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What Men Wear by deols(f): 3:26pm On Nov 06, 2012
There is so much emphasis on the way women dress. It makes it appear as if Islam is silent on how men should dress and many people are ignorant of the rules to it. No wonder you see Muslim men dressed in tight jeans these days. I found the article below and should be an opener to bigger talks on what a man should/shouldn't dress like according to Islam.



Here are some notes on the subject that were prepared from a book by Shaikh Mashoor Hasan Salmaan.

1. Praying in tight clothes so that they press over the private parts ('awrah)


Praying in tight fitting clothes is deemed Makrooh according to the Sharee'ah. It also harms the body and hence it is not good from the point of view of health as well. Perhaps the one praying in such clothes actually leaves parts of his prayer out.

It is known that many people who dress in such a way do not attain their prayer at all while others attain only a little, like the prayer of a hypocrite.

Those who pray, many amongst them nowadays dress in clothes that are excessively tight around one or both of their private parts (their thighs and backside)

Ibn Hajr says, that a group of the Hanafee scholars considered such practice as makrooh. [See Fathul-Baari 1/476]

If this is the case for normal trousers then what is the case when they are very tight?

'Allaamah al-Albaanee explained that trousers have two problems:

a) This is a dress that resembles the disbelievers. Muslims used to dress in wide bottoms (saaraweel) which were loose fitting and baggy like some still do so in Syria and Lebanon. The Muslims adopted this practice of wearing trousers/pants when they were colonized. When the colonizers departed, they left behind this evil influence and changed the Muslims due to the their ignorance.

b) This type of dress constricts and presses upon the 'awrah. The 'awrah of a man is from his navel up to his knee. The worshipper should be as far away as he can from disobedience of Allah during his prayer. He is prostrating (in obedience and submission) to Him. How can he be praying and standing before His Lord, when his buttocks are showing and what is between is visibly magnified?

It is surprising to find many young Muslims taking exception to ladies wearing tight clothes since they cling to their bodies, yet these young men are forgetting about themselves. There is no difference between a lady wearing tight clothes, which press against her body and a man wearing trousers, which also cling to his body. The buttock of both a man and a woman are part of the 'awrah and both of them are the same. So it is compulsory for the youth to be warned about this predicament about which, many of them are blind, except for he whom Allah has guided, which by the example set, seems to be a few. [Taken from one his tapes]

The Messenger (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) forbade a man from praying in his trousers (saaraweel) unless he had a wrapper (rida) on him. [Abu Dawud, al-Haakim and the hadeeth is Hasan]

For more details please consult the following:

"Saheeh-ul-Jaami'-us-Sagheer" of 'Allaamah al-Albaanee "Sharh ma'aani-ul-aathaar" of Imaam at-Tahaawee Shaikh Hamood at-Tuwayjiree's discussion about it in his book which talks about how resemblance of the mushrikoon has befallen upon many in "Al- Iidaah wa-tibyaan.."

As long as the trousers are wide and not tight the prayer is valid, but it is better to have a shirt or a top, one that covers between the navel and the knee, or lower still onto the middle of his shins, or down to just above his ankles, because that is the complete covering.

'Allaamah Ibn Baz has a fatwah where he says that it is permissible to pray in trousers so long as the 'awrah is not pressed against due to its expansiveness and his backside is not shamelessly visible. If his backside becomes visible then the prayer is invalidated and if only the clothes press against his 'awrah then it is makrooh.

2. Praying in thin and transparent clothing

Just like it is makrooh to pray in tight fitting clothes which cling to the 'awrah, it is not permissible to pray in thin clothes which are transparent enough to make the (actual) body visible. [Fataawaa Rasheed Ridaa 5/2056]

Praying in sleeping suit or pyjamas:

Abu Hurairah (radhiAllahu 'anhu) reports that a man stood up to the Prophet (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) and asked him about praying in a single garment. So he (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said, "Unless you find two garments." Then he asked 'Umar (radhiAllahu 'anhu) who said, "When Allah is generous, be generous yourselves. A man prayed in a lower garment (izaar) and an upper garment (ridaa), a waist wrapper (izaar) and a shirt (qamees), in a lower wrap (izaar) and an outer garment with full length sleeves (qaba`), in trousers (saraaweel) and an upper wrap (ridaa), in trousers and a shirt (qamees), in trousers and upper garment (qaba`), in tubbaan and qaba`, and in tubbaan and qamees. [Bukhaaree, Maalik in al-Muatta, Muslim, Abu Dawud, Nan-Nisai, Ibn Maajah, al-Humaidee, Ahmad in al-Musnad, at-Tayaalisee, at-Tahaawee, al-Baghawee, Abu Nu'aim, al- Khateeb]

'Abdullaah ibn 'Umar (radhiAllahu 'anhu) saw Naafi' praying by himself in a single garment (thawb). So he said to him, "Can you not wear two garments?" He said, "Of course". He said, "Do you go out to the market in a single garment?" He said, "No". He said, "Allah has more right that He is dressed up for!" [at-Tahaawee in "Sharh ma'anee-ul-aathaar", "Tafseer-ul-qurtubee" and "al-mughnee"]

Such is the case for one who prays in his night garments. He would feel shy to go to market in it on account of its thinness and transparency.

