luluosas:
Get married first

when I get married I get cheated on and lied to over and over I should ignore abi. So when them put rat poison for me shey you go follow me die.

No body is worth my happiness, wife, mother or children, life is too short

judeolokor:


bros though I was not the one who find out but the family saw his condition and went diabolical u know and they were told so they called their son but mumuishly because of love for the woman he said they were wit hunting the woman so wen I saw my friend after the parents told me I decided to pay him a visit when the woman was not around I just confirmed everything my friend na strict guy but everything was foolish including his doings I stylish took him to a fast food we prayed togeda and I sweet talked he opened up and that was how we separated them it was after some months the woman friends came pleading to the man's family how he took the man's wife to all dis fetish people am going into detail because of this young man. bro some women are good and nice if u get them u are extremely lucky but if u jam the wan wen wan kill u na sorry be ur name ooooooo

after God fear women. EVE chop fruit see say she dey naked she come carry give Adam na so Adam eye follow open.

luluosas:
So many women there indeed. I am sure you are not married.

yes I'm not

All this talk of men take care of yourself no the reach your side, in this hard time that a man has to hustle like tomorrow no dey, then he will still live with a woman he can not trust and be suffering heartaches. Have you not heard of peace of mind. Even marriage is not compulsory. Make una dey deceive yourself

ADVICE FOR THOSE COMING TO POLAND TO STUDY

Focus on your studies this is what brought you here

1) MAKE SURE YOU APPLY TO A SCHOOL THAT HAS ACCOMMODATION, NOT PRIVATE ACCOMMODATIO OR PARTNER ACCOMMODATION. PRIVATE STUDENT DORM IS VERY EXPENSIVE ONCE YOU GET IN YOU CAN GO OUT TILL THE END OF YOUR CONTRACT. ACCOMMODATION OUTSIDE CAMPUS IS DIFFICULT TO FIND AND IS NOW ON THE HIGH SIDE, WORST IF YOUR AFRICAN YOU WILL GO THROUGH A LOT TO GET A PLACE TO STAY.

2)Start learning polish. You can survive without it, but start learning polish now your head is cool, once you get here you won't have time.

3) learn the following skills, riding a bicycle, scooter asin Okada, learn how to drive, I repeat learn how to drive and get your international drivers license. Driving school is difficult to pass here guys. Learn how to barb hair. All this will give you money before you get a job

4) learn a skill in tech. I know someone will say math but you can learn a skill in tech without being good in math. Tech skill are sorted after here die. I fact if you have a tech skill you can get a job in Poland from Nigeria.

5) If you are here to study and make money and you have no intention of traveling round europe consider big cities like wroclaw, Warsaw etc. You won't get your trc in 8 months but you will find a job to support yourself. If you want to travel outside Poland Europe go to small cities like opole, Lublin etc you will get your card. But work is difficult to get there except factory work where you go see shege. �

6) Drop pride this is for our women, be ready to do low jobs. Like working in Mac Donald, uber, glovo, wolt, bolt etc. Note if you can ride a bike, scooter, car you can make 1k dollars a month doing food delivery or taxi in big cities, during winter you can make 3k - 5k dollar. Food couriers and taxi drivers make more than some white collar jobs and they also have reduce tax rates. If you come here you will see ukraine women hustling. Mac Donald will help you secure a visa after your studies. There are other jobs that pay very well but top of the list is courier and taxi jobs

7) if you want a high paying white collar or office job. Make cousera, udemy, edx you best friend.

for guys Be open minded black guys rank number 1 here. Polish women want you, foreign women also want you. Don't follow a woman that will be billing you also understand that you have to use your head and be careful. A child of 16 looks 30 here. I'm 31 and I see 19 year Olds who look older than me. I wish I change my age on my passport. For women drop all that entitlement mentality. Many Nigerian women here are lonely. If you don't understand search for the video of the lady in UK that was complaining. Nigerian guys don't want to date Nigerian women because of pass experience.

9) Hold God well and don't forget where you came from. Some people came here and boom they lose control. The rest is history

10) remember you are black. Poland is one of the most racist countries in the world. No body will harm you but if you loose guard you are on your own.

11) you can become a footballer here, you can become a model or movie star, you can become anything. It's Europe. Just belive in yourself

SuperWriter:
Ever since I've been checking on this thread, no one have ever post how they were given Visa.
Is it the embassy or people don't want to share their success story with us?

it's typical Nigerian style. Just keep pushing and doing your own research

lhordspy:
Just look at what Nigeria's (one of the greatest country in africa) sit of presidency as been reduced to. This is embarrasement to other contestant like Atiku, shettima and Obi.

