Years back in Nigeria men married ladies with confidence that the ladies are well trained and virgin, but nowadays virginity has become a thing of abuse among the youths. Relationships no longer last long if sex is not involve. Many men don't want to have a virgin as a girlfriend because they want to have a taste before walking down the aisle. All these is what make me ask is virginity important in our culture? Is sex before the new way we should go rather than hitting for "No sex before marriage".

No, its not a new culture in nigeria.

somany people take virginity as lack of oppourtunity,which has constituted breakdowns in relationships,and failures.

and until people reason,that virginity is a good virtue,relationships based on sex will continue failing.Abstainance remains the best.

Almost everybody can't risk having a "no testing" product.

Its sad. That why if i ever marry a Nigerian she will be from the deep north.

What do you have to test for? a hole is a hole

The economy isnt friendly, and we arent getting more responsible. Men will always hit. Ladies out of fear of losing out,not getting a husband or out of lack of selfcontrol etc allow men to hit b4 commitmnt(marriage). men hit and run and hit and run,and hit again. And will never av to marry b4 hitting.
If you are Save(in Christ) pls save ur virginity for marriage. That is d culture of the life in christ .if u r not u can do it d way of the devil

Some do it so as to be sure they are not getting married to brother John or uncle Endurance.
Lots of women find it difficult to conceive after marriage, mostly the "ex-hustlers" .