Often times it is said that when a man/woman is up to age and he is not married it means he/she is not responsible, each time I try to relate both words (marriage/responsible) I getmyself aplausibly vague on the subject and leaving it in space. I take the case of my cousin nairalanders, james is 34yrs old single lad with a good job and have 3 simblings he is sponsoring with aged parent, he is cool headed and admired by folks around him, for jamesmarriage is not a priority now. Do we now say because he doesn't have marriage intentions and at such he is irresponsible, I don't get it, fellow nairalanders what is your opinion on this

What is your definition of responsibility? The earlier you get the meaning the better