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FYI Ladies:why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life by R2dabaron: 2:05pm On Jan 06, 2013
LADIES ONLY!!!

Why Some African Ladies End Up Single For Life.......
1. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick
& Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whosephone is always
talking and laughing with unserious calls. You
may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you
as one, and will likely flee at the slightest
chance or disagreement.
2. Excessive makeup turns most decent and
serious-minded men off- if you have observed,
you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it
at all; reason they often times discourage their
true loved ones to do away with itcos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men
will applaud and complement you for looking
like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is
okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will
attract better men, decent and serious-minded,
except you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.
3. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As
a single lady who has not been taken to the
altar, you need to reserve some things for your
husband to be, especially your body, respect it
and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men
rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied
while being single. Such privileges as sex and
companionship, good food and tidied home,
etc. But today, a single man gets even the best
and of course more of constant sex, good food
and excellent home- keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell
you want him to desire to marry you when you
have given him virtually everything he desires
from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the
most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex supply,
cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries
you, so why would he not want you to remain
his girlfriend for life?
4. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your
attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe
appealing to guys, you have derailed from
appealing to appalling. In fact you look more
whorish than modest; more distractive than
attractive, and more disgusting than adorable.
Your dressing style determines who gets
attracted to you most times. If you dress high
school, only high school-thinking­­ ­­guys will be
attracted to you, and if you dress excessively
sexy and provocative, only randy men will
come to you for urgent satisfaction of their
immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by
media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they
are meant for certain set of ladies you
wouldn't like to be associated with, be careful.
Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are
good for a seriously searching fora soul mate
single lady.
5. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you
expect to find a husband when you still allow
your clique of friends to be dictating which
man you meet is worthy of your love and
which is not? When will you wakeup and face
the fact that those your best friends even
though they cherish you, wouldn't want you to
marry before them or to marry the best man?
6. Many African ladies now dislike cooking
and home chores just because they had been
totally brainwashed by movies showcasing
men playing the role of women in a family, and
due to excessive exposure to modern media
that promotes gender-equality­­ ­­ in a destructive
way that’s aimed at destroying the unique
African family setting that made our previous
African marriages everlasting and envious to
the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do
you expect an African man to desire to marry
when he knows he is only buying more
headache and trouble than helper for himself?
There is no gainsay that some guyz are just
difficult to please. Every rule has its
exceptions. Be decent, be modest. Men love
Simplicity and Sincerity. Boys love
Flambouyance and Extravegance. Don't be
gullible by the foreign culture on the media. Be
a Lady that attracts deserving Men not boys.

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