Please don't crucify me yet, just advise me please. Had to utilize a new moniker for this.
I got married last year June and by February 2024, I was transferred to another state for work. I was bored in the city and probably made a mistake. The girl stays in same hotel, and works for a bank, also on a course. So we started talking and one thing led to another. This girl had her phone on audio record the two times we got down and recorded all the audio of the shit we did.
My wife came visiting and of course I defined boundaries the moment wifey was around. A few days back I got high and dozed off, my wife got into my phone saw our chats. Her last chat to me, was regarding the audio. My wife followed through the convo and she sent two 24 minute audios.
Before I could wake, Wifey was already gone from the hotel. And when I checked my phone I saw a long epistle and screen shots of what happened. Now she has called my entire family, friends everybody I know. I am so ashamed of myself.
Is there anything I can do to have her back. Can she ever forgive me.
I feel so bad having betrayed her.
first get the police and arrest the lady for recording you with out consent. It illegal. Now your wife did the right thing because you will still cheat again. If you decide to change go and beg her
SolarEngr: The initiative by the Lagos State Government to remove shanties and reclaim ungoverned spaces is a step towards creating a cleaner and safer environment for residents. It's crucial to address issues like unsanitary conditions and criminal activities to promote the wellbeing of law-abiding citizens.
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you should be careful never to partake in sensitive matter when running a business. As it start your comments will definitely not bring potential customers to you
UAE123: Please it is not by force to stay in Lagos and be living in unhygienic condition. Be in your state and try to do something useful to yourself. It's like Lagos is really facing accommodation issues.
who told you those in the shanty are from other states. Omo the way you guys reason eh
But why is it that when government move to demolish the owners don't present such approval and documents?
Or since last year have you heard of any home owner taking the state government to court to enforce their rights? Why? Is it because they have no approvals?
Nigerian estate developers will willingly and knowingly buy land designated for farmland, turn it into an estate and start selling and they saying in the background that "government can't demolish, the worst is to ratify"
Ikorodu is another one. They have sold al the farmlands there for private houses.
Slytiger: Next time, influencers should review and pass truthfully. Don't go all out to war with fake review and pushing same to your 11,000 followers on Facebook.
Her followers even warned her that she was running foul of the law, instead she told them to tell erisco to stop killing people with his tomatoes paste. I hope also has the list of the dead people.
And to those that like to shout sane climes 👇
she use *** it can mean any thing . Na just say she dey poor this is not a valid case in court
socialmediaman: The Tinubu government has just increased electricity cost for band A customers to N225 per KPH.
For context, customers in the US pay about the same cost per KPH (or cheaper) depending on the state you live in.
Energy analysts are explaining that Nigerians are willing to pay more if they have access to electricity.
Based on data from NerdWallet, the average monthly electricity cost in the US is about $137 which is about N178,000.
Are you willing to pay N178,000 monthly for electricity for a 24-hour supply?
this is somebody's half rent a month In some European countries with standard light and all bills included, with minimum wage at at least 900k a month. So if government want to increase the fee, they should increase salaries or na onto 30k person go pay this money
LordGuru1: Remaining low?! Humility and Igbo has never before appeared in same sentence. Only Yorubas have that super Capacity of becoming MultiBillionaires and remaining humble. As soon as Igbos begin touch Millions let alone Billion $Dollars, they want to trample on other Tribes as if they are inferior humans to them. Same reason why Fualni Buahri locked your guy down for almost 8 Years, refused to allow your Allen Onyenma Peace Air Transport to fly Internationally. As soon as Tinubu came based of fellow Southerner Love, he granted him the Liscence to fly UK, Europe, etc. What was the first things Igbos do?! Raised false gaslighting story about Yorubas angry with their Air Tranaport Company in their usual efforts to ridicule Yorubas and Tinubu that has now made it easy for them. They are too shallow-minded to see that they Allen is to be paying Rentage for Plane Hanger Space at one of the numerous Airports owned by a Yoruba Man all over Europe. Allen has just planes o! Yoruba that own Airports all over plus thousands of Planes never made noise about it.
Exactly same happened when Obasanjo schemed Igbo into Presidency by making Goodluck Azikiwe Jonathan President by chosing Yaraduah that he took to Germany to double confirm he won't leave long. They soon brutally used Jona to brutally humiliated OBJ and forced him to resign as PDP BoT Chairman, a Party that he built from scratch. History has shown this repeatedly. South-Southerners have never forget to say how Igbos Enslaved them on their fatherland during Biafra short era despite being the ones that owns the Oil-Land of Wealth.
the level of ignorance in your text is appalling. So the president of Nigeria now issue license for a Nigerian plane to land in London.
1)CBN is pumping dollars in and creating accessibility to meet the need demand for dollars. But the truth is the dollars they are puming in was still part of the money we borrowed and have to pay back. So the question is what happens when they can't pump in any more money.
2) investors are no longer coming in but leaving.
3) We are importing continuously we do not have even prices control for the product we produce within the country.
4) peope still dey Japa and it will not end soo n. the demand for dollars is high, how long will CBN meet the demand.
5) we are yet to fully diversified the economy
6) insecurities is till high in the country .
All you see are just temporary solutions that will only lead to disaster. I am not selling my dollars
NairaOcean: At a university in Nigeria, two female students got into a fight over a boy inside a classroom, surprising everyone there.
It started when the boyfriend's girlfriend walked into the classroom. She saw her boyfriend talking to another girl. The girlfriend got angry and accused the other girl of being too friendly with her boyfriend.