Ibn 'Abdul-Barr said in "at-tamheed" : "The people of knowledge love for one to be enveloped in his garments; that he beautifies himself for his prayer as much as he is able with regards to his clothes, applies perfume and cleanses his teeth (miswaak)."

On the topic of conditions for the correctness of the prayer, the jurists (fuqahaa) talk about the condition of covering the 'awrah: They make the condition for the covering to be thick and say it is not permissible to make it fine so that the skin tone is visible. ["al-majmoo'", "al- mughnee", etc]

This is a requirement whether for a man or a woman, whether praying alone or in congregation. So whoever's clothes reveal his 'awrah in spite of his ability to keep it covered, then his prayer is invalidated.

"Yaa banee aadama khudhoo zeenatakum 'inda kulli masjidin..."

"O Children of Adam! Take your adornment (by wearing your clean clothes), while praying..."
[Qur'an -A'raf Aayah 31]

According to "Ad-deenul-khaalis" 2/101 and "at-Tamheed" 6/379 the aim of zeenah (adornment) is the thawb and the command means to conceal the 'awrah for every prayer.

Praying in a light tunic:

Some people pray in garments that only lightly cover their bodies and its transparency allows one to see the person's skin colour, while not wearing anything underneath. (It is not enough to wear shorts or trunks underneath unless it covers the extent between the belly-button and the knee.) The statement of Umar previously shows usage of more than one garment to screen oneself and how one garment is added to another. The evidence shows that it is compulsory (waajib) to be properly covered and praying in only one garment is allowed only because of the person's circumstances (poverty). The prayer of someone in two garments is better than doing so in one. This has been clearly elaborated by Qaadhi 'Iyaadh who has dispelled the differences regarding this matter. [See Fathul-Baari, al-majmoo' 1/476 and Nayl-ul-awtaar 2/78, 84]

Imaam Shaafi'ee said if a person prays in his shirt and it reveals him, then his prayer is invalidated. [See al-Umm 1/78]


Ibn 'Abdul-Barr says such women will dress in light material which will cover them yet not screen them, so they will be dressed in name but naked in reality. ["Tanweer-ul-hawaalik" 3/103]

A report from Hisham ibn 'Urwah shows once Mundhir ibn Zubair sent a beautiful garment from Kohistan to Asma bint Abi bakr who having felt the material and disapprovingly asked for it to be sent back to the sender. When asked as to why since it did not show the body, she replied it was transparent. [Ibn Sa'd in "at-tabaqaat-ul-kubra" 8/184: saheeh]

As-Safaareenee said it is forbidden to wear clothing that is light and fine so that the 'awrah is not covered whether for a male or a female. This is a matter of the Sharee'ah without any difference. ["ad-deen-ul-khaalis" 6/180]

3. Praying in long and overflowing lower garment (practicing isbaal or being a musbil)
- this means having your trousers touch the ground you walk on.

Abu Hurairah (radhiAllahu 'anhu) said: "While a man was praying with his lower garment hanging down the Messenger (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said to him, "Go and do wudhu." So he went, performed ablution and came back. He (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said, "Go and do wudhu." So a man said to him, "O Messenger of Allah! Why do you ask him to do wudhu?" So he remained silent about him. Then he said, "He was praying while his lower garment was hanging down (i.e., he was a musbil)." [Abu Dawud, Musnad Ahmad, An-Nisai in Sunan al-Kubra, an-Nawawi]

'Abdullaah ibn 'Umar (radhiAllahu 'anhumaa) reported that the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said, "Allah does not look at the prayer of a person who lets his lower garment flow out of pride" [Ibn Khuzaimah]

Ibn Mas'ood (radhiAllahu 'anhu) said he heard the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) say, "Whoever lets his lower garment hang down (over or below the ankles) from vanity then there is neither ease from Allah nor anything blessed." [Abu Dawud and in 'Allaamah Albaani's Saheeh Jaami'-us-Sagheer]

This means there is no forgiveness for him or honor for him with Allah. He does not preserve himself from the evils of his actions. It is also said that this means he does not (really) believe with regards to what Allah has made permissible and forbidden. Also, some say it means he has freed himself from Allah and become separated from His Deen. For further details and discussion on the understanding presented, please consult "Faidh-ul-Qadeer" and "Al-Majmu'".

