depz:
I wish this world will just end let all of us both rich and poor just die.. I wish all the nuclear weapons in this world will just explode at once and kill all of us, every single living thing on this planet,all of us are idiots.

if you dey find die go die leave us where one live make we live. which kind wahala be this

depz:
Very Good. Let him go and rot in hell, burn there. If he has a son, that one too will join him soon. If he has a daughter, she will follow suit. His wife too will join him too, she will die under the tires of a dangote cement truck

My God Ate you okay, even if you have a person problem no be here you go settle am now. you self if get heart attack die now now as you dey see this message wertin you go tell your maker. life is too short to be filled with this level of hate. please get a therapist

mariahAngel:
It is never a Nigerian university.

and lectures will soon go on strike again.


All i wanna to say is that, they don't really care about us- Michael Jackson

How many Nigerians are in Sudan that Nigerian government cannot fly them all back to Nigeria. We have airforce cargo planes where are there

[quote author=Newton2024 post=122598526][/quote] Any man or woman with multiple sex partners before marriage will cheat when they get married. Sexual sin is difficult to stop.

Kobojunkie:
Again, the point here is that this issue of depression is behavioral and if you don't tackle it on an individual level, probably through changes in behavior and mindset, you will never be free of it.

your absolutely right

Kobojunkie:
This amounts to a fking bullsheet summation of what is instead my existence. I came to the USA carrying depression in my head so my struggles with mental illness had nothing to do with any of my actual experiences here in the US but the fact that I had a severally depressed brain right from living in Nigeria. Fortunately, I eventually found treatment and worked on my mind and life. And just when it began to overwhelm me, I found the solution to it all and freedom from all mental delusions since then.

Please don't go around attempting to write everyone's life with the same pen that is yours. That is insulting!

As I said it been 23 years brother. So relax, those where come now are not in the same shoes as you. By the way UK is not UK of 23 years ago, same with the US you went to. Nobody is try to paint your life picture, everyman his own cup of tea so relax we are all here to learn from each other not Insult one another. For me I'm leaving my best life but I can't deny the fact that my first year abroad was loney and depressing. Las Las everybody go dey okay

INDUSTRIALFAN:
I’m on a cleaning job. Na only 3hrs daily I see. Some people ego no wan let them do cleaning job. I just got into the UK in January. The cleaning job is not what we want but in the intervening period, na to do work wey de available till something better comes along as long as I can pay bills and clear debts.

nice one brother for here big man no dey as long as you pay the bills. You will win more grace

INDUSTRIALFAN:
me sha de enjoy the uk I de o. If no be debts i de settle for naija, i for no get any worry but atleast i de clear am 500k per month. I dunno why they re complaining. Maybe cos I’m an introvert sha and i love my quiet space

shey u dey work somepeople never find work, plus them get debt for house, some people work na slave work u understand. Every man shoe dey different. More grace man

Kobojunkie:
1. I had to become close to my family. I had to become familiar with my environment — this all took significant work and time on my part — before I then became as familiar with them as I am today. These things did not magically happen. I took a change in behavior and mindset on my part to make that happen. By the way, I have lived abroad for over 23 years now.

2. Sitting back and making ridiculous excuses for why you should not do what is common sense is not the way in life.

like you said 23 years. In those year s there have been alot of meltdown and depressed moments before you became OG. for us where just enter here leave us to complain our complain . By the way your advice has is one way kept myself from going nut here

Gerrard59:


You live with it or take the next available flight to Nigeria. Alternatively, you ensure things work well in Nigeria so that you enjoy your cultural heritage and live in prosperity.

na people like you go say person where dey depressed should suck it in instead of speaking out. Go and relax jare. Even oyibo dey complain about depression talkless of foreigner

Kobojunkie:
1. So, the same depression no dey Nigeria at all? Look, this is per person problem and should be treated as such. There are equally Nigerians out there who cannot stand a day in Nigeria as they find life there as depressing as hell. Do we then declare Nigeria a depressing place to be?

you don't understand. At least you have family and friends, you are familiar with the environment you grew up in. When you go abroad culture shock, lifestyle shock, hustle is not easy omo plus na rice and potatoes and chicken you go dey chop on the steady some food becomes luxury, your mental health go just crash. Babe no dey, guy no dey, your country men dey hustle as you dey hustle no time to see omo

Alll i see is women who are not maturedfor a reasonable relationship. High earner or low earner does not matter in a relationship. If she marries you because you earn more what happens when you don't bring home those amounts again or you lose your job. The truth is simple marry a woman not a gold digger, women must learn contentment

atheistandproud:
One of the many complaints I hear from women is that men are scarce. Really now? Did a mysterious portal suddenly appear and take a majority of the men alive to an alternate dimension? Well of course not.

