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Clinghton:
I won't advice you to relocate with your cousin, if you can do it alone it would be nice.

and leave the girl where?

Animegirl:
Stfu. That's how you men keep disturbing a lady for marriage or relationship when the lady is not interested, hence the embarrassment.

You want to beat a lady because of proposal? See this weak man

You don't get it. He's not beating her for rejecting his proposal, but for embarrassing him in that way.

Inasmuch as I do not fancy proposing to a female in public and I don't pray to do such, but let's say i do it and she does this to me, my first instinct would be to slap the hell out of her. Isn't walking out on me enough embarrassment? And you think what the lady did is right yeah? Strong woman

Passionate888:
There's more to this issue than ordinary disciplinary matter

im telling you. I think it's personal cos wat did he do that Xhaka didn't do? Xhaka that told us to Bleep off in the presence of everybody?

This can't be just a disciplinary issue.

WBworldwide:
The gal nor be mugu... D babe still try for me, na just bad influence if not na good gal

meaning the girl na still mugu. You dey school and she except make you buy her car too? Isn't that foolish?

NotBeenPaid:
I bought this crate of egg for N1,800.

the entire crates or 1 crate? You have to be specific with infos

gasparpisciotta:
Bro present day woman no like man wey dey do sme sme!!!

Shout for her head make you threaten to boycott her and her food for the time being unless she change.

And if she no change become more aggressive towards anything that concerns her!!

What she sow she must reap!!!

Once you see say she don calm down, bring her close and take her out but don’t let that be your only joker.

Change tactics from time to time

i dey tell you.

bigpicture001:
...My friend whose dad passed on two months ago and who was so sure he will henceforth become a big boy got the shock of his life when his dad's will was read to them by his father's lawyer...

In the will his dad gave him Nothing which was unusual especially being the eldest son and coming from the Igbo tribe.. his father owns two filling station, a big and very busy half-warehouse store where he sells dangote cement wholesale, three commercial houses , a sign supermarket,3 pieces of land also one SUV and two small cars.

We suspect, it may be connected to his visibly wayward lifestyle, he has twice been sent packing from two different private University in the south east over tuancy and suspected cultism....more shocking is the late father handing over the day to day running of the firm to his oldest daughter "not his wife"

The said girl is just 24 years old but graduated as second best in the dept of economic then..his father even helped her secure a lecturing job 5months before his demise..he stated that his wife will only be an important signitory for transaction worth a million and above.

He added a clause that his son can join the management of the firms and estate only when he graduates from any University with at least a pass and record less than 7police cases before he turns 28..

Even at that he can eventually take over the firm after joining management for minimum 4years...

Abeg oo. is this. Dead man not wicked... Allowing a girl lead the house when her mum is still alive.. although she is older than the guy.. sh is the first child

please explain how the man is wicked. Let's have a conversation.

Gdefo:
Let me quickly chip in, I have been a victim of similar incident (Google and FB ads) with the former org I worked (ps: this bosses knows what they are doing, they are just being arrogant, difficult and a bully)

My solution: have a solemn conversation with him/her then arrange for one on one sitting with them to resolve the issue since you believe he would still have access to the ad account
1. He would need to authenticate his access with a link or whichever way google wants but he would be there to initiate the authentication (hence resolving the fear of clicking unknown links). After these, then he can change the card or payment system
2. If above doesn’t work for any reason, then you guys would need to come to an agreement that he should forfeit or block the card and get another ( you can pay for it if possible).

But to be honest, there is no way he wouldn’t have access to the ad account since it’s associated to email (either yours or his) that way retrieval is very very possible.

Then again, if he refuses any of the above, then instead of writing an undertaking, make a report instead with the police proffering any of the above solution to the problem and see how it pans out.

Ps: In my case, it was my card that was stuck, I mistakenly forgot to remove it before leaving (considering the circumstances surrounding my leaving). I had to make an appointment to visit the org and resolve the whole issue physically.

well, he blocked his card and got a new one. He also paid me my money but not completely. But im free from his werey. Thanks for your input, though it's coming late lol. No mind me.

brosom:
I think there's a reward for being a Simp,

Let me ask Google I'll be back.

thank you. Find it out and let me know say I can see how to latch on it.

At this point, I am a simp for loving someone for close to 4years after breakup, I don't know what to do to overcome this feeling even though I have ladies professing love to me.

