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Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by ril19(m): 9:32pm On May 27, 2013 |
Now this is one big issue concerning guys. I just experienced a bitter reality of this ugly feminine character. Now listen to the story. I went to see a friend of mine who is a guy. As i stepped into his room, i greeted as usual with him (this lasted about 10 seconds). Next, i turned to this lady he is with (and of course who i'm seeing for the first time) and said "hello" with my arm out-stretched for a hand shake. The lady ignored me completely. After some seconds, i withrew my hand back to myself. Now guys, how do u feel when u're treated this way? Girls, what reason(s) do u have for reacting this way sometimes to guys? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by Afam4eva(m): 9:45pm On May 27, 2013 |
What you experienced is an isolated case. The only time i have been politely refused a handshake by a lady was because the lady claimed that as a Muslim, they're not allowed to shake guys. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by onyeego(m): 10:44pm On May 27, 2013 |
This is why u should wait for d lady to stretch her hands first before u shake her, its a no no for u as a guy to want to shake a lady without her stretching her hands first. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by pleep(m): 3:16am On May 28, 2013 |
I usually don't shake womens hand. unless of course they offer first, thats the proper ettiquette |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by bokohalal(m): 5:18am On May 28, 2013 |
onye ego: This is why u should wait for d lady to stretch her hands first before u shake her, its a no no for u as a guy to want to shake a lady without her stretching her hands first. Right! |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by ril19(m): 1:30pm On May 30, 2013 |
onye ego: This is why u should wait for d lady to stretch her hands first before u shake her, its a no no for u as a guy to want to shake a lady without her stretching her hands first. my friend is it really obtainable that a lady will first stretch her arm towards a guy for a handshake? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by pleep(m): 4:21pm On May 30, 2013 |
"ostensible" you mean. But is it by force that you must shake her hand? if she doesn't offer simply smile and nod at her and keep it moving. 1# coolness rule is to never do something that will embarass yourself, if ladies dont want to shake ur hand thats their problem |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by ril19(m): 11:11pm On May 30, 2013 |
pleep: "ostensible" you mean. why is it all about me, me, me? What do u guys have to say about the girl and her reaction? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by pleep(m): 11:18pm On May 30, 2013 |
Good point... it's not ur fault. But im just saying, there is a way to prevent this |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by ril19(m): 4:51am On Jun 13, 2013 |
i really expect someone to do critical analysis of the situation and actually tell why these things happen. Any sharp brain to do that? Thanks |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by sanandreas(m): 7:07pm On Jun 14, 2013 |
I have had similar experience from a muslim gal. She told me her reason and it was religion. So i gat no offence. Anyway i will learn dat the gal shud shake first. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by ril19(m): 3:53am On Jul 23, 2013 |
why aren't the girls on this one? we need comments from the female folks please. represent yourselves now let's know what you're thinking. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by sexymoma(f): 2:56pm On Jul 23, 2013 |
Why should you offer a handshake to a lady, nah nah that not good enough. it would look as if you shaking your fellow man na. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by ril19(m): 9:23am On Jul 24, 2013 |
sexymoma: Why should you offer a handshake to a lady, nah nah that not good enough. so what should I offer instead moma? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls Sometimes Refuse Hand Shakes From Guys? by Tolexander: 9:53am On Jul 24, 2013 |
Maybe the lady don shake a guy's palm that is very hard and has shan paper surface before. |
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