One thing many guys failed to understand is that women are well versed in a language called double speak. What they mean is not that men aren't available, it's that the type of men that they want are not available. Now who are these men? Oh that's simple, high earners.

Most women want a man that optimally earns significantly more than they do. The conscientious ones will be more than happy to play a supporting role while the indolent ones will spend his money whilst saving hers. His money is our money after all.

What women however fail to realize is that as they start to earn as much and even out earn men, they soon climb into the category of the men that they once wanted. Now that they're earning the same or even more, it is very likely that they won't want those guys anymore.

A woman earning 30k doesn't want a guy earning the same or less. You could say the same for those earning significant more, even into 6 figures monthly. Why? Hypergamy. In one word.

Now for the average woman in society, there's every chance that they are most likely to meet up with average men. How many average men in this society can boast of solid job, much less earning 6 figures? This is why women say that men are scarce. Now why do women balk at the idea of settling with a lower income man?

Using a relationship as a way of explaining the flow of resources between individuals, the individual that earns more will obviously assume the majority of the financial burden of the relationship. They'll also need to sacrifice more, take charge, be more responsible and etcetera. In the case of a (legal) divorce, they also tend to lose more.

Unlike men, most women see a relationship for what it is. Now with a lot of them being a position where they earn the same or even more than the men around them, this proposition doesn't sound too good. Most women have chosen to hold out an wait for the mythical unicorn that is Mr Right. Because seriously, what does she get out of a relationship with a guy who's below her financially? She spends more, gives more, works more etc.

Usually when I hear this, I smile and I say welcome to being a man. I know a lotta women believe that being a man is very easy but a good number are finding out that's it's not so.

For hundreds of thousands of years, when men were sole breadwinners or at least they earned more, this arrangement of whoever earns more provides more was seen as fair and justified by women.

Now that the tables are flipped somewhat, a lot of women are appalled by the idea. The fact that some women have been taken advantage of by men also doesn't seem to help issues. But I could also counter and say women have been taking advantage of men the same way as well, presumably even more.

Ladies you see that middle class earning man making 70 to 100k and possibly more monthly, a lot of you are now those men. There are guys doing sales that earn below you, private school teachers that earn below you etc. These are the men make up the bulk of society.

With equality comes equal responsibility. As Myron would say, equality is not a buffet where you get to pick and choose. Men and women are equal now, so go out ladies, pick a man, take care of him and the children you give him till he or you dies. Let's see if we can see this equality thing through.

I mean look at it from the point of a man. He works hard, built his empire and then marries you just to take care of you and if care's not taken, your family and friends come along for the ride. Ladies can you do that?

I hang up my pen. Let the lamentations begin.

necz:
I disagree "POLISH PEOPLE ARE NOT FRIENDLY, 2YRS HERE GOING TO 3YRS NO SINGLE POLISH FRIEND BUT I HAVE FRIEND FROM UKRAINE, TURKEY, GERMANY ANYWHERE YOU CAN THINK OF, BUT NONE FROM POLAND "

I understand what you mean BUT saying they are not friendly is inaccurate. Poles are very shy set of people especially when you can't communicate in their language; This is the major reason why many of them shy away from communicating in English to we foreigners. They feel intimidated with English and they don't want to make a fool of themselves even when they know little English; Many of them want to learn but lazy about it, the same way we Nigerians feel lazy to learn Polish. So they need to be comfortable around you before they can really communicate or rapport with you even if they can communicate in English. I know this because I have them as friends (females by the way) zero male Polish friends

Every other thing you've said I AGREE 100%

no polish male friends.

Zagee:

This is all I got. Not sure how to initiate payment.

that's the school account details. Message the school for swift and IBAN number, go yo your bank and initiate the transaction

Zagee:


I'm trying to make registration payments. Any idea how to do that cuz I only got a bunch of numbers and the school name??

if ita school registration fees. You should be able to pay from your bank in Nigeria or using your card

Kswrthy:
I am trying to send you DM. Please respond, Thank you.

responded to your email

RisenJoe:
Pls where in Nigeria can I acquire an employable skill in cyber security

cousera for free

Zagee:


Krakow looks like a possible ground. Found some university of Economics pg study I'll like to pursue, considering trc and multimedia-hustle.

Krakow is 2 hour from wroclaw if you can come I can connect you to some movie gigs as part time hustle

Zagee:

Thanks. It would have been knowledge of polnisch, but Germany was on my mind.

then focus on it you will have lot of opportunities here.

pic 1 : Sazmani food house artwork
pic 2: Hala tagorwa river view
Pic3: polish easter egg

Zagee:

Obviously I can't work the germany route again so I'll have to accept my budget with poland in mind.

Quick question: What schools can I look out for?

