5much: when kids get married,divorce is imminent but when adults get married,TOLERANCE is d watchword.

5much: when kids get married,divorce is imminent but when adults get married,TOLERANCE is d watchword.

safarigirl: Communication is the core cause of divorce, the others are fruits of lack of communication

When a couple does not communicate, family can break things up, if you don't tell your wife that you're going through some difficulties, financially, she'll never know, people are not psychic, a lot of couples fail to realize that if you don't share your problems with your other half he/she will feel left out, the aim of a marriage is to have someone to share both your joy and sorrow with, most people, especially men, think they can handle it.....addiction, finance, family and friends....if we don't talk, we're no different from room mates, friends with benefits is all, not a married couple.

born2fuck: I do not see reason why all these work, the truth is we learn divorced from the white, now we are in photocopy of what oyinbo do era,even married woman now on tattoo of boobs, financial problem occured in old days and yet they live till death pull them apart. Computer world change the story, even little fight, the next is court! Divorces,Terrorist,Suicide Bombers,economic meltdown and Hi/Aids all start with from abroad and they rule africa while Nigeria end up becoming headquarters to keep bad things

mr jangola: Marriage na for beta 4 worse. Shikena

m.k.o2005:
If you court ur partner very very well, probably make the courtship 10-18yrs,i dnt think anything will make you guys divorce !

free2ryhme: I thought it would be interesting to share the top ten reasons for divorce according to www.divorce.com and to share some thoughts on the same. See how many of these you can relate to:



1. Financial problems. Too much, not enough, or disagreements about what to spend money on. This isn’t a big shocker yet it does continue to surprise me that there’s so much information out there on divorce but very little on premarital counseling or premarital agreements. By the time you come in to see me it is usually too late.



2. Communication problems. “He doesn’t talk” is usually the most common complaint but I often wonder if men and women really do speak different languages and that’s why we can’t understand each other, let alone communicate what we’re thinking to one another.



3. Family problems. His/her parents, his/her stepchildren, siblings, and the like. You name it and it’s there. It seems like the most common reason for a second marriage to end in divorce is stepchildren. Having an extended family member living with you is a close second.



4. Sex problems. Too much, not enough, sex with the wrong person, sex with the same sex, or sex with the family dog all have popped in divorce cases over the years. Watch out. Not enough sex is particularly a big deal for men so pay attention.



5. Friend problems. I don’t hear this one a lot but generally those coming in to finally get divorced don’t have the same friends anymore, so I suppose this could have precipitated the divorce in the first place.



6. Addiction problems. Alcohol, drugs, porn, food. I have seen it all and it does seem to take down many marriages like a one two punch in a heavy weight boxing match.



7. Abuse problems. Verbal, physical, emotional, sexual. Very common problem that isn’t talked about nearly enough for how frequently it comes up.



8. Personality problems. I think this is code for mental illness because depression, anxiety disorder, bi-polar, narcissistic and various other personality disorders on the DSM-IV pop up on a fairly frequent basis in my divorce cases. Little did I know how useful that psychology degree would be.



9. Expectation problems. She married him because she wanted to change him. He married her because he never wanted her to change. She did change. He didn’t. Now they are both unhappy.



10. Time problems. She never spends any time with me because she’s too busy with the kids. He works all the time. Or the opposite thing is said…why doesn’t he get a life and quit sitting on the couch all the time. I need some time to myself.










http://www.columbiamofamilylawblog.com/top-10-reasons-for-getting-divorced/

omar22: You list 10 excuses to get divorce and not reasons

1. Financial problems - Typical Naija



2. Communication problems. Councelling can repair that



3. Family problems - your not marrying his or her family



4. Sex problems - It wasnt a problem before he or she got married



5. Friend problems. same as #3 your not marrying the friends


6. Addiction problems.- medical help



7. Abuse problems. medical help



8. Personality problems. they are not perfect, you did open your eyes before you said I do!!!


9. Expectation problems. needs a reality check



10. Time problems. seek councelling

free2ryhme:

4. Sex problems. Too much, not enough, sex with the wrong person, sex with the same sex, or sex with the family dog all have popped in divorce cases over the years. Watch out. Not enough sex is particularly a big deal for men so pay attention.

WTF?
This is a perfect reason to castrate and ALUU a partner

5much: when kids get married,divorce is imminent but when adults get married,TOLERANCE is d watchword.