Imagine this clown of a person, omoyele sowore, a man who reeks of everything failure,
Contesting for the sit of presidency of Nigeria not even chad or other smaller country in africa. . Same sowore who has virtually failed in everything he engaged in.


Failed revolution protest, except using the means in seeking cheap attention by setting himself up to be arrested by DSS everytime so he can atleast have a day fame he desperately usually crave for.

Failed in journalism, sharareporter news is the worst news media to go to for authentic and valid content.

Failed in his political ambitions, this same failure of a clown that cant win a councilorship election in a LGA.

Yes we all have the right to vote and be voted for, but there should be some kind of exceptions. We shouldnt allow unserious clown belittling or degrading the integrity of our democracy. This is madness !

Just look at the clown sitting comfortable next to Atiku.

Some things just dont add up atall...


To some people saying he was been bold because of you guys hatred for Tinubu. Sentiment aside we should stop encouraging a nonentity act by a nuisance. This man aim was just cheap attention. He went there purposely for the aim and he got that through the embarrassment of Kashim shettima. It could have been anyone, he could have done that to anyone.. Be it your obi or Atiku.

This is sheer nuisance and nothing funny or bold about it. We play politics with everything in this part of the world, it makes us blind to some nonsensical altitude we are suppose to just all join hand and kick against as a country.

political tug, shut it

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good day all. I have posted exactly 2 months ago concerning my fourth child I went ahead with the DNA test unfortunately I am not her father.

Right now a lot of things have been going through my head i am shattered and depressed.

I don't know yet what is going to happen in my marriage I just don't know if the marriage will work or not.

I just wanted to keep you updated about the DNA.

Previous thread:

She cheated she didn't tell you. She got pregnant She didn't still come clean, the child is growing up everyday and she didn't still come clean. Brother hear me well she can kill you, I repeat she can kill you. You are lucky it's not Europe you owe her nothing. Just do dna on your other kids for confirmation, while that is going on dump her, I repeat dump her. They are so many women out there bro dump her and have your peace

Jameszinchenkov:


Watch Graphic Video Below:

https://mobile.twitter.com/Jagga49432750/status/1575447668255514627

tomorrow you will be asking God why your life is upside-down, why your children are suffering but you forget you spilled blood.


My pray is God should help good Nigerian to leave the country so that the bad once can enjoy themselves

07kjb:


HE IS NOT

this is why the rich are getting rich and the poor are poor.

When you see our the rich throwing a big wedding you think their wasting their money. For them it's an opportunity to relax, build new connections, discuss business and create more awareness for them self that will eventually generate more money. Some will even go as far as payng celebrities to attend their wedding. But the poor man with no saving will just squander the little he has, accumulate debt on a wedding that will not add a single benefit to his financial status.

Summary: rich people don't spend where there don't gain.

ZUBY77:


The money departing from me is when i spend half of it to host half of the world in a party that they have no business attending.

Departing from me means when the money leaves my account and go into an account that belongs to someone else without hope of making profit.
Thats the real meaning of departing from me. But i guess you are not a businessman.

you are wise

For the man get a suit you will wear later. For the lady design your wedding dress in a way you can use it later carry go church.

Case closed

obembet:
I read about how Nairalanders Joetttimua1811manage just #500k for his wedding in 2020 which I really appreciate how he manage himself without own anybody.

Believe me, When it comes to celebrating the union of a man and woman, trust Nigerians not to hold back on providing the best food and drinks, renting a spacious hall, and indirectly telling a friend to say to another friend about the event.

While Nigerian weddings are mostly seen as an opportunity to celebrate with the couple and get free food, the truth is that they are financially demanding. It is in the sense that planning a wedding is not cheap.

With the economic setbacks being experienced in the country, we need to secure our financial future. So, in case you are hoping to one day stand at an altar wearing a suit or bridal gown, here is an insight on how to plan a wedding with a budget of 700,000 or even less.

So With a hypothetical guest list of 100 to 150 people including ( mogbo, moya ) kindly drop your breakdown budget of #700k include weeding attire and shoes for bride and groom, stationary and souvenirs, reception venues and decorations, food and drinks and miscellaneous.

Nairalanders, kindly help somebody with good calculations.

Source: obembet

if after spending 700k as a man on a wedding and you don't have a land, or a house or your just about to move into face me I slap you or maybe 1 room flat with the bride or you don't even have a car to use for business when trying times come it means say you no get sense patapata.

If the whole 700k is not your own and you had to borrow with interest to push forth the wedding. my dear man out there hear me well, as you pick forth your marriage certificate, you are also picking up Sapa premium certificate.

Any woman that want you to spend lavishly on their wedding in this economic hard time in Nigeria no like u.