The Shafi's and Hanbalis reckon the tradition is a proof that it is forbidden to let the lower garment drop below (the top of the ankles) in prayer when done out of pride, and according to the Shafi's it is objectionable when no vanity is intended. [See "Al-Majjmu'" and "Nail-ul-Awtaar"]

For a detailed discussion on this please consult "Majmoo' al-Fataawa" of Ibn Taimiyyah, "Fathul-Baari", and "'Awn-al-Ma'bood" where you will find the explanation that it is indeed forbidden to practice isbaal whether with pride or without it.

Shaikh Ahmed Shaakir pursued this matter in his verification of authenticity of prophetic reports (hadeeths) in Ibn Hazm's "al-Muhalla" and showed how the author had left out the first hadeeth which is a strong proof that the prayer of a musbil is invalid.

Ibn al-Qayyim elaborated about the first hadeeth and said letting the lower garment flow is sinful. The man was ordered to perform ablution and pray because ablution puts out the heat of sinfulness.

At-Teebi explained the man was asked to do ablution although he was clean so that he would consider the reason why he was ordered so. Allah blessed the request of the Prophet in that such outward cleanliness will cleanse the stain of arrogance inside, because exterior cleanliness affects the inward cleanliness.

Ibn Taimiyyah in his "Majmoo' al-Fataawa" emphasised that it is the same whether one practices isbaal of his trousers, or lower wrap or shirt (qamees). It is obligatory for every Muslim to leave isbaal and fear Allah about it.

'Allaamah Ibn Baz's discussion on isbaal

'Allam Ibn Baz was asked whether it is correct to pray behind an innovator (mubtadi') and one who is a musbil and he said:

"The prayer is correct behind the innovator and the one who is a musbil and (one who has some) other sin according to what is more right from what the scholars say, as long as it is not a bid'ah of disbelief (kufr) for the person. If it is a bidah of disbelief like that of a Jahmee and similar to that, which takes a person outside the fold of Islaam, then it is not correct to pray behind such people. However, it is obligatory for those responsible (amongst the people) that they choose the imam to be of a pleasing character and safe from bid'ah and immorality. (This is) because being an imam is a great (and important) trust (amaanah). He stands as an example to the Muslims by it. Thus it is not permissible to render its custodianship to the people of innovation and immorality when others are able to be appointed."

Isbaal is totally sinful which is necessary (wajib) to avoid and warn against it because of the statement, "Whatever hangs below both ankles from the lower garment (izaar) is in the Fire." [Bukhaari, An-Nisai]


Whatever is like the izaar also comes under the same judgement, like the shirt (qamees), trousers, cloak (woollen - basht) and similar to that. It is authentic from the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) that he said, "Allah will not speak to three (types of people), nor will He look at them on the Day of Judgement, nor will He purify them, and they will have a painful punishment: the person who is a musbil with regard to his garment, ... ..." Muslim brings this in his Saheeh.

When the person does so with izaar or something similar due to pride and arrogance then that makes him even more strong in sinning and draws him nearer to the punishment, since the Prophet (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said, "Whoever lets his garment flow (upon and beneath the ankles) due to vanity Allah will not look at him on the Day of Judgement."

It is compulsory for every Muslim to be on guard against what Allah has forbidden for him with regards to isbaal and other sins.

[Mujallat-ud-Da'wah No. 913]

4. Rolling up the garment in prayer- I see this a lot. they know their trousers should jump and just roll it up for the prayers and then go on bouncing afterwards

One of the mistakes of some of those who pray is that they tuck up their garments before starting their prayer.

It is reported from Ibn 'Abbaas (radhiAllahu 'anhumaa) that the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said, "I have been ordered to prostrate upon seven (bones) and that I neither tuck up the hair nor the garment (thawb)." [Muslim, An-Nisai, Ibn Khuzaimah]

Ibn Khuzaimah interpreted this narration with a chapter heading "Prevention from tucking up the garments in prayer".

An-Nawawi said the scholars are in agreement that it is not permissible to pray while his garment is rolled up or his sleeve or anything similar. [Sharh Saheeh Muslim]

Imaam Maalik said that if his clothes are already like that since he was doing a job and he rolled it up for that work and he started his prayer as he is, then there is no harm that he prays in that condition.