(Factors)

I speak basic german(still learning)
A guy has to hustle(I got skills in multimedia+data analyst)

What are your takes to border towns close to Germany??

Time to pack-up..
Your response will be appreciated.

If its the best technology university, go to Wrocław University of Science and Technology (Politechnika Wrocławska) that school na for only serious minded people where sabi book. after them look for only public universities.

well wroclaw is 3hours to germany lot of opportunities, but you have to wait a year to get trc card, maybe your case will be different.

nice you have german knowledge wok on it job dey but try learn polish

I japa

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I will like to use this opportunity to thank my fellow Nigerian Christians for voting massively for the candidate with the Muslim/Muslim ticket. This election has proven that we Christians and our Muslim brothers are one. Peter Obi tried to divide us by running a religious campaign but we Christians stood our ground and rejected him. May God continue to bless we Christians and Muslims for bringing this renewed Hope to our great country

Christian voted a man with dementia to be his president. Your are a disgrace. You for cucu vote blind man

Badadvisor:

How do i reach out to you privately if you don't mind

I responded

Badadvisor:

How do i reach out to you privately if you don't mind

send message on Nairaland I'll respond this evening

Mrshocker:
Igbos will be tamed in Lagos this time. Lagos have given them too much comfort.

New land use law must be reviewed for non-indigenous lagosians (confiscate there properties for state projects)

Thank you OYO,ogun,ondo,ekiti,rivers and all loyal northerners!!!
Oshe oloun to boju wa je.

We won 🥇
Special thanks to Peter obi for doing his assignment excellently even though his foolish followers don’t know why he’s on the ballot.

you just display you foolishness to the whole world

WE missed Abiola, we can't miss Obi. This election is a make or break for Nigeria. we Must get it Right

Angelfrost:


That was what Messi and his Barcelona team mates told UEFA, but their pleas fell on deaf ears...

...The rest with Bayern remains history!

mad oooooo

You said something "now i have peace" your peace is important. If their not speaking to each other will give you peace, brother leave am like that. You are a hustling guy carry alot of load you don't need their problems. You mum is not a bad woman her emotions as all women is working against her, because she is loney and you are the only child. I just pray she does not go beyond to something fetish. Now brother if you have money get her busy rent a shop stock it up let her run it, let her get busy. Half of your problems will be solved

Norah199:
Good morning guys. I need some matured minds and married men and women in the house to look into this matter and give me an ideal way to go about this. Would be a long read pls bear with me.

So late late 2021, I got married to my long time girlfriend. Before the marriage, my mom had a little reservation about the girl and her family for some odd reasons due to her tribe. She’s Igbo. Everything was funny because the first day I introduced my wife to my mom. She liked her and everything was cool. They where going on well until my mom started telling me she’s having some dreams about the girl and her family. She’s white garment member. I think her dislike started growing when she told my wife about her church and she said she can’t go to her church for any reason. I was a former member of the church when I was a teenager but with time as I grew I stopped going to the church not because it’s a bad church or something wrong with it. I just don’t fancy going there and also not a church type of person. My mom believe it was the girl that made me stopped going to the church which was funny. She has said that several times.

For the record, I’m an only child of my mother, my dad is late and she’s yet to marry again. I do everything for her like her rent, monthly upkeep, and also got her a good car. Initially I thought she was doing all these because she felt she hasn’t enjoyed me yet and another woman is coming into the picture which is normal for most parents. So I did everything I could to make her comfortable before my wedding.

We did the wedding and everything went on smoothly aprt from some normal family disputes and all but the wedding was successful. Deep down I know my mom still doesn’t like my girl because of her statement s most times but I don’t always give her that room so she’s always quiet and rather not talk what’s on her mind.
Later on, my mom started complaining of the money I give to her. She seems not to be ok with it. Trust me guys. I do more than enough for my mom. I just tried my best to handle everything well and sometimes allow her have her ways with her demands so she doesn’t see my wife as a stumbling block to her.

To cut the long story short, my wife took in and was due for delivery and her mother came like a month before the delivery. Actually my wife had a false labour that made us rush to the hospital and doctor said she has very high maleria and was in serious labor. I called the mother immediately and she started coming the next morning because she lives in the East. The doctor gave her some injections and drugs for the maleria and the labor stopped. Doctor told us it wasn’t the right time for the baby to come out because it was 8 months.
The next morning when she was strong, we went back home with the mother that was already in town.

The mother decided to stay till the delivery instead of going back and coming again when she delivers which I supported.
Two weeks the doctor gave us turned to 1 month and labor didn’t still come. All these while I never knew my mom was so bitter that my mother inlaw was in my house for that long. She once asked me why the woman didn’t go and come back. It was that bad. To make matters worse, I lost my child after a CS was done on my wife. It appeared the baby was in distress which the doctors failed to notice and came out with birth asphyxia. After about two weeks, she died. I opened a thread on that.

