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How To Get A Girl Fall In Love With You by MorrisFrank(m): 7:45am On Jun 25, 2013
How to Get a Girl to Fall in Love with
You
If you want a girl out there to fall in love with
you, chances are that you'll have to go that
extra step to win her over. That's okay, though,
because you're probably willing to do anything
it takes. Follow the suggestions in this article to
get a girl to fall in love with you. Love is an art,
not a science, so try to think of these steps as
fluid guidelines.
Show her your lovable qualities. People
don't just decide with whom they want to
fall in love. Love happens because the
people involved have lovable qualities.
Love often develops over time, so your
job is to show the girl that you're worth
being around.
Get a sense of humor. It's no secret that
girls love guys who can crack a joke or
be funny. Practice jokes on your friends
every so often, and learn the jokes that
work and the ones that don't work.
When you're alone with a girl, telling a
joke can be a great way to break the
tension. Remember: if you're not good
at jokes, you can still have a good sense
of humor––you just have to love
laughing and being around people who
are funny.
Be playful. One of the most important
things girls look for in a partner is
playfulness. So you want to be playful
because she probably thinks that
playfulness is attractive. How can you
be playful? Make a boring routine, like
studying, interesting by turning it into a
song, for example. Don't take things too
seriously. And most importantly, be
able to laugh at yourself.
Have confidence. To be genuinely
lovable, you have to believe that you
are worth being around. Most girls
aren't attracted to people who are
constantly putting themselves down. So
be confident, but not cocky. Know what
you are good at. Don't brag about it or
show off, but put these things into your
routine and don't be afraid to let them
shine every once in a while.
Eliminate all expectations. Love lives in
the absence of pressure. Letting go of
your expectations will help you to relax,
which will make you more appealing to a
girl than if you are uptight and worried.
Teach yourself to expect nothing from
the girl so that you cannot be
disappointed. If she does fall in love
with you, you'll be pleasantly surprised.
Remember that there are plenty of fish
in the sea. If this particular girl doesn't
work out, there will be other girls. If
you don't get that special girl to fall in
love with you, try not to get mopey and
sad about it. It may feel good to pity
yourself, but girls don't really think it's
attractive.
Find out what she likes to do. Then do it
with her. Doing something that you know
she likes has the added advantages that
she feels comfortable and safe doing it. If
she's comfortable when you're out on a
date, she's more likely get close to you,
hold your hand, or even kiss you.
Whether she likes surfing, horseback
riding, shopping, or baking, it's a good
idea to try to involve her in what she
likes doing best. Ask her friend what
she enjoys doing in her free time, or
ask her yourself if you're feeling brave.
(Fortune favors you.) That way, she'll
know that you've taken the time to find
out what makes her tick, and that
you're ready to go that extra mile to
make sure she's happy.
Bonding over something she likes
doesn't need to be a date, but if you
want love to blossom, you're going to
have to ask her on a date at some point.
When you're ready to take that step, try
someplace familiar like the movies, a
coffee shop, or a dance. Maybe try
taking her to an amusement park or a
haunted house; studies suggest that
excitement or a sense of danger on a
date helps release a chemical in the
brain that bonds the two people
together.
Be strategic about whether you call it a
"date." Generally, if you've already won
the girl over, you want to make it clear
that you're going on a date. That's
because she expects you to take the
next step, and she wants to make sure
you're both on the same page. But if
you haven't won the girl over yet, it's
probably best to slow-play the
courtship, and win her over as a friend
before you move on to the romantic
relationship. Sometimes, the girl will
resist a romantic relationship if she's
not sure about whether you're good
friends.
Give her space. This doesn't mean
playing hard-to-get, but give the girl
control over what happens next.
Suffocating her and bullying her into a
relationship will do the opposite of what
you're hoping for. Show her you respect
her life outside of you; when you give a
girl room to breathe, she will often come
to love you on her own terms.
When you give her space, avoid being
too distant. Keep calling her regularly
and showing her that you're interested.
If you're shy, don't give her too much
space or she'll think you're not
interested. You're going to have to
come out of your shell a little bit if you
want to get her attention.
If you've just gone on a date with her,
and everything has gone really well, tell
her you'll call her before the weekend
is up if it's Friday. Let her do her own
thing on Saturday, and then give her a
call on Sunday and tell her you had a
really good time and you'd like to do
something soon, perhaps next
weekend. This would be a great time to
ask her out to any parties or dances
that are happening.
Giving her space is all about showing
her how confident you are. What
you're basically saying is "I had a great
time with you, and I like you, but I'm
not going to come on super strong
because I'm not desperate." Girls and
guys are both attracted to people who
are cool and calm, who don't jump the
gun, and who aren't desperate.
Open your eyes to the possibilities. Girls
are everywhere, and many girls are
looking to fall in love. Don't get too hung
up on getting one particular girl to fall in
love with you, and don't try to "force"
love on a girl who just isn't feeling it!
Get to know more girls and give love
more opportunities to blossom. Go to
school socials and functions. Don't be
afraid to go to a different school's social
if a friend invites you. You never know
when you might meet that special
someone who'll knock the wind out of
your lungs.
Sometimes, when you stop looking for
love, it hits you right in the face. The
universe works in weird ways.
Especially if you've tried really hard
recently, or you think you've just run
out of energy, don't be afraid to pull
back from the fray. It sounds counter-
intuitive, and it's frustrating to do, but it
works: when you stop trying, girls tend
to find you.
Be adventurous for her. Maybe the girls
you know all have boyfriends, or
maybe they don't cut it for you. Plenty
of guys these days are finding love
outside of their immediate circles. If
you're old enough, try internet dating.
If you're interested in extracurriculars,
get involved on a wider basis so that
you could potentially travel. When
looking for that girl of your dreams, it
helps to keep an open mind and try as
many different adventures as life
throws at you.
Re: How To Get A Girl Fall In Love With You by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jun 25, 2013
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Re: How To Get A Girl Fall In Love With You by 1bunne4lif(m): 1:05am On Jun 26, 2013
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Re: How To Get A Girl Fall In Love With You by vizboy(m): 11:16am On Jun 26, 2013
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Re: How To Get A Girl Fall In Love With You by Shimshark(m): 2:04pm On Jun 26, 2013
Boooo.. Did all our parents go tru dis? IDTS...
Re: How To Get A Girl Fall In Love With You by Helpers: 7:27pm On Jul 08, 2014
Finish early- It's always good to make an early exit when talking to girls. Even when you feel the talks are extremely interesting and amusing. Girls only want more from guys when they feel you have something distinct and interesting about yourself. Making an early exit from a very interesting talk tends to leave girls wanting more from you thereby creating more attraction.

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