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Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Nobody: 4:39pm On Oct 21, 2012
A*D*V*I*S*E!
I told him Not to Release inside Me.
ADULTS Only:

I am Pregnant for my young sister's husband. I travelled to Lagos to buy clothes for my shop about two months ago and had to spend a few days in my sister’s place.
I called her but her number wasn’t going so when I got to Lagos I contacted her husband who told me that she went to Ogun State on official assignment.
He agreed that I should come over and do my transaction from their house.It was raining when I got there so I got socked, especially while trying to get their keys from a neighbour.
They live in a one-bedroom apartment, so I had to go inside the room to change. I was really cold and was already wishing I had a man I could visit in Lagos when the unexpected happened.

Due to the rain my sister’s husband came in through a back door from the kitchen straight into the bedroom and I was completely nude; I couldn’t even bend down to pick my clothes.
I was just standing there motionless until he grabbed me and, yes, we did it.
We didn’t feel any guilt, just laughed about it and I prepared food. We both ate, slept together and had sex all night with each other. The sequence continued for the three days I spent in Lagos but after the first time we agreed he shouldn't release his sperm inside me.

Am now back to Enugu where I do my business, but unfortunately I am six weeks pregnant. No man friend, no boyfriend, no sex mate…. So who will I give this pregnancy to?
My sister’s marriage is less than a year and I just cant mention this to her husband.

The options I have thought of is either to kill myself or have an abortion. Is there any other way out of this mess I have gotten myself into?

Please!! advice me

Oluwabunmi Olawale
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by ITbomb(m): 4:52pm On Oct 21, 2012
What did u say ur name was again?

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Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Nobody: 5:01pm On Oct 21, 2012
ITbomb: What did u say ur name was again?
Is it d name dat matters or d advice neededangry
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by nedu2000(m): 5:07pm On Oct 21, 2012
Have the child & make your "in-law" pay for the upkeep.......if your a pretty and generally decent girl you'll still get a guy that will love you and accept you and the child eventually,take care & try not to make that kind of mistake again
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Nobody: 5:13pm On Oct 21, 2012
nedu2000: Have the child & make your "in-law" pay for the upkeep.......if your a pretty and generally decent girl you'll still get a guy that will love you and accept you and the child eventually,take care & try not to make that kind of mistake again
Noted! thanks
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Ramcie(f): 5:19pm On Oct 21, 2012
Commit suicide. Shikenan undecided
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by proudlyafrican(m): 5:19pm On Oct 21, 2012
Good story.....just go back to the house tell him he won the match and in 9 months the trophy will be handed over to him.
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by CrazyMan(m): 5:20pm On Oct 21, 2012
You should have thought of the consequences before offering yourself to the man.

There's nothing you can do...it has happened. You just have to look forward.

Right now, you've got two options...its either you abort the pregnancy or you live with it and train the child.
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Nobody: 5:36pm On Oct 21, 2012
My advice to you is to have an abortion if it is medically safe. Nobody wants this pregnancy. Not you, not the father of the baby, not your family, no one, absolutely no one in this world wants this pregnancy so please get rid of it; if medically safe. I will advice you to inform your new lover but please do not get your sister involved as you will be destroying too many families. I hope you will now learn not to be a cheap slut!

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Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Nobody: 5:37pm On Oct 21, 2012
Ramcie: Commit suicide. Shikenan undecided
shocked babe u harsh ooo...it's not an easy thing 2 do nau
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by maclatunji: 5:40pm On Oct 21, 2012
OP, are you telling us you are so useless? So all it takes for a man to have you is to see you naked? True or not, your story is sick!

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Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Nobody: 5:41pm On Oct 21, 2012
Nashville: My advice to you is to have an abortion if it is medically safe. Nobody wants this pregnancy. Not you, not the father of the baby, not your family, no one, absolutely no one in this world wants this pregnancy so please get rid of it; if medically safe. I will advice you to inform your new lover but please do not get your sister involved as you will be destroying too many families. I hope you will now learn not to be a cheap slut!
Hmmmmm lipsrsealed ok but dat word slut wasn't needed
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by maclatunji: 5:47pm On Oct 21, 2012
Khaffi: shocked babe u harsh ooo...it's not an easy thing 2 do nau

But it was easy to sleep with your younger sister's husband? Help me out here. What were you thinking at the time you agreed? Ok, let's say the man got aroused and dashed for you, you couldn't dash out whilst grabbing a wrapper?

Then again, who would be stupid enough to put their name in public domain if they were in this mess with this story? I mean you might as well give your sister a call to tell her because the world knows already.

Another fable abi...
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by EfemenaXY: 5:47pm On Oct 21, 2012
T'is been a long, loong, loooooooooooooooooooong while since I read a copy of Hints magazine.

How much does it sell for these days sef Anyway sha, nice story @poster.

Now, go book yourself for some anti-natel classes, get some folic acid supplements and start preparing a nursery for the little one.