Problem started after I buried my child. Everyone was in sorrow and so much pains especially my wife. A day after the burial my mother called my mother inlaw and asked her why she hasn’t gone yet. Started accusing the woman of killing the child and all manners of things. How she had turned her husband to vegetable and now she wants to teach her daughter how to turn her son into vegetable too. It was really bad. They both insulted each other and quarreled seriously on the phone just a day after the lost of my child. She also called my wife and told her “shebi she doesn’t want children” my wife was quiet and didn’t utter a word.

I was in so much pain and so pissed at my mom for everything she did and didn’t even speak to her for like a month even though I still sent her upkeep money. I reported her to her uncle and a few respected people. I don’t know if they talked to her but nothing was done. No body called for any meeting even her own pastor that I reported to. Instead he told me it’s woman talk. That they both insulted each other and the rest..

After that incident till date. My wife, mother, and mother inlaw haven’t spoken to each other even though I have had more peace since then but the fact still remains my mom and wife are not in good terms. I have long forgiven and moved on with my mom even though that closeness is not there but I don’t fail to send her money for upkeep every month. My wife is cool with it and said she doesn’t want that closeness with my mom even though she has forgiven her too.

My mom and I talks once in a while and never for once has she asked about my wife since that incident and my wife hasn’t called either which I don’t blame her. The last time I visited my mom. She said some ill things about my wife and her family and even told me my wife is not my rightful wife and some other things. I usually don’t listen to her talks because I know how religion has turned so many people into something else.

The question right now guys. What do I do in this situation. The truth is nothing can change my moms mind about my wife and her family. But still as a husband, I still feel somehow knowing my wife and mom are not in good terms. My mother inlaw the last time told me she wants to make peace with my mom that they can’t keep fighting forever especially because of her daughter. But deep down I know the thought my mom have about them. So I just told her it’s not the right time and with time everything will be fine. I can’t force my wife to call my mom because she didn’t do no wrong. At the same time my mom won’t even listen to me for any peace making. There are more things to say but I will end here. Sorry for the long write up.
Your opinions would be deeply appreciated.
Thank you 🙏

Tinubuwins2023e:
I am surprised some stupid idiots are supporting Emefele. See, by the time this people finish with what is left in this country, that hate you people have for Tinubu would have consumed most of you. You think say na child's play.
All those vote Obi this vote Obi that, I can assure you 100% that Obi can NEVER be president in Nigeria. Cry all you want, curse all you want. Obi been president is a dead dream. It can NEVER happen

how can you educated and healthy young person wish to vote for a sick, dementia, old man as your president. Even if your village people curse you and do ritual on your head can't you reject it. Nawa 4 u

ADVISE FOR TODAY

IN POLAND PUBLIC UNIVERSITIES ARE FAR BETTER THAT PRIVATE (EXCEPT BRITISH UNIVERSITIES WITH CAMPUS HERE)
AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE TRY TO GET A PUBLIC SCHOOL.

AVOID WROCLAW TRC TAKES FOREVER TO GET

TRY TO LEARN POLISH BEFORE YOU COME

LEARN AN EU LANGUAGE TO B1 LEVEL
THE TWO POINT ABOVE THIS WILL GIVE YOU MORE OPPORTUNITIES

BIG CITIES LONGER CHANCES OF GETTING TRC WITH LOT OF OPPORTUNITIES, SMALL CITIES BETTER CHANCES OF TRC BUT FEW OPPORTUNITIES

IF YOU WANT TO ACT MOVIES OR BE A MODEL WARSAW AND KRAKOW IS THE REAL DEAL.

POLISH PEOPLE ARE NOT FRIENDLY, 2YRS HERE GOING TO 3YRS NO SINGLE POLISH FRIEND BUT I HAVE FRIEND FROM UKRAINE, TURKEY, GERMANY ANYWHERE YOU CAN THINK OF, BUT NONE FROM POLAND

THE LADIES CAN BE YOUR FRIEND BUT ITS DIFFICULT TO BEFRIEND A POLISH GUY, NA LUCK IF HE ASK YOU OUT (LADIES)

CUSTOMER SERVICE DOES NOT EXIST HERE. FOR YOUR MONEY THEM NO GO SEND YOU

englishmart:
The price of coke in Nigeria is way cheaper than it is in the USA and most developed parts of the world.
Below are the charts that bear the prices relative to countries.

I guess it's cheaper in 3rd world countries.

cost of production and cost of labour is high compare nigeria. we don't import materials for coke as there are available in excessess here. anybody with the right machinery can start their own drink company here in nigeria.