saphiere: Any man who invites a ladyto his house and does not provide transportation fare is more useless than the lady who asks for transportation money. Why would you initiate a visit if you are not ready to take the responsibility?
omo eh what kind of mentality do you have, where you force to go there. When you go to see your ladies friends do they pay your bill for tp or during hanging out, why then should he pay your transport bills.
Even if you end up having sex, it's a two way agreement and both parties benefit from it. even commercial sex worker no the charge for tp.
Omo eh the level of entitlement with you Nigeria ladies is appalling.
There is a popular saying that goes thus "the truth is very bitter" reason being that most times the truth is not always received with an appealing response. But despite this, the truth is what we must sometimes tell ourselves to grow and fix ourlives. I believe at this point that we have found ourselves as a nation only "the truth can truly set us free"
As a Nigerian who have been fortunate to live and work in Nigeria before traveling outside the shore of this nation, my experience both home and abroad has taught me that we as a people have only ourselves to blame for all that has befallen us. We have allowed greed, corruption, religion, political affilation and tribalism to thrive and tear us apart. We have turned our brothers in to enemies, while our real enemies gloat with laughter.
We have forgotten our heritage as the giant of africa and purpose as a people meant to build a great nation that will push Africa to prosperity, which was the dream of our founding fathers. Time and time again we have been given the chance to make amends and do what is right but we choose to look and walk the path of destruction.
Honestly , it will be a myth if I ever told my children that once upon a time the Naira was the same value to Dollar. That we had an oil boom for years and we couldn't build or fix any refinery. That youths who came out to defend their future peaceful, where slaughter like chicken and yet nobody has been held accountable. That citizens did not just crew on the line to buy foodstuffs but to buy our own currency. That Nigeria is richer than most wealthy nations around yet we are the champion of poverty and our peope scatter aboard in seach of green pastures. That brothers and sisters will kill each other for religious believe that the white man who brought it to us do not even care about. That we have allow tribe to blind us. That we give light to other countries who have standard light, while we can even have light for a week. That we rented a plane in disguised as a national carrier (chia). That we will allow political parties toy with us as if Atiku, Tinubu and Obi are not with their own personal agenda, yes i believe in the peole voice and choic, but we can fight over people who can't show a first class standard university , secondary school or primary school in their village with all their money. Dont even call (AAUN that business)As the saying goes "charity begins at home"
It time we sit down and tell ourselves the truth, because the world out there especially this white folks, they don't care, and only looking out for themselves and happy ready to keep using and taking advantage off us. You can blame them, it just business. They use the little the have to fix their country, do business with us and fix their country. Today as an European in the west even without a job you have accessibility to opportunities. We cannot continue to play the blame game, China, Singapore, Dubia, Malaysia, even Ruwanda isn't. Small Ghana, South Africa dey purse us because we lost our value to lead.
My peope all this cat and dog fight online and offline will not help us. it time to tell ourselves the truth by coming together in one voice, as one people, as one Nigeria and fight for the benefit of this great nation.
God bless Nigeria God bless all Nigerian wherever we are in all we do God bless the Giants of Africa
uche87: Often when single young people move to the United Kingdom, they are always caught between starting new relationships abroad or sticking to their old relationships in their home countries. This short article is aimed at guiding you to make the best decision on the basis of reality and not mere emotions and sentiments.
I will try as much as possible to make this piece less controversial. The aim isn't to break relationships and destroy the efforts of couples in their relationships.
Dating a good Nigerian woman in the UK is amazing. They bring happiness and increase your zeal to succeed by giving you strong backing. Below are some of the reasons why dating a Nigerian woman in the UK is highly recommended.
(1) Nigerian women are appreciative:
Let's face it, there is no abundance of 'original' male suitors in the UK. Some coloured women even go for several months without anybody stopping them on the street to say hello. This adds value to men (law of demand and supply). So when single women ever meet their male counterparts, they value you like the pound note.
(2) Financial independence:
The UK creates an enabling ground and a level-playing field for everybody to succeed. As long as you are ready to work, you will make good money. UK-based Nigerian women have their own money and take pleasure in buying their own things unlike their counterparts back home, who are at the mercy of Tinubu and his APC friends.
