Can someone please answer this question please?
There is a guy married with a son but in the act of his extra marital affair he got another son from another woman , please is it advisable for the man to tell his wife at home that such happened ?. If yes how will the message be passed on to the wife OR the man should not even tell the wife at all ?
somebody please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why not?


hE'S DONE IT , THEN HE NEED TO EXPLAIN IT TO HIS WIFE, it wouldn't be alrite if the wife hears it from an outsider. so he should tell her.

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whoknoxluv you sound like you're in a bad situation. well you did the thing so you've got to be a man and live up to the consequences. Like they say if you can't do the time don't do the crime. Be a man, let her know. or else you'd be living a lie the rest of your life and when she finds out it will be worse. Look at it this way , whats the worst that could happen? let her know, cuz shes gonna find out anyway.

various ways to relate the message

1 . take her to dinner and in the midst of the dinner start crying, she'll be softened while trying to console you, then you say honey i've done something wrong i want you to forgive me, then she will be angry but it will be easier.

2. do it the nigerian way call your uncle or her uncle to relay the message

3. call your pastor and confess and ask your pastor to relay the message but he must start with a forgiveness message

try any of these methods. she'll be vexed but you would have softened the landing

Well thanks for ur contribution i will tell the guy to try this and feed u back what happens

Yes.

I would be more upset if my husband had a son & I did not find out until the boy was grown. If I stay w/ my husband, then I should be a proper stepmother to the child. I do no like children being here & there that is not the way to promote or embrace family.

A man who does not tell his wife, does not trust or respect her at all. Peace.

he can,if the woman agree

da fxckin man needs to sit his wife down n explain fxckin matters!!
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why ds he wnt help now?? he didnt ask anyone for help whn he ws fxckin another woman did he