A word is enough for the wise

Teaser4:
I saw that on the news, God will keep you safe brother

amen

You are wise. Even Ukrainian know this truth. We in Europe are already feeling the heat. Imaginethey ask us to manage our heating system for this cold winter.
Last last Ukraine go finished patapata

Teaser4:
Patiently, waiting for their “lord reactor”, dem don Dey change speech for baba….

If God forbid Putin nuke Kiev, heaven will not fall, life goes on….na Zelenski loss be that, nato/USA no go engage in nuclear war, cos there will be no winner. One loser is certain, that’s “Ukraine”.

Donbass will be reunited with Russia, nothing go happen, if dem born Zelenski well make he strike Donbass after the referendum, he go clear 4 his face weda Putin fit use nuke or not….

Let Donbass go, they are pro Russian anyways…. This last move is the last trap, west can bark and sanctions as usual, then move on, or kiss their civilization goodbye including Russia too, that’s if this escalated(Nuclear war)

Nothing new coming from the west, more weapons, sanctions…Russia already draw the line here, strike Donbass after the referendum and God be with em all.

PS: Don’t quote me, I won’t read nor reply…. Go and hang yourself if this posts doesn’t go down well with you.

Osariemen12:





What do you mean, sir?

if you live in Europe you will understand what he said Europe is full and the euro is crashing

PresidObi:
Decency in action

We don't want party thugs or jobless party agents that will take money and compromise their positions.

ObiDatti will raise the bar in government administration, by the end of 4 years, many Nigerians who ran away from Nigeria because of hardship will be rushing back to take positions in the new emerging Nigerian economy which will be fair and present everyone with a level playing ground.

You don't need to know a senator to get a job, or to know an army officer to access foreign currency at government rates.

and after ruling for 8 years another thief will come and take the country backwards

djkirkoo2:
hmmmmm. Wonderful. Me I earn 63k as salary and my rent is 210k annually. Below is how I disburse it:

Kitchen stocking - 25k.

Soup for the month (we cook soup 5 times in a month) - 15k.

Baby mama - 5k.

Light bill - 2k.

Purewater - 4k.

Stew, Beans, Moi moi: 5/6k

Gas - 5k.

Fuel: As the Lord leads but I do put on Gen almost everyday as far as there's no light.
Now if you observed you will see that I don't have any money for myself nor my baby, make sure I run other deals to meet up my rent and cater for my son.

Yet my baby mama go out to tarnish my image outside saying that I am treating her as a house girl, saying that she's like a slave, that she's in an abusive relationship this and that all the young ladies around my vicinity are all keeping malice with me because of her stories, they all believed her story.

Even when I try to talk people don't believe me. I got tired of the quarrels and nagging so I had to throw her things out and asked her to leave my house. Neighbors came in and intervened then asked me to consider my son that he's still a baby. I succumbed and left for work only for me to come back home that evening the 22nd of July and found out that she have left with my son that I love so much and yet all her things are still in my house.

Bring my baby sef all to no avail, oya let me be seeing him at least still no way. I've talked to her mom and siblings and all of them are taking her side saying a man is not supposed to throw a woman's things outside (even my family blamed me for throwing her things outside) oya I don agree sef still dey are hiding my baby that will be a year old on the 29th of this August from me.

Honestly her family wants me to settle with their daughter but to me I am no longer interested before I die of BP, so now they are using my son to blackmail me emotionally to accept their daughter back because they know that I love my son. If really I am suffering her and treating her like a slave like she always claim then I wonder why her family would want her to come back to my house to suffer.

Mind you, I don't even beat o, I only have bad mouth to reply her if she pisses me off. Honestly I am confused and don't know what to do because I really miss my son.

how do you know the child is yours? You do dna. In Nigeria you are not entitled to carry child support bro. Go and focus on yourself and stop simping

Jennyclay:
No, I can't marry someone who earns 100k per month. Why must you enter a marriage to suffer? Can 100k afford you a good house, buy your hair and makeups? Have you even thought of raising children who should be fed, clothed and sent to good schools? Can 100k work these things out? No!

Reject that poor man and his meagre 100k; a better man will locate you. All you have to do is believe and wait for the right man to come.

the 20 somethings people where like this post their senses no dey hed

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

are you earning up to 100k. Nigerian women need to wake up and go and work. The world has gone beyond a man carrying himself, you and the kids. Go out and go and work, this way you will learn money management and learn to value not just money but your husband hard work. Is 100k enough ? yes it is with planing and support from you. If he earns 100k and you earn 100k that 200k a month. How many Nigerian home actually bring home that amount

cheating is a habit. if she didn't stop even while pregant she will never stop. my advice is divorce her and have your peace

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

Slurity:
If I will respond to your write the way I am angry at you, I may end up insulting you which is not polite. I will brief all my advice in a sentence. "You are not a man but a baby in nursery class who don't know what he want". If you are my younger brother, there is no way I will not slap you for brain resetting.

asin the guy just tire me.