However, if he only does that to tuck up his hair or garment then there is no good in it. [Al-Mudawwanat-ul-Kubra]

An-Nawawi continued to say that the prohibition of hemming the garment is that of strong dislike. If he prays like that then he does evil although his prayer is correct. This is supported by At-Tabari where he speaks of a consensus by the scholars and Ibn-ul-Mundhir who takes recourse to Hasan Al-Basri.

5. Praying without covering the head- well, this isn't a sin. Only recommended.

It is permissible to pray in bare head for a man. The head is 'awrah for a woman. However, it is recommended (mustahab) that he is completely dressed for prayer. This includes covering the head with a cap, or turban or something similar from what is customary from his clothes.

Uncovering the head without excuse is detested (makrooh) especially in the compulsory prayers and even more especially in congregation.

'Allaamah Albaani said: "As for what I see, it is makrooh to pray with the head bare and this is indisputable. It is recommended for Muslims to enter the prayer in full Islamic manner of dressing because of the hadeeth, "Allah has more right that you beautify for Him." [At-Tahawi, At-tabraani, Al-Baihaqi. See Silsiltus-Saheehah]

"This is not from the good manners from the customs of the Salaf to have the head uncovered and walk like that on the road, and enter places of worship like that, but it is from the ways of the foreigner which has infiltrated the Islamic lands when the disbelievers set foot in it, and imported their corrupt custom and the Muslims imitated them in it. So repel it and its likes... ... This is an extraordinary accident and it is not appropriate that it should warrant contradicting the prior Islamic culture, and be taken as an excuse for permission to pray without head-covering."

Then 'Allaamah Albaani goes on to explain the mistake of some brothers in Egypt who brought the proof of the permissibility to pray without covering the head by analogising with how the head is uncovered for someone in ihraam during the pilgrimage. This is wrong since not covering the head during the pilgrimage is from the law (Sharee'ah) of Allah. If their analogy was right them they should make it compulsory to pray without any head covering at all since it is obligatory to do so during the pilgrimage! [Tamaam-ul-Minnah fee ta'leeq 'alaa fiqh-us- Sunnah by 'Allaamah Albaani]

It is not established at all that the Messenger (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) ever prayed outside the pilgrimage with bare head, without a turban/cap. Whoever thinks he did so then he should bring the proof. If he (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) had done so, it would have been recorded.

Let it be known that it is just makrooh for a man to pray with bare head. [Al-Majmoo' - Al-Baghawi etc.]

PS: The narration attributed to Ibn 'Abbaas that the Prophet (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) would sometimes remove his cap and place it as a sutrah in front of him is weak (da'eef). Even if it was authentic then it does not prove praying in bare head since it is compulsory and more important to take a sutrah and it is more evident that he did that to make up for lack of any suitable sutrah.

6. Praying in clothes which has pictures on it- all those shirts with pictures of skulls.some of the pics arent even very obvious, kinda shadowed,e.t.c

A'isha (radhiAllahu 'anha) said that (once) the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) prayed in a woolen garment which had markings on it. When he finished his prayer he said, "Go to Abu Jahm ibn Hudhaifah with this garment and bring me an inbijaaniyyah, because this has distracted me too much in my prayer." [Bukhaari, Muslim, Nisai, Ibn Maajah, Muatta of Maalik]

The inbijaaniyyah that the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) desired is a thick garment which has no markings or pattern on it unlike the khameesah (woolen garment which he was wearing at the time) which he rejected and it had such markings. And patterns are more preferable than pictures.

At-Teebi said while commenting on the above narration that pictures and similar things, which can be seen, affects the pure hearts and clean souls. [See "'Umdatul-Qaari" and "Fathul-Baari"]

Anas (radhiAllahu 'anhu) said that (once) A'isha (radhiAllahu 'anha) had a curtain which she used to screen a side of her house. The Prophet (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said to her, "Remove it from me, because its pictures keep on turning my attention away from my prayer." [Bukhaari]

The above narration presents a difficulty when viewed against the other hadeeth also from A'isha (radhiAllahu 'anha) which says that the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) would not enter the house which had a screen/curtain with pictures on it. [Muslim] This is resolved by knowing that this narration is talking about pictures of living creatures on the material while the first narration is not about such.

The above hadeeth of Anas (radhiAllahu 'anhu) is evidence that it is makrooh to pray in a garment which has pictures on it.

From the above evidences al-Qatalaani said in "Irshaad-ul-Saari" if the picture distracts a person praying in front of it then it is more so when he is clothed in such garments. Al-'Aini in "'Umdat-ul-Qaari" noted about the chapter in Bukhaari "Dislike of praying where there is a picture" that this means this chapter (by Bukhaari) explains that it is makrooh to pray in the house which has a garments with pictures on it. Thus if it is makrooh to do so in such case then it is worse when dressed in such material.