Things got heated fast. The girlfriend slapped the girl sitting next to her boyfriend. The accused girl then turned to slap the boy before proceeding to engage the boy's girlfriend in a fight.
The girls stood face-to-face, slapping each other. It was chaotic, with desks getting pushed around and lots of noise.
Taking fewer British students is a last resort but if you’re making a loss on something people have to consider it. Everything has got to be looked at because the situation is so serious.
Take note na still uk students go surfer am. If you have only 50 slots for a program. It will be better to offer those 50 slots to foreign students who will balance the books, than give it to uk students who pay less or study on loan which they have to pay in the future.
Omo i fear o. I dey see 5m 8m. Like no be house i complete recently. Omo Nigeriansdey wicked
Kingbuhari: OP don't listen to any of these morons here telling you between 5m to 10m are u building catholic... A room 12x12 can take 2 and half bags depending how many rooms you have there.. for the 3 rooms just keep like 20 bags everything, sand, plastering sand 3 tippers will do the work , as for mension bargain with them.. they plaster per partition... Everything will not cost you more than 300k don't listen to these morons here that never mold block before
SOLUDO INSPECTS ONGOING/COMPLETED PROJECTS AT OKPOKO OGBARU AND NIGER STREET FEGGE
Governor Charles Chukwuma Soludo on Wednesday, March 5t , 2024 during his routine project inspection visited Obodoukwu Road Okpoko, Coke market Ogbaru Local Government Area and Niger Street, Fegge, Onitsha South LGA.
Obodoukwu Road: He commended the new Construction Company handling the Obodoukwu Road project for their steadfast and swift work which indicates the project will be delivered at record time.
He reiterate his resolve to transforming Okpoko from a slum to an enviable habitat.
Coke Market: Soludo who had initiated talks between government representatives and displaced Coke Market earlier promised them the market could be opened if the traders will play their part.
Having fulfilled his promise to restore the traders back to the market, Mr Governor urged them to ensure they keep the market environment clean as his government is committed to sustaining clean, prosperous, livable, and secured Anambra.
Niger Street: Mr Governor commended the people to take responsibility and protect or report damages to any government projects done in their neighborhood.
He added that the government will consider building barricades that will prevent sand miner’s heavy trucks that have damaged the road access to the road.
He further highlighted that traders are henceforth prohibited from shading their wares on the sidewalks made for pedestrians.
#AnambraStateMewMedia
we have a long way to go in Nigeria. In Europe roads are made daily, you don't see any commissioning. You just see on the news, no fan fair nothing. There is a possibility that the road won't even last.
stevestifler: A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.
As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?
1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with 2. Her parents that gave birth to her 3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually 4. Her husband 5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood
Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.
her husband. Sometimes it might not be the perfect time to travel especially if they got kids. It's also important for married couples to communicate to each other before taking any decisions
Rizin: My dear look at it as a business.. 1. You require a capital base of n2b or n500m, 2. You are given $20k/ n20m +/- which comes whenever. 3. My question is, at what price, how long and how often will you sell 2 to reclaim your 1.
I will tell you that one bdc can not sponsor the importation of one container into the country. It can not pay for one person travel expenses to study in UK.
meaning dollar is still scares and with soon sky rocket again.
free234free: Bleep off. So that una go carry una useless badluck enter there?. I was making good cash from Bitcoins , PayPal, Paxful till u useless Nigerians carry una scsm. And badluck enter am. Again Bleep off
Are you not Nigerian. You are also the problem too. Just look at your comments
Hello, what courses do you think one can study in Poland to land a good job, I studied demography and social statistics, I’m thinking to study data science / business analytics / public health. What do you suggest please.
forget public health you won't use it here. Go with the other 2 or any good tech course
Smh. It's good that you don't know our real success secret . It's obvious that you are an outsider and it's totally untrue that our city alone has international water way in Nigeria sir
Tallesty1: Eight out of ten people who passed through this system have sufficient reason to hate women. I was telling someone the same thing just a couple of days ago. My senior bro went through the system, had a single boss when they started and everything was smooth. The man was full of praises, then boom! he decided to get involved with that which vexes all men.
Madam came and messed everything up. He told my brother in clear terms that he would go home with nothing, and there was no reason for that. No quarrels, no fights, no nothing. Just out of the abundance of her wickedness.
When they eventually settled with him, I, who was in secondary school at that time, had more savings than what he got. He swore that none of his siblings would go through that again.
My friend from Anambra has a similar story. He was four years into the agreement when his boss married. She made life hellish for him. It was the boss's mother who visited him briefly and then went home and told Anambra's mom to go and take her child before she kills him.
Chino, my man, was going through the same experience, but when it got to a level he couldn't take, he beat the woman, and that was it for him. The madam received a beating, but she was happy that her husband didn't settle Chino.
There is one I know in our line; he is about 15. He told me that his boss's wife only gives him fish heads, chicken legs and heads when they cook. I told his boss, and he told him to ensure he eats to his fill before going home after work.
Igbo men, many of them are very weak. Their women control them.
all men are controlled by their wife for peace to reign. Remember Abraham in the bible
Umueme: Lagos is Nigeria's economic capital. News like this aren't surprising to me at least. In nigeria now, Lagos leads others follow
Yes, thank everyone making it possible. As soon as election approaches, you will wanna send them packing if they don't want to vote the criminal you want.
Shame on you lots
the owners of most business and major players of trade in Nigeria are the igbos, but the government has yet to build an international sea way out of lagos in the south or east because they want to centralize all investments there. Build a sea port in south or the east and see lagos lose it investments
Family / Re: I Cheated-my Marriage Is Falling Apart by zrocky: 7:11am On May 06
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