Congratulations mummy cheesy

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Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by ITbomb(m): 5:49pm On Oct 21, 2012
Keep the lovechild, u will love him especially when u remember the moments
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by maclatunji: 5:49pm On Oct 21, 2012
nedu2000: Have the child & make your "in-law" pay for the upkeep.......if your a pretty and generally decent girl you'll still get a guy that will love you and accept you and the child eventually,take care & try not to make that kind of mistake again

A woman that sleeps with her sister's husband can be "generally decent"? #Incredulous!
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by ifyalways(f): 5:54pm On Oct 21, 2012
OP, was it love or for the "dough" as you nicely said on this thread?

https://www.nairaland.com/1056207/key-factors-short-lived-relationships/2#12318190
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by nedu2000(m): 6:00pm On Oct 21, 2012
maclatunji:

A woman that sleeps with her sister's husband can be "generally decent"? #Incredulous!
hahahaha,assuming this was just a one-off
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by maclatunji: 6:05pm On Oct 21, 2012
nedu2000: hahahaha,assuming this was just a one-off

Here's the thing- the situation described induces temptation. However, to say seeing a woman naked equals she or the man losing complete control is not something I will buy at all.
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by uboma(m): 7:01pm On Oct 21, 2012
@ op, u are really sick and need deliverance. U mean u had s e x with ur inlaw (younger sister's hubby? na she prevent u frm marrying?) for the 3 days u spent at Lagos with no sting of ur conscience pricking u? Whatever a man/woman sows, he/she will reap same. Now that u r pregnant, congratulatns! Hope u didnt also pass on any infection to him so he doesn't infect his wife, ur 'beloved younger sister'? Be prepared to also hv ur husband (when u eventually get married) do same to ur sibling, relative or close friend, coz the truth is, the Golden Rule is stil very much applicable in our time.

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Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by OYINBOGOJU(m): 7:28pm On Oct 21, 2012
Evil Empire
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by agohavivi(f): 10:28pm On Oct 21, 2012
Why your sisters husband of all people? Left to me don't abort the innocent child.
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Josphine4good(f): 10:35pm On Oct 21, 2012
Khaffi: A*D*V*I*S*E!
I told him Not to Release inside Me.
ADULTS Only:

I am Pregnant for my young sister's husband. I travelled to Lagos to buy clothes for my shop about two months ago and had to spend a few days in my sister’s place.
I called her but her number wasn’t going so when I got to Lagos I contacted her husband who told me that she went to Ogun State on official assignment.
He agreed that I should come over and do my transaction from their house.It was raining when I got there so I got socked, especially while trying to get their keys from a neighbour.
They live in a one-bedroom apartment, so I had to go inside the room to change. I was really cold and was already wishing I had a man I could visit in Lagos when the unexpected happened.

Due to the rain my sister’s husband came in through a back door from the kitchen straight into the bedroom and I was completely nude; I couldn’t even bend down to pick my clothes.
I was just standing there motionless until he grabbed me and, yes, we did it.
We didn’t feel any guilt, just laughed about it and I prepared food. We both ate, slept together and had sex all night with each other. The sequence continued for the three days I spent in Lagos but after the first time we agreed he shouldn't release his sperm inside me.

Am now back to Enugu where I do my business, but unfortunately I am six weeks pregnant. No man friend, no boyfriend, no sex mate…. So who will I give this pregnancy to?
My sister’s marriage is less than a year and I just cant mention this to her husband.

The options I have thought of is either to kill myself or have an abortion. Is there any other way out of this mess I have gotten myself into?

Please!! advice me

Oluwabunmi Olawale
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Josphine4good(f): 10:45pm On Oct 21, 2012
Please don't try to abort the pregnancy because God know the reason why things happened the way it is, my advice to u is to give birth to the baby and work very hard to the care of your self and the baby. God will see u through as u to so
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Nobody: 11:35pm On Oct 21, 2012
Fake stories are so easy to spot. I wont even make an effort to answer. Poster, get a life, this section is for people with real and serious family issues. It is not for fun and entertainment,. go the the romance section and post your tales.

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Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by dayokanu(m): 2:06am On Oct 22, 2012
debrief08: Fake stories are so easy to spot. I wont even make an effort to answer. Poster, get a life, this section is for people with real and serious family issues. It is not for fun and entertainment,. go the the romance section and post your tales.

She didnt even make an effort in the story. Its so fake. WHat next? You discovered the baby later grew up to be the traditional ruler of Aluu?

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Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Lolaabokoku(f): 9:10pm On Oct 22, 2012
asa palapala ilu apala... This is super story...
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Ivynwa(f): 12:09am On Oct 23, 2012
Mtscheeew
Fake story with his/her "Is it d name dat matters or d advice needed" retort while mischieviously waiting on people he/she managed to deceive to bring on their posts for his/her amusement. Who writes fr*aking that and stamps her name on it?

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Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by tubolancer(m): 6:34pm On Oct 25, 2012
Kill yourself
Re: Am Pregnant For My In-law....don't Know What To Do....please Advice by Nobody: 8:57pm On Oct 25, 2012
Liar liar. there's only one advice for you KILL YOURSELF AND DO IT FAST.

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