The jamhoor hold the position that it is makrooh.

Their evidence is the narration from A'isha (radhiAllahu 'anha) who said: "I had a garment with pictures on it which I had spread out and the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) was praying towards it. So he said, "Take it away from me." So I (cut it into pieces and) made (some) screens (out of it). [Muslim, Nisai]

After mentioning this hadeeth an-Nawawi said, "As for the garment which has a picture or a cross or whatever draws the attention away, then praying in it or towards it or on it is makrooh due to the hadeeth."

7. Praying in saffron dyed clothes (Saffron colour is red or bright orange-red)- guru maharaji style cheesy red-red is so gay grin
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'Abdullaah ibn 'Umar (radhiAllahu 'anhumaa) said that the Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) saw him dressed with two saffron coloured garments. So he said, "This is the dress of the disbelievers, so do not clothe yourself with it." [Muslim, Musnad Ahmad]

In one narration he (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) said to him, "Did your mother order you to wear it?" I said, "Shall I wash them both?" He said, "Rather burn them both!"

Yet another narration says, "So I did that."

In another narration it says how he was seen by the Prophet (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) in a garment stained with saffron dye so he was told, "What is this garment that is upon you?!" So he understood by that its dislike and went home and found them heating up the stove to cook meat and threw the garment into it. Then he went to the Prophet (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) the next day and he said, "What have you done with your garment?" So when he had told him, he said, "Why didn't you clothe some of your family with it? There is no harm in the ladies using it." [Musnad Ahmad, Abu Dawud, Ibn Maajah]

It is reported from Anas (radhiAllahu 'anhu) that the Prophet (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) forbade the man from wearing saffron (clothes). [Bukhaari]

'Ali (radhiAllahu 'anhu) said the Prophet (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) forbade from saffron dyed clothes. [Muslim, Nisai, Abu Dawud]

Ibn Qudaamah said, "Concerning praying in red garments, our companions have said it is makrooh for a man to clothe in it and pray in it." [Al-Mughni]

Ibn-ul-Qayyim discusses this in "Zaad-ul-Ma'ad" and says it is indeed very strongly disliked although still permissible. Allah granted refuge from it to the Prophet (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) when he wore a blood-red garment and now there is doubt as to the true meaning of red cloth.

At-Tabraani in "Al-Awsat" discusses the red garment of the Prophet (sallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam) and says it is a mistake to think the garment was pure red and not mixed with anything else. This red garment was a Yemeni costume woven with red and yellow thread like all such Yemeni costumes. It is called red due to the red thread in it. As for pure red then this is strongly forbidden.


http://www.missionislam.com/family/mendress.htm

the green fonts were added by me.

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Re: What Men Wear by tpia1: 10:14pm On Nov 06, 2012
Whats good for the goose is also good for the gander, i suppose.
Re: What Men Wear by sino(m): 5:07pm On Nov 07, 2012
Nice article deols,
personally, i hate guys wearing tight trousers, is it carrot or pencil they call it? i hate it so much, its appaling and they sag shocked, they look so ridiculous, a normal person shouldnt do that, talkless of a muslim aargh!
i guess there is no problem with a fitted shirt?
On the issue of sirwaal(trousers), the pakistani style is a no no for me(i tried it once with a native), it looks very funny, i'll take the west's trouser any day, i just make sure its not tight.

hmmm so red is so gay? What about pink? OMG! I think i've got a pink shirt.
Re: What Men Wear by snubish: 5:48pm On Nov 07, 2012
deols: [/b]- I see this a lot. they know their trousers should jump and just roll it up for the prayers and then go on bouncing afterwards

One of the mistakes of some of those who pray is that they tuck up their garments before starting their prayer.

nice article deols, thanks for calling our attention to these. I am so guilty of the above, hope to change now inshAllah.
lol @ the bolded.
Re: What Men Wear by deols(f): 7:50pm On Nov 07, 2012
sino: Nice article deols,
personally, i hate guys wearing tight trousers, is it carrot or pencil they call it? i hate it so much, its appaling and they sag shocked, they look so ridiculous, a normal person shouldnt do that, talkless of a muslim aargh!
i guess there is no problem with a fitted shirt?
On the issue of sirwaal(trousers), the pakistani style is a no no for me(i tried it once with a native), it looks very funny, i'll take the west's trouser any day, i just make sure its not tight.

hmmm so red is so gay? What about pink? OMG! I think i've got a pink shirt.

