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Things To Consider Before Going Into A Marriage by heryyy(m): 12:02am On Sep 17, 2012
The rate at which marriages/relationships collapse now is almost assuming an acceptable celebrity status in our society.
In few years time, people will be throwing divorce parties, invites will be sent out calling friends to celebrate their divorce anniversaries. Wear expensive cloths, hire a hall, invite musician....even a question like "..so when are you getting divorced?" will be commonplace.

If you know you can't handle the weight and pressure of marriage, please remain single.

If you don't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until you do.

If you are getting married because of the things you desire or hope to gain from the other person, or to satisfy your fantasies, please remain single.

Don't get married out of desperation because you think you are getting too old.

Don't just get married because of the pressure being mounted on you by your families. They are not the one getting married-you are!

You desire a successful home but your choice of friends are those whose marriages have collapsed. It is so simple- they'll make you drink from their poisoned chalice. Once that happens, your marriage is on a process of dying a slow death.
Be very mindful of where you go seeking for advices.

Guys, if you know you can't stay responsible please remain single until you mature. There's no way you can abandon the care of your family at the expense of your lifestyle. They are your priority and everythingelse including you comes last.
You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the spiritual leader, the role model- you are not a deity. Don't expect to be worshipped. You need respect, earn it by being responsible.

Ladies, if you know you can't be submissive please don't go into marriage ki won ma fi lilu ba ti e je.
If you know you can't stand being corrected, please marry yourself. Don't throw away your spinsterhood garment if you see respect as a big deal.
Please check your domestic scorecard - if your score is zero, please stay at your parent's home!

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Re: Things To Consider Before Going Into A Marriage by Nobody: 12:07am On Sep 17, 2012
I think that foreign language needs a translation.
Re: Things To Consider Before Going Into A Marriage by k2039: 6:14am On Sep 17, 2012
heryyy:
If you don't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until you do.

OP for that point alone,I can assure you that most married couples ought to be single.Most married couples dont even know why they are married.
They only married for the fun of it.

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