Read here for the first thread I made after our breakup https://www.nairaland.com/3767933/agony-emotionally-disturbed-jobless-graduate

I met her during my service but we broke up due to distance and quarrels and I cheated on her too. After 4 years of loosing touch of her number( I was advised her to deleted her number and block her to get over her which I heeded to) even though we interact with our pictures on IG and Facebook, I was still loving this girl on code. She was 20 and I was 25 when we parted ways now I'm 30 and she's 25, both single(she told me) but I don't know if she likes me.The thing is, during her birthday I got her number from IG and wished her a happy birthday, we chatted and made some calls. During my birthday she called me too cos our birthday is just 4days apart. After all the calls and chats that lasted for a few days I had to tell her that I never moved on even though I had some flings, in fact she was the last lady I dated after nysc. After telling her I never moved on, her countenance changed so I had to back away cos I don't like silly attitude females display sometimes but I still wish I never backed away cos we have drifted apart again. I have a lady always loving and check on me but I don't feel same for her, I just love this my Calabar girl and I don't know how to tell her this, I don't know how to be in charge and take control even though I've always been in control. The only way I find solace in all of these is find a fault not communicate with her or use her hormonal issue she had when we were dating to hate her but e no dey work. How do I find away around this? how do I move the fck on I'm stuck now and don't know how to move. Please help this poor simp for loving a girl that he's not sure if the feeling is mutual. Please.

Bash me all you want, I honestly don't care

Ehen! I for talk. Cos I was checking IG, WhatsApp and Facebook, it's not going. Yet Google chrome is going. I come think say I don disable my apps by mistake.

ojasweb:
Definitely

i chat you up on twitter now.

Your dm isn't open.

ojasweb:
The OP is actually at fault. I manage over 50 Google ads accounts and I don't have to worry about such issue.

If i created an account for you, i simply transfer the ownership to you and it won't even appear as if i created it.

I remember when i created an account for bedmate furniture and the person handling their digital marketing is being pushed by his superior who has zero knowledge of Google ads, asking me to do what is likely going to put them at loss, and i declined. And when such requests becomes too many and unprofessional, i ended my contract with them without asking for a penny.

Even though i created the account, you won't see my email or any link to me in the account other than being the manager.

A Google ads account being used for a client belongs to the client and you don't have to share any admin rights with them.

The only platform where i share admin rights is Google analytics and that's not disastrous. I needed admin rights in analytics because of advanced configuration, but nothing like that on Google ads.

The OP should just find a way to make peace.

I am a Google ads specialist with over 7 years active practice and nothing can bring such issues to me.

can I reach out to you? I have some concerns I need to communicate with you out of here

BRATISLAVA:
It's not an issue, but the man is making it an issue. Do you think the man doesn't know he can get a new card?

There are just some difficult people who think they're smart.

God will bless you. The man is very smart and knows what he is doing. Person way dey run ads by himself, he claims to even know my job more than me but ordinary admin status, he's claiming not to know. He gave me two options, either find my way into the Google ad account of which is impossible or write an undertaken. Just yesterday I mentioned blocking his card and removing it from my money, Baba no wan answer. You can imagine human being

PeaceJoyLove:
From all I have read, you are a stubborn being. The man is clearly illiterate about tech stuff. He feels safe having his email as primary. What dont you understand in that? Your ego and your stubbornness will kill you. You should have stopped the campaign and start all over with his email as primary. What is hard in that? You are dragging a non issue with your boss to the extent you vexed and removed yourself as an admin.

Listen, I deal with many people daily. They all end up becoming my lovers when it comes to tech and sophisticated things that they can open their lives. Why? Let them nag, shout, abuse, raise alarm, I am always on top of my game. I always deliver. Lovers trust each other. Trust is what you need to gain from this boss and that's it. People who don't understand tech are hard to deal with, but the moment they trust you, they will give you their lives. And never betray them. Protect them with everything you have in you. Even some of them deliberately give you trouble even for months or years cos they want to trust. For someone to still be giving you wahala means the person wants to trust. Illiterate people in tech are desperately hunting for who to trust if you dont know. See, with tech, you cannot trust anyone. You can only trust the heart of the person. But trusting one without having his/her heart is too risky people dont want to take. Get the person to trust your heart. Get the person to feel safe, I swear, the person will open his or her unclothedness to you. I dont mean physical, but financial. They will put billions on tje table and tell you to secure it for them, and they will sleep with their two eyes closed at night. That's it. This is what all you young men dont understand. It's just a pity that too much responsibilities are hanging on inexperienced young men these days cos the world is going tech "gaga-cious".