No mind them o.lol..and about that pink shirt,don't let me catch you wearing it..lol.
The awrah of the man starts from the navel..I dont think a tight shirt is bad but I wldnt say for sure.

And about d pakistani,Muslims sometimes confuse some Muslim traditions with Islamic ones. I see Muslims wear jalabiyya & would wear only it with d thought that it mmkes them more Islmaic. I also see people wear pakistani and indian styles for their nikkah..nothing wrong wv dat but they are not d only Islamic mode of dressing.

In fact our Buba and sokoto are very Islamic..not tight fitted and can be a lil raised above d ankles.

but oh,I dont like them in lace material,but then that is only my taste.
Re: What Men Wear by deols(f): 7:53pm On Nov 07, 2012
snubish:

nice article deols, thanks for calling our attention to these. I am so guilty of the above, hope to change now inshAllah.
lol @ the bolded.
InshaAllah..may Allah make it easy
Re: What Men Wear by Mustay(m): 8:04pm On Nov 07, 2012
One 'trend' am observing is women wearing the jalabiyas that are meant for men - especially the ones that are 'fitted'.
Re: What Men Wear by deols(f): 8:09pm On Nov 07, 2012
And that is very wrong. Any clothing that is meant for men shouldnt be worn by women.

I think it startd wv people who wear white 2 their asalatu. Nasfat and co. And before u know it those clothings became tagged unisex..there is nothing uni about them.
Re: What Men Wear by Mustay(m): 8:26pm On Nov 07, 2012
About the body hugs or tight fitted shirts, I've read about that some years ago where the top recommended was something that should at least, get to the elbow for the man! Certainly, hugs don't do that.




1. To pray bareheaded due to laziness or to pray while arms are exposed above the elbows

2. To play with the clothes or the body during Prayers

3. Praying in clothes in which people ordinarily do not go out

4. To dust the floor with one’s hand to prevent the soiling of clothes

13. Praying in clothes with pictures of living things on them

16. Praying while sheets or clothes wrapped around in such a way which will make it difficult to free the hands quickly



Here, #16 may do with agbada in some cases or sometimes, suits!
Re: What Men Wear by tintingz(m): 10:21pm On Nov 07, 2012
ama slim person and i put on slim fitted shirts and trousers. . .i dont like baggy nor over size wear, naah i dont. . .Allah(SWT) knows best...
Re: What Men Wear by Mustay(m): 11:15pm On Nov 07, 2012
Slim-fit is different from tight-fit.

All the same, for the shirt, they should get to the elbow.
Re: What Men Wear by tintingz(m): 11:28pm On Nov 07, 2012
Mustay: Slim-fit is different from tight-fit.

All the same, for the shirt, they should get to the elbow.
not all my shirts get to the elbow. . .
Re: What Men Wear by maclatunji: 7:09am On Nov 08, 2012
Mustay: About the body hugs or tight fitted shirts, I've read about that some years ago where the top recommended was something that should at least, get to the elbow for the man! Certainly, hugs don't do that.





Here, #16 may do with agbada in some cases or sometimes, suits!

Bros. There is no requirement that shirts should get to the elbow. Let us be careful when we post comments. Not everybody reading understands what Makrooh is. Simple question, what part of a man's body constitute his unclothedness that should not be seen?

Is there anything like shoulder or elbow there?
Re: What Men Wear by deols(f): 7:38am On Nov 08, 2012
A man's awrah is from the navel to the knees.

The elbows can be exposed.
Allahu a'lam
Re: What Men Wear by Mustay(m): 7:46am On Nov 08, 2012
Makrooh connotes something that is disliked, even if it is not mentioned, for the benefit of doubt, it's mentioned.

The topic is WHAT MEN WEAR. Are we saying that because a man's body hug covers his body, it doesn't reveal his body structure



The `awrah of a man is between the navel and the knee. This is the area that has to be covered.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “What is below his navel to his knee is his `awrah.” [Musnad Ahmad (6756), Sunan al-Dâraqutnî (1/230), and Sunan al-Bayhaqî (2/229)]


Both Shu`ayb al- Arna`ût and al- Albânî declare this hadîth to have a good (hasan) chain of transmission.

It is obligatory for every Muslim to cover his `awrah while in prayer. The `awrah for men is from the navel to the knee.


As long as this area is thoroughly covered, prayer will be valid. Scholars disagree, however, as to whether the knees themselves have to be covered.


Shams al-Dîn Ibn Qudâmah writes in al-Sharh al-Kabîr (3/203): “The navel and the knees themselves are not part of the `awrah. This is the opinion of Mâlik and al-Shafi`î. Abu Hanîfah says that the knees are part of the `awrah.”


