Every woman wants to be hot an ooze of sex appeal, yet some of us still want to be Decent and Modest while doing it.
For instance, the right length for a short gown. I see women in short gowns and admire some because it is hot,classy and modest, but there are also some I see and I'm like "no she didn't leave her house like that". I am just always scared of wearing short gowns coz I feel it's not decent or maybe the breeze will expose my thighs if I try or maybe I'd spend the whole day trying to pull it down. So, how can you pull off a short Gown without looking or feeling trashy?

Those who wear it see nothing wrong in it. Their mind has been programmed to see it as normal and so it does not persecute them.

That's how they do it

But there has to be a way to wear it and still be decent na.

kennygee: But there has to be a way to wear it and still be decent na.

There is no way. It is in the mind.

Some girls are comfy with wearing bumshorts right? Is there a way to wear it?

That means if i don't prepare my mind,I won't be able to wear it? ok.

kennygee: That means if i don't prepare my mind,I won't be able to wear it? ok.

As long as your mind finds it wrong, you will be aware of yourself and fighting with the cloth which is just annoying and funny.

Wear what you are comfy with as long as it is clean, it compliments you and matches.

i've got the same problem too...

kennygee: Every woman wants to be hot an ooze of sex appeal, yet some of us still want to be Decent and Modest while doing it.
For instance, the right length for a short gown. I see women in short gowns and admire some because it is hot,classy and modest, but there are also some I see and I'm like "no she didn't leave her house like that". I am just always scared of wearing short gowns coz I feel it's not decent or maybe the breeze will expose my thighs if I try or maybe I'd spend the whole day trying to pull it down. So, how can you pull off a short Gown without looking or feeling trashy?

You can wear a dress that is long sleeve and slightly above the knee then.

Also, it depends on the way you carry yourself. If you dont feel comfortable in it then dont wear it.