Now this is one big issue concerning guys. I just experienced a bitter reality of this ugly feminine character. Now listen to the story.
I went to see a friend of mine who is a guy. As i stepped into his room, i greeted as usual with him (this lasted about 10 seconds). Next, i turned to this lady he is with (and of course who i'm seeing for the first time) and said "hello" with my arm out-stretched for a hand shake. The lady ignored me completely. After some seconds, i withrew my hand back to myself.

Now guys, how do u feel when u're treated this way?

Girls, what reason(s) do u have for reacting this way sometimes to guys?

What you experienced is an isolated case. The only time i have been politely refused a handshake by a lady was because the lady claimed that as a Muslim, they're not allowed to shake guys.

This is why u should wait for d lady to stretch her hands first before u shake her, its a no no for u as a guy to want to shake a lady without her stretching her hands first.

I usually don't shake womens hand.

unless of course they offer first, thats the proper ettiquette

onye ego: This is why u should wait for d lady to stretch her hands first before u shake her, its a no no for u as a guy to want to shake a lady without her stretching her hands first.

Right!

onye ego: This is why u should wait for d lady to stretch her hands first before u shake her, its a no no for u as a guy to want to shake a lady without her stretching her hands first.

my friend is it really obtainable that a lady will first stretch her arm towards a guy for a handshake?

"ostensible" you mean.

But is it by force that you must shake her hand? if she doesn't offer simply smile and nod at her and keep it moving. 1# coolness rule is to never do something that will embarass yourself, if ladies dont want to shake ur hand thats their problem

pleep: "ostensible" you mean.

But is it by force that you must shake her hand? if she doesn't offer simply smile and nod at her and keep it moving. 1# coolness rule is to never do something that will embarass yourself, if ladies dont want to shake ur hand thats their problem

why is it all about me, me, me? What do u guys have to say about the girl and her reaction?

Good point... it's not ur fault. But im just saying, there is a way to prevent this

i really expect someone to do critical analysis of the situation and actually tell why these things happen. Any sharp brain to do that? Thanks

I have had similar experience from a muslim gal. She told me her reason and it was religion. So i gat no offence. Anyway i will learn dat the gal shud shake first.

why aren't the girls on this one? we need comments from the female folks please. represent yourselves now let's know what you're thinking.

Why should you offer a handshake to a lady, nah nah that not good enough.
it would look as if you shaking your fellow man na.

sexymoma: Why should you offer a handshake to a lady, nah nah that not good enough.
it would look as if you shaking your fellow man na.

so what should I offer instead moma?

Maybe the lady don shake a guy's palm that is very hard and has shan paper surface before.