It is preferable for a man to cover his shoulders while in prayer. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “None of you should pray in a single garment without having part of it upon his shoulder.” [Sahîh al- Bukhârî (359) and Sahîh Muslim (516)]



The majority of scholars are of the opinion, however, that covering the shoulders is not obligatory.



Al-Nawawî explains this in his commentary on the hadîth [Sharh Sahîh Muslim (4/231-232)]:

Scholars have explained that the wisdom behind doing so is that if the worshipper is wearing a waistcloth without having part of it upon his shoulder, he cannot be secure that his `awrah will not become exposed as opposed to if he places part of it upon his shoulder.

Also, he might have to hold it (his waistcloth) with one or both of his hands and in doing so neglect, among other things, the Sunnah of placing his right hand over his left hand beneath his chest and that of raising his hands when he is supposed to raise them. It is also because he is neglecting to cover his upper body, and this is a place for beautiful apparel.

Allah says: “And wear your beautiful apparel at every time and place of prayer.” [Sûrah al-A`râf: 31] Mâlik, Abû Hanîfah, al- Shâfi`î, and the majority of scholars consider the prohibition here to be one of dislike and not one of unlawfulness.


Therefore, if a man prays in a single garment that covers his `awrah without placing any of it upon his shoulder, his prayer will be valid, though his action will be disliked.

The official position in the Hanbalî school of thought is that it is obligatory for a man to place part of the garment upon his shoulder if he is able to do so. Shams al-Dîn Ibn Qudâmah writes in al-Sharh al- Kabîr (3/203):

Whenever a man covers his `awrah in prayer, his prayer will be acceptable, as long as he has something of clothing upon his shoulder, regardless of whether it is from the garment that is covering his `awrah or something else. This is if he is able to do so. However, the strongest opinion is that it is not obligatory.

Sheikh `Abd al-`Azîz b. Bâz says:

“It is obligatory for every Muslim to cover his `awrah while praying. The `awrah for men is from the navel to the knee. As long as this area is thoroughly covered, prayer will be valid.”

And Allah knows best.

IslamToday - English


I have not the book herre but you can peruse the attachment.

Re: What Men Wear by tintingz(m): 8:23am On Nov 08, 2012
Some cleric will even say men must put on turban whatever. . .where are they getting this idea from
Re: What Men Wear by maclatunji: 8:29am On Nov 08, 2012
Mustay: Makrooh connotes something that is disliked, even if it is not mentioned, for the benefit of doubt, it's mentioned.

The topic is WHAT MEN WEAR. Are we saying that because a man's body hug covers his body, it doesn't reveal his body structure





I have not the book herre but you can peruse the attachment.

I am just being frank here. A great part of Islam is explaining things as they are not as we feel they should be- two different things. If you are encouraging people to do something that is not compulsory, let them know you are only encouraging them and it is not compulsory that they do it. If you are discouraging people from doing something that is not forbidden but disliked, let them know that you are discouraging them from doing it and that it is best for them to leave it altogther but if they don't there is no known sanction for it.

I don't think I have ever thought of praying without covering my shoulders but it would be wrong for me to say it is compulsory for everybody else to do so- I hope you get my point. It is all about presentation.

Another thing, please and please when quoting material, let us try and desist from adding our own comments in whatever form- it is better to quote verbatim (bold if you want to emphasize certain parts) and then make your own comments at the bottom after providing the source or make your comments/observations on another post altogether.

This will leave no ambiguity as to who is saying what. Not everybody will come to the bottom to read that certain comments are not from the author of the quoted material.

Thank you.
Re: What Men Wear by sino(m): 8:30am On Nov 08, 2012
deols:

No mind them o.lol..and about that pink shirt,don't let me catch you wearing it..lol.
The awrah of the man starts from the navel..I dont think a tight shirt is bad but I wldnt say for sure.
Its not haram na, the shirt fine o, i gues i'll have to give it away, even though nigerians may not easily tag you gay cos you putting on a pink shirt, the thought of it alone is freaking me out.

deols:
And about d pakistani,Muslims sometimes confuse some Muslim traditions with Islamic ones. I see Muslims wear jalabiyya & would wear only it with d thought that it mmkes them more Islmaic. I also see people wear pakistani and indian styles for their nikkah..nothing wrong wv dat but they are not d only Islamic mode of dressing.

In fact our Buba and sokoto are very Islamic..not tight fitted and can be a lil raised above d ankles.

but oh,I dont like them in lace material,but then that is only my taste.

