Meet seyi Kolade Nigerian woman who have slept with 370 men
Approaching a man at a bar, Seyi Kolade had only one thing on her mind as she chatted with the stranger - sex. Within hours the pair were in bed together and she was delighted at how her evening had panned out. And this was not a chance encounter, for Seyi was a sex addict and it was what she did almost every day for 13 years. Last night she said: “Sex addiction took hold of my life.” Seyi, 35, was just 17 when she became dependent on sleeping with men. By19 she'd had 40 partners and she says she has bedded a shocking total of 370 men. Herdangerous addiction led her to a life of destruction - catching sexually transmitted infections, being evicted from her home and having two terminations. By the age of 30, Seyi had hit rock bottom and needed help. Today, after attending numerous sex addiction meetings and 12-step programmes, Seyi has been celibate for four years and is helping others like her. She explains says: “Sex addiction is something people associate with men, but it took hold of my life for more than 13 years. “It was a craving and a fear of how I’d feel if I couldn’tget it. “Once I did, it was a huge relief, like a weight was lifted. “It’s like any addiction. It made me selfish, self-destructive and depressed but it was a cycle I couldn’t escape.” She adds: “I lost my virginity when Iwas 13 with my first boyfriend. “I was shocked when I fell pregnant. I gave birth when I was 14. It was a very difficult time.” Social services arranged a nanny to look after her daughter, Sarah, from six weeks old. Being a young mum scarred Seyi’s childhood. She says: “I moved out of home when I was 16 with Sarah and lived in a mother and baby unit. I felt terribly lonely. I craved affection, I was miserable.” Moving into a housing association home at 17, Seyi met then-boyfriend Paul, 31. It was now thatshe began to use sex to replace her feelings of loneliness. She says: “When I started having sex with my boyfriend I thought it was the answer and would stop me feeling so lonely. But it wasn’t enough.” Going to bars, Seyi, from Birmingham, cheated on Paulat least once a week with strangers or men she would meet regularly. She says: “I needed sex and afterwards it was a relief. When I couldn’t have sex my confidence would plummet, I felt ugly and went into a spiral of upset and frustration, feeling unworthy and needing another fix as soon as possible.” Seyi fell pregnant at 17 with son, Andrew. She says: “I told Paul it was his although there was some doubt in my mind. After I gave birth I tried to stay faithful. I wanted sex with him four to five times a day, but the attention from him wasn’t enough. “When the pent-up sexual frustration became too much, I’d go elsewhere and get validation through sex. “I cheated on him three times in six months, then fell pregnant again.” Devastated and unable to look after another child, Seyi made the decision to have her baby terminated. She says: “It wasn’t fair on the child to have them. I didn’t know whose baby it was so I didn’t tell Paul. I wanted our relationship to work but we split up when I was 19.” Seyi’s heartbreak made her sex addiction go wild. She says: “The only cure for my loneliness was sex. I had five guys I could meet with for sex when I wanted and was also sleeping with strangers. I’d go to bars and easily pick one up. Being good in bed made me feel worthy.” By 22 Seyi had caught chlamydia twice. Going out almost every night while her children were looked after by friends and family, all she could think about was sex. She says: “Between the ages of 22 to 30, life was a blur, my addiction hadtaken over. “I was sleeping with five to six men, or meeting strangers for sex at bars weekly. I fell pregnant again at 26. I felt I hadno choice but to have a termination. I got drunk and had sex After the procedure. “I don’t know how I managed to keep my job as a management consultant. I took lots of sick days when I craved sex and couldn’t face the office. I even slept with a colleague. “I was evicted for not paying rent when I was 29 and had to send my children to live with my family.” While staying with a friend Seyi saw the documentary photos of seyi here and the complete story www.xmoentertainment..com

you said 'meet a woman.....' but there is no picture there (i nor get winch eye). Anyway she try o. her toto na canal?

Eziokwu?

Well its an addiction to some people. Everyone get the wahala wey dem get. If you are free from any vice and have self control, you have to thank God everyday. Some people is stealing, drinking, smoking, se*x, por*n etc...

well what can i say,a child that was disvirgined at the age of 13,what do you expect?