Nneka loves Mr okpan so much but her dilemma is that he's married with 3 kids. Nneka is a single mum of 1 boy. Mr okpan kisses the floor she walks on, he has told his wife about her and tells her "I love u" in the wife's presence while on phone. He takes care of Nneka and her son and both seem happy 2gether. Mr okpan says he wants to marry her and the wife will support him so long as that makes him happy. Please advise Nneka, my people. She's been disappointed by many young guys. Now Nneka is 34 years old and Mr okpan is 50 years old. Advise

She is already screwing the polygamist,so which advice is she seeking?

Ask yourself if ordinarily you would have married this man if you didn't feel you were out of choices. A polygamous house is a war ground most times. Just because someone smiles with you, doesn't mean they won't stab you as soon as you turn your back. Iya ile may not have a choice, but to accept you. But she can do enough to destroy you while under her roof. Maybe the couple may be into kinky stuff too, who knows?

The fact dat he's still married to the other woman is a thing not to neglect. Even if he gives her heaven and earth,i must say she'll continue to face problems .why not wait for your own man rather than settle for another persons husband.

@Op
i believe u shud wait for ur own right man because there is no
assurance that by the time you get into the man house, the first wife
wont change her attitude towards you.it is better u wait for the right
man rather than regretting later by saying if u had known? wish u luck
in decision

Wat are the chances of a single mum in Nigeria marrying a single guy. Factor the answer to ur decision