dear nairalanders,what advice/counsel do you have to give to someone who had interest in working in the bank for like 5 years and then exit for lecturing job perhaps after making some savings and some laudable achievements both selfwise and familywise but happened to find himself in the bank as a contract staff for over 4years and so could not have d dreams met.
your advice will be highly appreciated.

Stop asking for permission to live your life.

obowunmi: Stop asking for permission to live your life.

i just had to laugh.

All these nairaland questions don tire me sef.

obowunmi: All these nairaland questions don tire me sef.

It's not really people's fault. The society is upside down in Naija. People have been beaten into mental submission by the environment.

@OP,
So what do you plan to do now?
I'm guessing since you were a contract staff, you never had enough time and money to study further, or do your familywise, etc, achievements.

obowunmi: Stop asking for permission to live your life.

try and give good advice..dat's 1 reason i dt lik raising issues on NL sumtyms...its a serious issue...jobs,hopes n dreams of many pple re shattered daily..

cedaraustine:
try and give good advice..dat's 1 reason i dt lik raising issues on NL sumtyms...its a serious issue...jobs,hopes n dreams of many pple re shattered daily..

Don't shoot the messenger.
Sometimes, what people need is a kick in the backside. But I have noticed, especially here in the Career section, people want a boob to suckle on instead.

I think some people on this forum are so depraved in mind that they need a paradigm shift of mindset. a point was raised for advice and instead of making your inputs relative to what was raised,certain unscrupulous individuals are making silly comments.
YOU BETTER WRITE EDIFYING WORDS OR YOU FOREVER KEEP SILENT...

Gloriousson: I think some people on this forum are so depraved in mind that they need a paradigm shift of mindset. a point was raised for advice and instead of making your inputs relative to what was raised,certain unscrupulous individuals are making silly comments.
YOU BETTER WRITE EDIFYING WORDS OR YOU FOREVER KEEP SILENT...

try and calm down plz...i get ur pt buh u can mk it known witout using such words...many pple in d past hv opened thread lik these jst for personal pleasure(because its open 2 al) so i also respect his perspective..pple would respond as tym goes i guess..

this issue of being a casual worker is pervasive.i rily dt advise pple 2 go in2 it but of course wen der is no better alternative, wat do u do? stil work on ur dreams, u could change ur approach buh dt lose d fire..al d best

thank you @cedaraustine.God will bless you.it's pple like you that we need on this forum.
keep keeping on,dear...

Gloriousson: I think some people on this forum are so depraved in mind that they need a paradigm shift of mindset. a point was raised for advice and instead of making your inputs relative to what was raised,certain unscrupulous individuals are making silly comments.
YOU BETTER WRITE EDIFYING WORDS OR YOU FOREVER KEEP SILENT...

This question appears more like trying to carry out sensitivity analysis/a case study/ a futuristic question/ 'testing testing' question. Looks more like the OP tryna get us to solve a 'crackle' when the scenario ain't real.

Gloriousson: dear nairalanders,what advice/counsel do you have to give to someone who had interest in working in the bank for like 5 years and then exit for lecturing job perhaps after making some savings and some laudable achievements both selfwise and familywise but happened to find himself in the bank as a contract staff for over 4years and so could not have d dreams met.
your advice will be highly appreciated.

@ OP, ok - let me try to assist you.

1. How much have you saved?

2. What are your achievements?

3. Why would a University hire you? What subject will you teach?

4. What exactly is stopping you from achieving your dreams? Is it because they are not realistic?

Let's start with those questions.