You killed yourself sir. Go to your boss and calm him. The two of you should sit in a room and do it together. Assure him you want to use his email as primary, and he will be in the same room with him while you guide him. That is all. But you want to act you are an expert who cannot be controlled. He will and definitely will control you first before you can manage him well. You cannot control him, but manage him. And he will definitely willingly release himself so you can manage him well and efficiently. This is what he has wanted all along.

I have a case now I'm dealing with. The fellow wanted me as the manager cos the fellow want to trust me. But the fellow has not trusted me yet. It is a huge battle, cos the fellow's personality is complex. All that is required is for the fellow to release himself/herself. It's been many months battle. I vexed too like you one time. But the person is hanging on. The fellow has turned me to south pole and magnetising me with himself/herself as north pole. As in not willing to let me go, but desperately causing wahala here and there. As in, the fellow showed it clearly I am going no where. Can you blame such person? When the fellow sees the potential and the good heart I have. But the fellow wants me as a primary focus. The email is not what is essential. But your boss is telling you stylishly to always listen to him and do it his way. That's all. If he trusts that you will always do it his way, and you do it another way one day, he will understand you tried all his ways but no way to use them. That's all what he wants. He wants to be in charge despite not being literate in tech related stuff. Make him feel he is in charge. That's the only way to manage him well and gain his trust.

You must be gentle. You have proved you know your job, but not making his email primary is just pure stubbornness. And you deleted yourself as admin. For what? That's a wrong signal sir. You better find a way to calm him, get into a room together fast and log yourself in back as admin, then, get his card off, create a new program and make his email primary. Shikena. That's what he wants. Give him what he wants. Ha ba!

Forget about law and court. You dont take everything up legally. Talk to him like a human being and drop your ego. He is your boss, treat him like one. Ha ba! One day, you too will get to his position that its human relationship you will deal with more. That time, you will not be so skillful with tech. Young people always know tech stuff. And then, you will understand the situation this man is presently. Take it easy sir.

you don't understand the person im dealing with I swear. This man is beyond reasonable. Someone that arrested somebody cos of 2k. How do you wanna reason with that one that he will listen?

You didn't see where I said I've apologized and explained tire?

Housing:
Zordgrub please be prepared there is more to it. You have to be very patient and calculative. Make sure your boss block his card and foreclosure any fraud arising from that particular card.

He believes you are about to leave his service, hence the protective and antagonistic disposition from him. You need to leave that company without any grudges, but he (your boss) will always create one. Henceforth be professional in your dealings and stop labour servitude, executes your job very and always demand for standard protocols and facilities.

Treat all your colleagues as official friends and nothing more.

Best of luck

thanks.

goodywady:
Please call me on 07034517274..I want you to work with us as a digital marketer....Also confirm your location is Lagos State.

okay. I'll reach out.

Lagos Mainland.

ojasweb:
As a Google ads specialist myself, if i created an ad account for a client, i will transfer the ownership rights to him/her then ask for the client details so that i can request access.

Do not play too nice when offering digital marketing services to a tech illiterate. It can come back to hunt you.

i messed up in that line and I apologized for being to hasty to leave but he's not accepting. This man runs campaigns by himself on Facebook, business manager for that matter o. He knows everything im saying but he's being too stubborn for reasons I don't know.

here:
Next time learn to discuss the brief you’re given before you go ahead to. Sit down with your boss and tell him the different scenarios available and let him choose. It’s his business and he has right to choose what he wants to do. Yes he is not in tune with tech but you created this problem. You could have asked support to change your email to his and make him primary before exiting. I think you should ask him to block his card and use your own card or he gets a non funded account you both can use to try to use. Also let him understand he can then log into the link and contact support to confirm he is the only admin. It’s your duty to show transparency as he has more to lose it’s his business and do not put yourself in positions where you have to explain so much next time. If he doesn’t believe as him to get another tech person he trust to work on it with him so he takes control fully, let the new guy contact support to confirm he is only one with access and show him the mails from support

In ad account, there is no primary or secondary school. I made him an admin, meaning he has equal ownership to the account as me. Even when I contacted Google, they couldn't a low me back cos I don't have ties with the account again.

Johnrake69:
Send me a message I might have a small Gig for you.

Your Boss is really mean. The easiest way around this is to block the card and get a new card. Case closed. Don't fucking sign anything.

email sent.