(3) Beauty and fashion:
UK-based Nigerian women are not only beautiful, but they are so classy. They could be fashionable due to the extra cash and the affordability of clothes in the UK. I believe they have more 'packaging' than Amazon lol
(4) Better opportunities:
Nigerian women are doing really well in the UK. They are like the last piece of the puzzle you need to make your life complete. I have seen some men doing blue-collar jobs marry doctors and company management officials in the UK. This opens a door of opportunities and stability.
(5) Adaptability:
If you are in the UK, you are better off dating a Nigerian woman who lives in the country. This is because they have adapted to the system and have a strong knowledge of how it works. This is always as smooth as when Robin Van Persie moved from Arsenal to Old Trafford. He hit the ground running.
(6) Happy Ending:
UK women have very strong 'grips'. Legends in the house would understand. This is because of the scarcity of men and the busy nature of the country. You can't boldly say the same about Lagos-based women who are mostly 'sexually stressed' due to too multiple relationships running concurrently and marketing activities.
(7) Mental stability:
Due to the performing nature of the UK economy (compared to Nigeria), the women are generally happy to an extent because their needs are easily met via simple financial plans. Tinubu, back home has triggered an epidemic of mood swings amongst women with highly counterproductive public policies.
( Fiscal compatibility:
Nigerian women in the UK are largely transparent with their finances. They also contribute to the payment of bills. They know for sure that their spouses might develop hunchbacks carrying those responsibilities alone. This attribute isn't easy to come by in Nigeria where the women regularly say 'Your money is our money and my money is my money' to their men.
(9) Better exposure:
Traveling itself is a form of education. As you pass through places, they also pass through you. Nigerian women in the UK have mixed with different races by virtue of being in the country. This has also broadened their perspective on life and made them better people.
(10) Cooking:
Nigerian women are generally fantastic cooks. They don't just have the skill, but they also have the financial resources to explore new measures of making both local and foreign dishes. Inadequate financial resources impede the abilities of their local counterparts.
Osahon George Osayimwen writes from the United Kingdom.
0xprotectr: I would like to know the probability of a successfully getting a spouse visa as a student. I got admission recently and yet to pay the school fee. Want to come along with wifey.
Ehn ehn Broda. Seems schooling is quite cheap in Poland from info gathered here.
Can you suggest a few schools still admitting for this year.
Since you are there; you are in right position to advise.
Abeg, help people career .
check private universities, but remember public universities in Poland are far better than private universities. Tuition is from 2700 to 3500 euro. Private universities don't have accommodations, So that another problem.
Universities like university of business in wroclaw, vistual university, university of transport and logistics, WSB universities. Coventry university (you go sell you sell all your property go Coventry )
Don't forget to use bachelor portal . Com and masters portal .com, also Wikipedia to check schools.
Also learn skill on coursea, udemy & Alison. learn to drive and get your international and Nigeria drivers license e get why.
Note don't apply for October resumption you might not meet up with visa appointment, A form wahala. Also check every school refund policy
As a fresh graduate I was considering Sweden but from what I have read so far it looks like Sweden is a no go, I am considering the Poland dream, can you help with informations regarding how the process is started, I want to go through study route but if there are other routes too like working visa and the likes can you please give me information on those and what amount should I be considering for all this processes. I appreciate your response.
Thank you
studies is the best route, because you can do it yourself and you don't need agent.. all you need to do is read page 1 to this page, you can read it in 4 days and then our help will be easy.
As for work permit there are alot of scams it cost 1m +. I can't give advice on this as it's complicated and you have to know it might be factory jobs (but who cares you can leave the job once you get here)
Also you can get a job in poland from Nigeria if you have the required skills. Use the power of Linked in and connect with hr and recruiters also develop your self and get approval of those skills on your profile. They are a lot of videos on YouTube on how to get a job from anywhere in the world on Linked in . I have friends who move to Germany Spain, Poland using this method.
Finally visa application process we can you help out on preparing your documents but visa appointment and getting the visa is by God's grace.