You are right, there are only dress codes in Islam, once it covers the awrah then it is Islamic.
Lace are not meant for men, i prefer a guinea fabric anyday.
Re: What Men Wear by maclatunji: 8:30am On Nov 08, 2012
tintingz: Some cleric will even say men must put on turban whatever. . .where are they getting this idea from

It is all about putting things in proper perspective, a lot of people just refuse to do that even if they are learned.
Re: What Men Wear by maclatunji: 8:33am On Nov 08, 2012
sino:
Its not haram na, the shirt fine o, i gues i'll have to give it away, even though nigerians may not easily tag you gay cos you putting on a pink shirt, the thought of it alone is freaking me out.

Thank you for the bolded, I am wearing a pink shirt. I have seen at least 10 other men wearing some shade of pink this morning alone and it is 8.32 am as I type this. Let us moderate our comments please.
Re: What Men Wear by olawalebabs(m): 8:57am On Nov 08, 2012
Personally, I dont wear any cloth that is:
1. Too tight
2. Transparent
3. Too short to expose the sensitive part of my body.

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Re: What Men Wear by tintingz(m): 9:04am On Nov 08, 2012
maclatunji:
It is all about putting things in proper perspective, a lot of people just refuse to do that even if they are learned.
that's right......am not a turban wearer and dont have to be dressing like a pakistani, afganistan arab person naah! Allah(swt) only instructed muslims to cover their body and Mohammed(sa) gave us where to cover up not to dress like the arabs......infact i dress like wizkid buh no saging tho wink
Re: What Men Wear by Mustay(m): 9:15am On Nov 08, 2012
Definitely. There's a reason those in the north and the arabs wear the turban. One needs to like I always say, sieve the wheat from the chaff. The way words are used and their implications must be noted.
Re: What Men Wear by tintingz(m): 9:16am On Nov 08, 2012
olawalebabs: Personally, I dont wear any cloth that is:
1. Too tight
2. Transparent
3. Too short to expose the sensitive part of my body.
simple! smiley
Re: What Men Wear by sino(m): 9:19am On Nov 08, 2012
tintingz: that's right......am not a turban wearer and dont have to be dressing like a pakistani, afganistan arab person naah! Allah(swt) only instructed muslims to cover their body and Mohammed(sa) gave us where to cover up not to dress like the arabs......infact i dress like wizkid buh no saging tho wink
Ehn? With skinny jeans?
Re: What Men Wear by deols(f): 9:24am On Nov 08, 2012
sino:
Its not haram na, the shirt fine o, i gues i'll have to give it away, even though nigerians may not easily tag you gay cos you putting on a pink shirt, the thought of it alone is freaking me out.



You are right, there are only dress codes in Islam, once it covers the awrah then it is Islamic.
Lace are not meant for men, i prefer a guinea fabric anyday.

You dont have to give the shirt away o. Only red is mentioned in the hadith. And the gay thing doesnt apply in Nigeria. What too much television can do to d mind #mybad.
Re: What Men Wear by olawalebabs(m): 9:26am On Nov 08, 2012
*smiling while reading the posts*
Re: What Men Wear by sino(m): 9:28am On Nov 08, 2012
Mustay: Definitely. There's a reason those in the north and the arabs wear the turban. One needs to like I always say, sieve the wheat from the chaff. The way words are used and their implications must be noted.


Dont let my granpa see this o, to him, a muslim must wear a turban and it must be several yards long lol.

I think it stemed from trying to imitate the prophet(saw) since we were told he had a turban, automatically it is part of a muslims attire, not trying to differentiate culture from religion...the arabs wore the turban before Islam na.
Re: What Men Wear by deols(f): 9:30am On Nov 08, 2012
tintingz: that's right......am not a turban wearer and dont have to be dressing like a pakistani, afganistan arab person naah! Allah(swt) only instructed muslims to cover their body and Mohammed(sa) gave us where to cover up not to dress like the arabs......infact i dress like wizkid buh no saging tho wink
U are right bout d turban thing. I thnk it is just a borrowed culture which many later attached meanings to. If u studied in d west u'd most probabky have a part of their culture leave with you. I thnk d same happened with the earlier Muslims in Nigeria. They imbibed some arab culture which are not necessarily parts of Islam.

That whiz kid part ehn grin
Reminds me of how the way you dress says a lot about you.
Re: What Men Wear by olawalebabs(m): 9:32am On Nov 08, 2012
I heard something which I can't substantiate now, Is Suit an Arab wear before the west "hijack" it from them?
Re: What Men Wear by tintingz(m): 9:33am On Nov 08, 2012
sino:
Ehn? With skinny jeans?
lol....not a tight gayish jeans.....slim-fit pencil type.....

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