I doubt if he'll agree to block his card but im getting a lawyer involved.

ekensi01:
@Zordgrub stop being a jerk, go into your boss office and let him log in the you remove his card if he saying NO. Then start looking for someone he listen to cause this issue is going a long way. Google will start removing his money soon, or better still get yourself access by stealing his password. I can show you. Message me

you have no idea how much I've reasoned with him and involved our HR. The guy's head is made of brick and rock. As for the password stealing, if I try it and it gets traced to me, trust me I'll be doing a long time in jail. Abeg I no want.

Lefty500:
Let him go to the bank and block the card, if na Dom card, highest I know is $15 cost.


Guy your skill na hot cake o.

If you can provide me with Google ads account that won't get suspended, I'm ready to buy from you.
Let me know if you could do that.

lol. Oya send me email make I add you as admin to one of my numerous ad accounts that im still setting up.

chidiwar:
The buharist can't key in to this kind of trend...all they want to hear is naizooria and it's politics .... Slowpokes..

the thing is the man understand how campaigns work, he runs campaigns so he knows. He just don't wanna just click on the email that google sent him so he can allow me in. The man is annoying and bored as Bleep.

Ade3131:
@Op

If his card is a debit card, tell him you're gonna refund him the 2k his card cost and tell him to block the card and you pay him the cost of getting a new card. At least that should settle every b'cuz the old card will be blocked and every payments that run on it will automatically be terminated.

2k should just settle it. I suspect your boss is in his late 50s b'cuz that's how most of them behaves over anything technology. They feel they're not too far away from the Tech generation and always want to show they're smart enough to match the trends or what's in vogue in the tech space.

I left my best job b'cuz of someone like your boss too. But please settle with him amicably. It's hard getting a good job out there. So manage your Boss

asin you got it! Funny thing is he knows how these things works but he's forming that he doesn't know. He run ads by himself funny enough. He is in his late 50s or 60s. He is very stubborn and wicked

NetValueFX:
Don't sign anything. If he calls police on you, sue him.

on what grounds can I sue him? I would love to know this please

Bombastically00:
Bros u created a problem for urself at first...all he wants was his email to be primary...his card details alone needs protection from third party....

baba, he input his card himself, he is the admin and delete his card details, he can block it too if he is scared.

Sorry to bore you but ill be very detailed so you all can understand me and proffer right advice.

TLDR; I am being indicted for fraud for not removing my former Boss card details before removing myself as an admin from an ad account and I have to write a Police undertaken before I get paid.

I work as a Digital Marketing for a brand in Lagos. My job involves creating ads, social media management and strategy.

We needed to launch a campaign on google but for some reasons my boss didn't know how to get his password. I suggested I created one, then he accepted and input his card details by himself. I sent him an invite to be an admin so he can see all im doing, which be accepted. He later became skeptical about it cos according to him, he said I created the account under my email so I am primary to the account while he is secondary, and he doesn't want that for his brand cos he already has google ad account, which means his card details is under my email and details. I told him it doesn't matter who is primary or secondary, we both share ownership cos he has admin status to it and he can login with his email too and I am not privy to his card details cos I can't even see the details on the card. He said no, that he wants to shut it down and remove his card. I then asked him how do we now pay for the campaigns already running? According to him, he said when someone replaces me, he would put it back and and initiate payments, I wasn't really paying attention to him, I then removed myself as admin from the ad account, meaning he alone owns it cos he was giving me the impression that I will bear the brunt of payment and I don't want my other ad accounts to be banned as a result.

He then got pissed and asked me to find my way back in to remove his card, I told him he has to grant me access then, he said no that he is not an admin to the account cos when he wanted to gain access to the ad account, he had verification issues while logging in, but I told him that he is the admin now and I don't even have access anymore. I had to reach out to support but they referred me back to him or attached a code to the backend of the site. He won't grant me access because of this primary and secondary thing and that he doesn't wanna click on a link that he's not sure what I have said to google cos he claims he's not the admin. I have apologized tire and explain tire yet he won't listen.

He said I should write a Police undertaken that if anything like fraud affects his card, I should be held responsible so if im innocent I shouldn't have any problem writing it before he can pay my money. Or I should find my way into the ad account to allow him remove his card. I told him I can't write any undertaken cos I wouldn't wanna be held responsible for anything I don't know about. The man is so mean so im being careful with writing anything.

My issue is, I need legal help for this issue. I work 6 days a week and I sleep over at the office some days cos the service we render involves entertainment so I need to gather content. I sleep on the floor in the office cos the accommodation is messy and I've lost weight cos of his work.

What should I do??