Oh.. been reading the thread from 2019 towards today, hasn't been aware of these changes.. even all of una our Gurus wouldn't respond to us.
Because of Lack of help regarding assistant and info from our Senior Nairalander from this thread. I could not continue with my Polish school that gave me admission.
you need to understand that most people who where here like myself are now hustling their life out there, school and work is not easy. we don't know the situation of things at the embassy anymore. No body get paid to offer the information here.
so what you need to do is read from page one till the last page, You will understand everything that can help you till you get your visa. Getting admission to poland is very easy the only problem is visa appointment and getting your visa, those last two is prayers and fasting. If you need any help tag me I'll do my best.
If your in Poland and you don't have a job it summer I can help with some advice
If you got your visa and want to know what to expect, like job, school life etc. tag me
Note please don't send private messages to my email. This is a faceless forum, post it here so someone can benefit too.
God bless you all
Pic 1, where we play football Nigerians in Wroclaw
You are bringing the attention of a whole NL to just 20k matter!
Na so country hard reach?
Reach out to anyone there who can assist you with cash or allowance and then when it's time to pay back , tell them you both didn't sign any documents to that effect.Case closed
Edited with my 📲 morons and Igbos are quoting me left ,right & center.
Hungry fools living in a face me I slap you apartment characterized by flood and potopoto 🤣🤣🤣
tonye33: I have been married for 14 YEARS and 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me.
5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Lagos to Abuja and our car skidded off the road. I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children.
I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.
In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process.
I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me.
6 years into our marriage, my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child.
To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA and it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine.
I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife. My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know.
I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about the situation. I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.
What should I do!?
--Please advise him.
first he is not a pastor. Next this is a made up story
Henix: It baffles me how INNOSON company and the management of that girl's school weren't able to run a simple verification of the disputed jamb result before publicly giving her accolades.
INNOSON needs to reshuffle his PR team. Anambra state ministry of education equally needs to demote the management of the girl's school for incompetency
they said they did and it was the correct before they award her the prize. so How everything change is what baffles me. Jamb has the portal they can change anything they like there, by the way they didn't announce the highest scorer till she came out and worst of it use DSS to arrest the girl when the matter should have gone through investigation and not create an national disgrace to our educational system
I worked in Nigeria earning 25k salary, no admission nothing, still hustling myself to japa which my babe then knew. Omo this girl where I like die been dey with me. She was in the university. omo once she graduate babe change o,
Come the act anyhow, me just the look am. Before she went for service she end our friendship, I still dey look am. As she went for service, 3 month later I move to Europe for my studies.
I made sure she didn't know that I had my visa , so once she started misbehaving i just dey look am .
3 years on I'm financially blessed by God's grace, where I dey now very few peope will dream of it and getting married to my American babe , she's done with service long ago, not married, still hustling a petty job in lagos. The rest is history.
I wish her well and i pray Hopefully life will be kind to us all to achieve our dreams. so one day we can see each other on the street with no regrets.
Word of advice for Nigerian women , yes Nigerian women, follow a man that has a dream and is focus on it, not all that glitter is Gold.
PrinceMajestic: No although it depends, I know Reverend fathers who are traditional title holders, infact one of them is a double chief who received titles from 2 notable Monarchs. Its not wrong, 99% of all our Delta chiefs are Christians and few Muslim too. In our zone as you're being given the title you must entertain the king and the Spirits of Kings and dance for them 3 times before finally dancing out with your people in celebration as a true Chief and on Sunday Thanksgiving is done in church to celebrate and appreciate God for a successful Chieftaincy title ceremony.
ThompsonJoo: Is it wrong for a Christian to obtain a chieftaincy title? If yes why?
chieftaincy is traditional or will I call it pegan title that come with a alot of demonic ritual. As a Christian you have no business with pegan ritual
dondodo: I dont know what has come over my Friend. He is 31 years old this year,and he met this 18 year old girl in their area who "happens to his friend".
From friendship to hanky panky everytime, I've warned him to be careful but he refused claiming the girl is matured enough to have sex.
My question is this,is it proper for an 18-year-old girl to have sex??
