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OP I just read your letter in the other thread and my heart was heavy for you and your wife.
I understand you felt betrayed but have you tried to forgive her and move on and make it work?
Like seeing a marriage counsellor for starters?

Can you ever forgive her for lying to you?

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I understand your situation @OP. It's a very painful one. So what are you doing now to put it under control?

Records straight bout what? That she's older than you are ? She lied to you ? Will you ever let go and move on?
Listen, carrying all this burden in you could eat you up alive and kill you all of a sudden, it's called Depression. You both need to talk to a professional so you can really vent your resentments towards each other, no marriage is rosy, if you think there's nothing left for both of you in this union after counselling then go ahead and seperate... Life's too short to be miserable, life's full of ups and downs as it is. I'm sure she doesn't want to be miserable too all her life. Abi what's left after the first half of your life spent in misery?
I believe in seeing a professional for help. It's therapeutic to vent don't get me wrong , but vent to the right person. We can only suggests and advice you here but we don't know you. Consult a specialist one on one. just my opinion anyway.

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Hope you deletes whatever caused you pains same way as you did with the thread.Forgiveness heals .

^^ I hope so too.
Ify pls check this out
https://www.nairaland.com/1206081/get-hotel-2000-per-night

I'm scared for the guy with all kidnaping going on lately.

Lolx, Jide who want kidnapp persin wey dey find 2K hotel?

The most he can get is a few slaps, frog jumps and losing his BB. I think he's rugged too else he no go get mind go there. I no even sabi the place.

^^^ Ify okay, I'm not familiar with Lagos too, and I know you sabi everything for Lagos
Very funny