Broobembem:
All of a sudden, all of you are happy for Lucy!

Some are even lowkey happy for her, some are high key happy for her.


Same Lucy una wan bury!!


You see this world? Just succeed, that's all!

BluntTheApostle:
Ozo is not really that handsome jor.

He has refined qualities which is why he looks different from those Igbos that sell electronics at Alaba International.

DownChelsea:
trust me Ozo won't look at you.

And he'll obviously snub you before you think of snubbing him.

You were right. Your opinion is 100% unpopular.

Sweetpink:
Agama is not my head ache[b]..your ugly face is![/b]

Sweetpink:
The tranny ugly bitch once said "the amount I’ve made this week alone is more than you could ever make"
Lmao!!!!
Jack ass!!!!

TayehJiboluwa:
That Light is in you - The Light of the world (John 1:5) The Light describes Jesus. You may have just had a supernatural encounter, that will reflect in the coming days and weeks.

TheSkyIsBlue:
My Sister Is About To Commit A Serious Taboo All In The Name Of Marriage

Hello Nairalanders!

Please ignore any typographical or grammatical error. I just want to pour it out the way it is in my heart.

I am seriously confused and worried about what is happening in my family and I will appreciate your candid advice.

There is this guy my sister has been in a relationship with for over seven years now. so he actually asked her hand in marriage and decided to come see my parents for introduction, about some months ago. My family decided to take their time to find out more about the guys family background as is required in Igbo tradition.

After several questions asked, my family came to find out that the guy is an Osu (an outcast). On knowing this, everybody in my family told my sister to cut ties with him and discontinue the relationship because it is a big taboo to get married to an Osu in my place . If you do, no family member or friend will attend your wedding or even have anything to do with you again.

But my sister refused to listen to anybody claiming she really loves the guy, that they have been together for a very long time and that she is not getting younger anymore (mind you, she is in her early thirties). Everybody (my parents and extended family members) tried to talk her out of it but she still didn't listen.

After much pressure and her continues insistence, my dad decided to give them his blessings, although against his wish (my dad is actually not really deep into tradition). Now the guy has done all the traditional rights and paid for her dowry. Their wedding is coming up soon.

But the problem now is, according to tradition and from what I heard, if she was allowed to go with the guy without my dad giving them his blessings, the stigma would have just been on her and she alone would have been considered Osu, since she insisted to continue with the marriage. But now that my dad has given them his blessings, it is considered that all of us (her siblings) will also have that link of Osu too. Except if she decide to put an end to the relationship and discontinue with the wedding, which I don't think my sister is ready to do.

I am really worried and depressed about it, cause I don't want anything that will affect me tomorrow when I want to get married just because of my sister's mistakes.

I will really like to get opinions and sincere advice especially from those that are familiar with tradition, cause I'm seriously bothered. Thanks!

donbachi:
deputy Jesus...clap 4 ur sef.

TayehJiboluwa:
To 'sue' the Lord in this context means to entreat him. The Lord has a message for you, but he wants you to get closer to him, this is why the other handwriting wasn't clear. Move closer to God.