hi guys am married to a Delta man but since we married tins hv not b gud for us my hubby is not helping @ all in terms of finance n I hv had two miscarriages due to stress to work. :He is currently not working n d whole expenses is on me. Am just tired in d marriage n I wnt to call it a quit. Pls I need advice.

Is your husband lazy? Is he struggling to find a job? Or is he just comfortable the way he is?
If he is comfortable, then just quit the marriage! You can't be over-stressing yourself over some lazy butt!
From what you said, it seems you don't have a child for him, so a divorce is just the best option!

How long have you been married for

pretty cy: . Am just tired in d marriage n I wnt to call it a quit. Pls I need advice.

At the bolded,this is a marriage not a relationship. You don't "quit" at the slightest challenge that you face.

pretty cy: :He is currently not working

This implies that he was working previously. Help him. Pray for him and send in applications on his behalf. Things will look up for you.

Its well.

"For better, for worse"

alutacontinua: "For better, for worse"

i guess the OP forgot those words

You can't walk out on your marriage just because your hubby is broke, whats wrong with helping?its just the both of you.What if he got broke after having four kids with you ? ? Will you still quit your marriage ? ? i don't think you have any love for this man,free him and let a more loving spouse find him.

byvan: You can't walk out on your marriage just because your hubby is broke, whats wrong with helping?its just the both of you.What if he got broke after having four kids with you ? ? Will you still quit your marriage ? ? i don't think you have any love for this man,free him and let a more loving spouse find him.

its true,it even went to the extent of calling him a delta man

Quit? Just like that? The way u people throw around the word 'divorce' these days, why marry at all? Pls free the poor man o and go for ur MR Perfect.

mysticgal:

its true,it even went to the extent of calling him a delta man

,no be small Delta man.

When I get money she go call me honey when money finish she go call me monkey

When he get money he was sweetheart, When he no get he is called Delta man

The best thing is to divorce him like you said, Because your husband too would have seen the change in your attitude and he is probably waiting for him to get back on his feet before he shows you.

Nigerian women and money sha. Pets are even more loyal than some of them. They are only married to the money

Tschewwwww!

pretty cy: hi guys am married to a Delta man but since we married tins hv not b gud for us my hubby is not helping @ all in terms of finance n I hv had two miscarriages due to stress to work. :He is currently not working n d whole expenses is on me. Am just tired in d marriage n I wnt to call it a quit. Pls I need advice.

You want to quit because of the miscarriages or he's not working presently ? IMO,none of them is food enough reason to bail out.
Why is he not working ?
Slow down on the stress.Things kan only get better.

byvan: You can't walk out on your marriage just because your hubby is broke, whats wrong with helping?its just the both of you.What if he got broke after having four kids with you ? ? Will you still quit your marriage ? ? i don't think you have any love for this man,free him and let a more loving spouse find him.

is not becos he is broke but becos he is not ding anytin to get work. and i hv tried to assist him in business but to no avail.

ifyalways: You want to quit because of the miscarriages or he's not working presently ? IMO,none of them is food enough reason to bail out.
Why is he not working ?
Slow down on the stress.Things kan only get better.

yes cos of the miscarriages and he is not doing anytin to get job, i hv tired to assist him in business severally but he is not doing anytin tin to surport me to be able raise d capital cos i pay d whole bails.

dayokanu: When I get money she go call me honey when money finish she go call me monkey

When he get money he was sweetheart, When he no get he is called Delta man
The best thing is to divorce him like you said, Because your husband too would have seen the change in your attitude and he is probably waiting for him to get back on his feet before he shows you.

Nigerian women and money sha. Pets are even more loyal than some of them. They are only married to the money

is not about money is about suporting each other n i hv tired it severally but it didn't work.

Gaggi: Quit? Just like that? The way u people throw around the word 'divorce' these days, why marry at all? Pls free the poor man o and go for ur MR Perfect.

i never wnted d divorce but he s not helping assuming he struggling like me, i won't hv complained.

kreami diva: How long have you been married for



At the bolded,this is a marriage not a relationship. You don't "quit" at the slightest challenge that you face.



This implies that he was working previously. Help him. Pray for him and send in applications on his behalf. Things will look up for you.

Its well.

a year and some months, i feel like am in a bondage, he is not a graduate, he was working b4 but he resigned dat they don't pay them in time. i hv tired business for him but to no avail....

@Op, dont ever think of quitting ur marriage, Is ur hubby not usually bothered about d miscarriages, if it bothers him also then wen u take in again go easy on urself.


There's no need to encumber urself with too much expenses, u r just two after d usual feedin and probably house rent(which is not even as recurrent as d feedin) wot else do u spend money on, rearrange ur expenses so that it will satisfy u guys.


Above all the God factor is very important to help u with everything, ur pregnancy weneva u take in, and ur hubby's job, pray together about everythin and God will help u.

homesteady: Is your husband lazy? Is he struggling to find a job? Or is he just comfortable the way he is?
If he is comfortable, then just quit the marriage! You can't be over-stressing yourself over some lazy butt!
From what you said, it seems you don't have a child for him, so a divorce is just the best option!

he quit were he was working b4 cos they don't pay them in time, i hv tired to open business for him, then just for him to raise money for shop so dat i can raise d capital but to no avail....

Marriages just like life r not bed of roses. They come with difficulties. Ur husband might be frustrated n this is probably his way of dealing with it. Have u tried talking to him. I think a third party is seriously feeding u with the negatives. U know d right thing so do it.

Women like to talk and get their points across.
But have U sat him down just to hear his side?
U say he is not helping and he is not making efforts to help.
But have U given him a chance to help? Do U encourage him? Do U make him feel capable?
Or U accuse him all day, calling him names like 'Delta man'....

Wow! All these women that has responded to Delta-man's wife has given me hope that all is not lost after all. I congratulate all your hubbies and to be hubbies for landing the rare gems of our 21st century. God bless you all.