Jossyfine: All the comments above have not actually hit the nail in the right place. The major issue is that African marriages are not laced with romance and affection. How do I mean? * Most couple stop showing affection to each other once they start bearing kids and over see finish has crawled into their marriage. * African couples rarely make out for themselves alone in terms of going on dates ( at least once in a while) * Marriage is what you put in it ,that’s what you get, you should learn to do things together ie weekends both man and wife can create time to put the huz in order( not by force) but with love cuz it creates bond between couples. *You can create low budget vacation for just you both without the kids. *Once in a while try having sex outside the huz, look for an affordable hotel around ur area and maybe do just one night. * Marriage shouldn’t be about the kids, cuz have noticed what most couple talk about the kids, bills and family issues.Spice it up a little and gist about ur selves, probably the sex you had the previous night😜 * Let there be stewardship ( you guys should always review ur attitude towards each other by asking if each is meeting up expectations etc)*
*Most African couple rarely send romantic messages unlike when they were dating when most times you wake up to see sweet soul piercing messages from ur lover. But in marriage all the messages are for purchases of huz hold items.
Marriage is sweet but not in Africa. Africa marriages are very boring😭
Am just wondering how I survived 10 freaking years 😳😳😳and it’s still counting 😔
the same Yankee wedding where them dey divorce like water na in sweet.
I read the comments and all I can say is sad. If you feel igbos are a threat why not divide the country and let them go. You will have your lagos and if igbos want to leave in lagos they will need visa.
Just imagine the write and we all call ourselves Nigerians. E go te before I come back to this country
Naijastrapmedia: moment palmpay agents arrested debtor at eatery after tracking him
A video that has gained widespread attention online captures the moment employees of a prominent online loan company apprehend a customer believed to have failed to repay a debt. The video depicts the company's staff, accompanied by security personnel, tracking down the customer at a restaurant where he was enjoying a meal. Despite attempting to escape, the customer was stopped by one of the security guards. The agents verified the customer's identity using a photo he had presumably provided during the loan application process. The customer pleaded with them to allow him to make a phone call to his mother as he was being taken away.
After this you sue the company. You don't have the right to arrest anybody only the Nigerian police or military has the right to do so after getting a court order. Anything else can be tag kidnapping, like what was done in this video is kidnapping
femisplash: Enemies of the country were hoping to mock the country and the President but God has put them to shame. Beating Argentina in their backyard is no mean feat. God bless President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu
Jennyclay: Men should learn to spend on their wife/girlfriend without expecting anything in return
Personally, Even though the man has spent billions and trillions on me, if there’s no love in the marriage I will seek for divorce.
It’s better for the woman to leave the marriage than to start cheating on the man.
na . So when you went to the alter to say I do, you didn't know what you where getting into. So when you said your vow for better for worst you no Sabi say problem go dey the marriage. Just imagine the comment. Na women like you dey marriage with hidden agenda
LaRosa01: I dont know which western world be that because the one I know pets come before men,then all female migrant come before men.then when we reach men,there is men claiming to be women,gay men then white men then brown men before black men.
the devil is very intelligent. First he make men(Foundation of the home) to misbehave, then cause the law to change to favour women (who are builders of the home), then make women to take advantage of the law, destroying the home and causing children [who are the future of tomorrow) to grow up in broken home, thereby destroying the structure of family. now everybody eyes is opening, men no longer see value marriage as it is now becoming an advantage for women to make wealth. NaSo baby mama go dey reign, very soon baby mama too go come get in own wahala and men will either turn gay or just bullshit anything to do with women. Then what the Bible day women will be looking for men will come to pass.
What I'm I even saying it has already come to pass
CuriousStudent: She is in Naija men good book. They don't hate women having sex,they just hate the idea that women put a price on their body.
A woman dating a broke student for the four years of university and giving him daily sex for four years while cohabiting with him and doing abortion for him is "good" in their eyes,as long he is broke
But if it's a rich man she is dating and giving sex,they will frown.
na her money she dey use buy food, na she dey pay the rent no be the same guy go throw birthday party, buy gifts, take her out, yet you tag am broke abi
Please i put up this post basically because of my elder brother. I sincerely want to know if i was wrong talking to him, or I could have just let him be. I wasn't myself ever since i talked to him, and i was somewhat having guilty conscience since then.
