Yes maybe i'm lucky to have one of the few independent(no demanding)girl as my girlfriend.
Many times she smartly offers to pay for our fare just before i reachout for my wallet, and would insist in paying if i try to stop her,which somtimes i look irresponsible in the sight of fellow passengers. Recently i went on my own to a boutique and got some items as gift for her atleast for the festive period but chose to keep it for the magical and a romantic day to offer the gift. In her own case, she cajouled me and lured me into a mall,thinking she was going to get stuffs for her younger bro only for her to make me pick nice items, which she paid for and refused my contribution by telling me they ar meant for her brother,on getting back home she forward the item into my room and then smiled as she said 'actualy they are yours' so i became confused as i didnt know how to react.

..I was mute for seconds, but later showed appreciation, though some dont see this atitude of hers as odd but thats how i see it, seems like she doesnt know she makes me feel incapable when she does this things in the public, like shes robbing me of a man's responsibility,i wish to take the leading role in all ramification and at thesame time, i dont know how to curb her.
Whats your take people? I need clues please..

Take a leaf from her book and surprise her too;

Maybe she is generous, I don't think she means anything by it.

Take her out treat her and insist she leaves her purse at home.

Hmmm...Maybe this will help, thank u