Profperfect:
Dear Fam,

Please help me out(advice) on this , I am writing at this odd hour because I have lost my peace and I can't close my eyes and sleep .

My relationship has not been a rossy one at all, I have my faults (though am not a womanizer or a cheat) God bears me witness, but believe me, the girl I'm dating and almost settling down with after some years of dating has been hell, trust issues, disrespectful, someone who told me she can never respect or submit to me in her life, I have endured and endured her, she always overrides me. I can't talk or complian of her wrong doings , she will react badly, very insulting (countlessly insulted my father and mother but I have never ever retailiated, does care about what I feel or how I feel.

Should I talk of sex? I have never cheated on her for the past 6 years plus since we met (started dating) at a young age at uni and after uni, I respect her even in her absence, but she has mingled with different guys that has cost out relationship, in all these she claims she has done nothing wrong.

The main issue of all right now is that her boss, she once worked for who she was consciously sleeping with inside office once others are not around, always, hotel, even when they (claim) or go to conference or meetings together, knowing that he is a married man, called her yesterday to give her a job offer to return . This is a boss she served years back, even during uni he kept calling and always wanting to have her, during and after NYSC he kept calling her for him to have a bite, same boss she was pregnant for and aborted for him, though she hanged it on her boyfriend as of that time and the guy didn't know . She never told me all these her self, but I won't like to share here how I got to know.

The same man she has been avoiding for years, that she doesn't want to go back to sin or her past life, but just yesterday she even took excuse sneaked out of office and went to see him and accepted the offer, then came back home called me to tell me this and that and before I could talk she said she has accepted it, was shocked and trying to reason why she did that, she asked me if there was anything wrong in her decision, she began to yell at me on phone, as usual I kept mute and ended the call. Please would I be wrong if at this point I take a bow and leave now?

Please help me push it to the front page. She is a Nairalander too, she sees nothing wrong in the wrong things she does. Let the world hear my story and correct me if am wrong on taking the decision.

First thing brother your a simp. All this things and your still asking questions. No remain shey you heard about the side chick that stabbed oga. No get sense

Stanlynonso1000:
Good evening everyone, kindly guide me if am doing the right thing or not, i applied for reissue of my passport, as my old booklet has expired. I used thier website www.passport.immigration.gov.ng after following the full procedure i was required to pay 25,000 +1000 service charge for 35 booklet passport i made the payment online and till now its yet to reflect on my form.
I have email them 2wice since last week but still no reply. Please anyone that has done this before or has a solution to this problem should help me thanks.

you think say you wise abi? People dey pay 50k and above to get am you one follow bypass. Oyo

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.

So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.

So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.

But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.

There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.

So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.

Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

*She treats me well and has never disrespected me.*

*She is waiting for you to marry her then she go show you pepper.
*A woman that share herself and chat with other guys while in a serious relationship has absolutely no respect for you.





It's not by force to settle down bro.

BadNews:


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you not okay

Wazzaowner:
A valid and recent bank statement should show that you have enough money to pay for your tuition, travel and living expenses. 



I saw this on the poland visa website, what If I borrow 5million naira from a friend fund my account with it, and provide a bank statement showing the cash, hope I won't have any problem with my VIsa application?

the reason why you should not use a bank Statement is because they will like to see the inflow and outflow of cash for a period of six months. it's not even about the balance. so if you don't have big money flowing in and out of your account you will get rejected. credit card is more like a fix cash in a block account meant for a purpose.

donvoice:
The president of the first gospel drama ministry in Africa, Mike Bamiloye has also taken the turn after Pastor David Ibiyiome and Apostle Paul Eneche to shot back at Daddy Freeze in a very uncommon way by using Bible verse to buttress his point.

The controversial part is that, his scriptural backing cannot be pointed either as to other Minister's of the gospel of Daddy Freeze.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10157266070556831&id=701031830

while there is a time to speak, as Christians we should be mindful of our choice of word.
that is where the big difference should be.


calling a man whose parent are still alive a bastard and threatening to kill him is unbecoming of a Christian.

inuyasha:


https://applications.wes.org/igpa-calculator/igpa.asp

go here

OK thanks dear

xule20:
This is how credit card certificate looks like

thanks for sharing this.

Shogun200:
more people that you know right.

Yes

MUDIANIEL:
has any one been able to book appointment via phone call?

lot of people got an appointment on phone

please anybody going to vistula University for a BSc. please how did you get pass this.


on the education tab, I filled In my school details. but I can't submit my application still I input my GPA. there nothing like that on my WAEC result or transcript.

Please how did you get through this