I have an elder brother, he's 38 years old and also the first son. I am the fourth child in the family of five. The second child is a female and she's married. We lost our third child, that's my immediate elder brother some years back, while i have a younger brother. I came from a humble background. Lost my dad while i was in JS 3, even before his death we had been hustling on a daily basis for survival, and we live happily as one big family. My mother, siblings and i do hawk daily before we could eat. All thanks to public school in Lagos, my family wouldn't have had the opportunity to basic education. We hawk daily after school, weekdays and weekend. My family was bred and brought up in Ajegunle.
Few years after the demise of my father, we struggled to pay house rent. We had to leave Ajegunle to a local and developing area. I didn't allow my family conditions deter or weigh me down. Never! I believe I'd make it in life legitimately without venturing into crime, fraud, theft etc. After my secondary school, i was into all sorts of labour work. I worked in factory, building site, cleared bushes, laundry man , just to save up and further my education. I worked for 6 years after my secondary school, bought a bike from the little savings i had and proceed to school through jamb. I gave the bike to someone who often deliver #6,000 weekly for the upkeep of my family. I was in year 2 when i let go of the bike, it was on a higher purchase and the agreement we have had elapsed. I hustled my way through school and graduated. I'm done with service last year but couldn't land a job, probably due to my age. I'd be 29 this year and most graduate trainee often request for age below 28. Although, i had a 2.1. I'm only managing in a pure water factory to make ends meet, keep soul and body together and support my family
I sat my elder brother down and talked to him. He has been hustling like every other person in the family but i don't understand what's happening. He didn't futher his education nor learn a handwork. He's 38 but still live under his parents roof. He has been doing conductor work for many years. The family had talked to him several times to look for something else. It's fine you are hustling as a man for survival but doing conductor for many years without thinking of what else to do is wrong. A family friend of ours who later got to know what he does for a living had advice him also.
The bus he was following, the driver had misunderstanding with the owner and he collected his bus back. My elder brother had been idle for months, doing nothing. He claimed he has gone virtually everywhere in search of bus he could be working with but couldn't get any. This is a family that we all had to bring something no matter how little to survive. I was talking to him as a younger brother. I asked him why didn't he heed to people's advice when they were advising him then to stop the conductor work and look for something to learn, if perhaps he doesn't want to further his education? He doesn't believe in Nigeria education, because he could count graduates without job or those with petty job. My elder brother wear almost rag as clothes. I had to give him some of my little wears I'm managing. He has just one slippers. We don't wear same size of shoe or sandals, we could have been sharing that also. He sold his phone to feed sometime ago and had been without phone. I was initially saving to get my mum a small phone but i had to give him the phone instead.
He was crying when i was talking to him. I understand the situation of things in the country, which i myself is going through. I was just trying to know what other things he could come up with. I am not happy seeing him sitting idle doing nothing. The fact that he's the first son and found himself in this condition at that age breaks my heart daily. My mum had been so worried about his condition. I had to convince her that things will be better. I don't want her to develop high Blood Pressure that could lead to her untimely death.
Please guys was i wrong talking to my elder brother?
I have a few things to say to you. You might be surprised that he is the way he is, because he had to sacrifice his needs for you and your siblings to have it easy. Being the first son and a father figure comes with lot of responsibility. I have so many guys like your brother Sacrificing alot. Most won't show you how they do as they will prefer to go through your mum. My advice is apologize to your brother . Ask him what is his goal and then try to see how you can support him achieve his goal.
beekind: I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl. I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself. I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.
Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect. I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.
This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time. My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.
My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?
Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.
Thanks.
your dad is protecting you. I just hope she is godly. because our girls hear America omo pretending done start. If she dey fake am she go show you shege when she get there. SIGN PREUP
Religion / Re: “Any Girl Who Asks You For Transport Money Is A Useless Girl” – Pastor Mildred by zrocky: 3:24pm On Jul 26, 2023 
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Fiscal compatibility:
